Loving in Secret: Felice Cohen on Coming Out Through Memoir (Encore)

In this deeply moving encore episode of Profiles in LGBTQ+ Courage, host Rick Koonce sits down with author Felice Cohen to explore love, secrecy, identity, and healing through storytelling. Felice shares the story behind her memoir Half In, which chronicles her nine-year, deeply intimate relationship with a woman 34 years older—her first experience of true love—at a time when she was still discovering her sexuality and sense of self.

What began as a secret May-December affair became a formative coming-of-age experience that shaped Felice's understanding of intimacy, fear, and emotional risk. In conversation with Rick, she reflects on the power of writing as a tool for grief, self-acceptance, and liberation, and how bringing her story out of the shadows allowed her to finally be "all in" with life and love. Felice also speaks candidly about bisexual identity, family acceptance, and the long-term impact of loving while closeted.

This episode is a powerful testament to the courage it takes to examine our past honestly and to release shame in order to make room for love again.

Key takeaways:

• Why secrecy can shape — and limit — emotional intimacy
• How writing can become a form of healing and self-reclamation
• What it means to move from being "half in" to fully open to love

More About Felice Cohen:

• Website: https://www.felicecohen.com/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/felicecohenauthor
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicecohen90/
• Substack: https://felicecohen.substack.com/
• Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0045EEHMO/allbooks

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and reach out for connection, support, or conversation sparked by this episode.

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