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You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that.

Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and the relationship when someone has one? And what do you do when you or your partner has a fetish?

time stamps:

0:00 Intro
5:30 Difference between fetish, kink, & paraphilia
6:20 How does a fetish form and who has them
12:00 Foot Fetish 15:00 Age Play 18:14 Pet Play
22:44 Attraction to Clowns
28:00 Attraction to people with amputations
33:00 Adult Baby Diaper Fetish
36:00 Somnophilia & Dormaphilia
42:00 Human Furniture
48:00 Erotic Hypnosis

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Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize.

Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone.

In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kink moves — each one a phrase paired with a physical technique — that make sex better for both of you. And by move 5, you'll understand why she starts initiating.

What you'll learn:
✔ Why "good girl" does more than an hour of thrusting
✔ The word + touch combinations that trigger arousal she can't fake
✔ How to use praise during edging to create the most intense experience she's ever had
✔ The 60-second move after she finishes that makes her want you again

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Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity.

We get into:

• What separates a sex addict from someone who just really loves sex
• Why infidelity doesn't equal addiction — and why that label can do real damage
• How shame and secrecy fuel compulsive sexual patterns
• The kink vs. addiction confusion that's quietly destroying relationships
• What's actually underneath sex addiction (it's not what you think)
• What treatment looks like — and why the goal is never abstinence

If you've ever wondered whether your own patterns — or your partner's — cross a line, this episode gives you the framework to actually figure it out.

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