Love Is Stronger Than Hate with Chris Singleton

Jason is joined by his friend, Chris Singleton, for a powerful and inspiring conversation about love being stronger than hate. Please rate and review the podcast to help amplify these messages to others! Summary: In a polarized world, how do the most effective leaders foster unity and performance? In this live episode from Thermostat Cultures Live, Jason V Barger sits down with former professional baseball player and inspirational speaker Chris Singleton. Born from the tragedy of the Charleston church shooting, Chris's message of resilience challenges leaders to rethink how they navigate adversity and influence their teams. This conversation moves beyond standard leadership platitudes to address the core mechanics of human connection in the workplace. Jason and Chris explore the concept of "catalysts"—individuals who alter the trajectory of our lives—and discuss how executives can become those catalysts for their own organizations. They also deconstruct the traditional view of accountability, shifting it from a punitive measure to a reciprocal tool that builds trust and reinforces positive behavior. Essential listening for C-Suite executives, HR directors, and team leaders committed to shaping compelling cultures, this episode offers actionable insights on emotional intelligence, the cost of grace, and the power of shared ownership. Episode Notes & Timestamps: [00:00] Intro: Jason welcomes listeners into the room at Thermostat Cultures Live, setting the stage for a conversation on authentic leadership. [00:02] Meet Chris Singleton: Introduction to Chris's background as a former Chicago Cubs draftee and his pivot to inspirational speaking following the tragedy in Charleston, SC. [00:04] Identifying Your "Catalysts": Chris identifies the three pivotal figures who shaped his worldview on love and leadership: his high school coach, his wife, and a mentor who taught him financial literacy. [00:07] Owning the Mistake: A look at Starbucks' response to crisis as a case study in corporate accountability and the importance of leaders owning their shortcomings to build empathy. [00:09] Redefining Accountability: Jason and Chris discuss why accountability is often viewed negatively and how to reframe it as a reciprocal, "two-way street" that acknowledges positive actions as much as negative ones. [00:14] The Wellness-Performance Connection: Insights from the room on how the well-being of employees directly correlates to high performance and trust within an organization. [00:15] Who Carries the Culture?: A critical question for every executive: Does the culture survive and thrive when leadership is not in the room? [00:18] The Cost of Grace: A profound discussion on forgiveness in leadership and life—why grace often costs more for the giver than the receiver, and how to maintain boundaries while moving forward. Key Takeaways for Leaders: Reciprocal Accountability: Shift your team's mindset to view accountability as mutual support rather than top-down policing. Culture Ownership: Strategies to ensure your organizational values are upheld by every employee, not just senior management. Resilience: How to use personal adversity as a foundation for empathetic and strong leadership. Listen to the full episode and access show notes at: https://jasonvbarger.com/podcast/love-is-stronger-than-hate-chris-singleton/ Bio: Jason Barger is a husband, father, speaker, and author who is passionate about business leadership and corporate culture. He believes that corporate culture is the "thermostat" of an organization, and that it can be used to drive performance, innovation, and engagement. The show features interviews with business leaders from a variety of industries, as well as solo episodes where Barger shares his own insights and advice. Connect: Subscribe to our channel: https://www.youtube.com/@JasonVBarger Make Your 2026 Effective! Book Jason with your team at https://www.jasonvbarger.com Like or Follow Jason 👍 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasonbarger/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasonvbarger/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jasonvbarger/ X: https://x.com/JasonvBarger