In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I sit down with Cristina Padilla to chat about the underrepresented Latiné experience in diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work. We explore complex themes like humility, conflict resolution, and the impact of cultural nuances on leadership. We get into why the Latiné voice is often missing in DEI spaces and Cristina provides insights into broader challenges. Join our conversation!

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Cristina Padilla is a Latina leadership scholar, consultant, and leadership coach. Her research agenda encompasses assessing the impact of culturally relevant leadership development programs and coaching for Latinx populations, Latina leader identity development and the creation of a game-based leadership development workshop “El Rio de Dichos.” She has several first-authored, peer reviewed publications in academic journals.

To get in touch with Cristina, you can contact her here:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristinaapadilla/

EPISODE CHAPTERS

00:00 Settling In

02:13 Meet Cristina Padilla

03:12 The Latiné Voice in DEI Work

06:21 Cultural Barriers and Conflict Resolution

08:48 The Impact of Underrepresentation

14:16 Navigating Identity and Authenticity

27:04 Leadership Responsibility and Accountability

38:53 The Complexity of Latino Identity Terms

44:56 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I chat with Jared Zachary about the intricacies of navigating relationships and needs assessments within organizations. We highlight the various methods of conducting needs assessments, such as surveys and focus groups, noting their strengths and limitations. We also name the importance of addressing emotions, fears, and resistance that arise during organizational change initiatives. Personal anecdotes and professional insights illustrate the delicate balance between strategic tasks and emotional intelligence essential for meaningful and sustainable improvements.

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To get in touch with Jared Zachary, you can contact him here:

• https://www.instagram.com/medicinalmelanin_/

• jaredzachary.work

EPISODE CHAPTERS

00:00 Setting the Stage

01:30 Jared Zachary

04:16 Needs Assessments

07:25 Methods

14:38 Challenges

16:59 Phases

26:43 Clinical Aspects

28:58 Push Back with Validating Qualitative Data

31:10 Emotional Impact on Staff and Leaders

35:03 Implementing Actionable Change

47:52 Addressing White Supremacy in Research

50:42 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I chat with Julieta Arámburo to explore the first-gen experience and its implications in professional settings. Julieta shares her personal journey as a first-generation college graduate, her struggles with imposter syndrome, and her career in higher education. We touch on concepts like hidden curriculum, the importance of community and support systems, and actionable steps for educators and professionals to better support first-gen students and colleagues.

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• https://www.linkedin.com/in/julieta-aramburo/

EPISODE CHAPTERS

00:00 Settling In

01:34 Julieta's Background and Journey

09:07 Defining First-Gen Experience

17:22 Challenges and Hidden Curriculum

22:48 Imposter Syndrome in Higher Education

27:01 Transitioning to the Workplace

31:24 Supporting First-Gen Students and Professionals

38:46 Call to Action and Resources

41:03 Conclusion and Contact Information

In this episode, I talk with Donovan Ackley III about people and communities with lower representation in professional settings and how that shows up in DEI work. Donovan shares his personal journey, highlighting how his experiences have shaped his understanding of self in workplaces and life in general. The discussion hones in on the importance of lived experiences and genuine relationships in DEI, while also addressing common fears and the challenges of being performative. This episode provides invaluable insights for anyone looking to deepen their understanding and practice of DEI in their professional and personal lives.

Our Guest

Donovan Ackley III, Ph.D. is a full-time researcher with San Diego State University Research Foundation. An educator and Peer Support Specialist with 30+ years experience in grassroots community organizing and non-profit work, he helped launch the national peer support suicide prevention nonprofit Trans Lifeline with and for trans, nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, and intersex people. Donovan applies his Ph.D. in philosophy of religion and his certifications as a Drug and Alcohol Counselor and Peer Support Specialist to LGBTQI+ wellness and recovery from religious trauma, especially at intersections of religion and gender. As a religious studies professor, he taught in the UC system and private universities in world religions, American religions, theology, church history, and trauma-informed yoga; has written and co-authored several books including the two-volume Queer Liberation Theology and Praxis, and appeared as a contributing scholar in the 2019 documentary film Intersex and Faith.

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• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donovan-ackley-iii-ph-d
• Academia Author Pagehttps://sdsu.academia.edu/DonovanAckleyIII
• Amazon Author Pagehttps://www.amazon.com/Donovan-Ackley-III/e/B089TZQMJM%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share
• “Infinite and Unbounded Grace - Donovan Ackley III” (2021) Van Ness Creativehttps://vimeo.com/599710384

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Setting the Stage

01:21 Guest Donovan Ackley III

07:02 Erasure in DEI

07:49 Real-World Impacts and Personal Reflections

11:03 Identities and Trauma

15:23 Challenges in Professional Settings

23:38 The Fear of Not Knowing

30:44 Overcoming the Fear

37:00 Challenges of DEI Work

45:32 Building Genuine Relationships

48:18 Humility and Learning

51:56 Embracing Mistakes and Learning from Them

56:59 Final Thoughts

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I chat with Arlene Limas, a lifelong martial artist, Olympic gold medalist, and violence prevention expert. There was so much to learn when we unpacked the spectrum of violence in professional settings. Topics like the concept of 'human safety skills,' barriers to addressing violence in at work, the critical role of bystander intervention, and the challenges faced by middle management in implementing these changes we the highlights for me. I believe there is helpful, practical takeaways for people responsible for and contributing to creating safe and healthy cultures.

Our Guest

Deemed one of the greatest Taekwondo athletes of the 20th century, Arlene Limas made history on September 17, 1988, when she became the first American, the first female to win a Gold Medal at the 24th Olympic Games in Seoul, Korea, in the sport of Tae Kwon Do. In May of 1993, Arlene opened her own school, Power Kix Martial Arts, located in Stafford, breaking the glass ceiling for other women. After several expansions, her current 12,500 sq ft facility has been kicking, literally, for 30 years.

Arlene Limas seeks to advocate for personal safety and empower entire corporations in her role as the CEO of PAVE Prevention. Her vision is to connect high-level programming with corporations and organizations, addressing counterproductive work behaviors that may lead to low productivity, tardiness, absenteeism, and high turnover. PAVE’s evidence-based, trauma-informed programming will empower employees and members with the tools for better performance, stronger engagement, and healthier work culture.

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To get in touch with Arlene Limas, you can contact her here:

• Website: www.paveprevention.com
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arlene-limas-oly-414a657b/

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Setting the Stage

01:24 Introducing Arlene Limas

04:18 Human Safety Skills

05:21 Violence Prevention in DEI Work

09:07 Real-Life Scenarios and Training

11:53 Creating Safe and Supportive Work Environments

28:42 Workplace Struggles and Mental Health

30:43 Building Trust and Accountability in Teams

31:48 Leadership and Accountability

39:36 Middle Management Challenges

42:26 Practical Steps for Violence Prevention

50:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, Kim Mettler and I talk about layers of accountability that are commonly missed within the context of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work. We share personal stories while weaving the concepts together as they are all related and significant impact organizations' ability to create safe and healthy communal spaces at work.

Our Guest

Kim serves in many roles: coach, facilitator, trainer, mediator, leader, advocate, mentor and “recovering attorney.” She inspires reflection, learning and growth through her ability to co-create supportive spaces and to help build bridges between differing perspectives and experiences. Kim has a unique ability to quickly gain peoples’ trust through her sense of humor, grounding energy and authenticity. Kim’s resilience-oriented work is informed by her lived experience and more than 25 years working with Native American activists and in/on behalf of Native Nations. Of Ukrainian German and Jewish descent and a citizen of the Mandan, Arikara and Hidatsa Nation, Kim is rooted in her cultural values of connection, community, equity and healing. To maintain a full-cup for her work, Kim enjoys being outdoors, creating ceramic and mixed media art, storytelling, cooking, yoga and is a dedicated nap-taker.

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• Email: heartrivercoaching (AT) gmail.com

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Setting the Stage 03:08 Kim Mettler's Journey and Advocacy Work 08:52 Accountability and Community Impact 21:17 Safety and Discomfort in Conversations 27:41 Skill Sets in Feedback and Reflection 29:58 Intent vs. Impact 34:37 The Nuances of Accountability and Safety 40:11 Creating Supportive and Accountable Environments 48:42 Leadership, Inquiry, and Cultivating Open Spaces 54:26 Continuous Learning and Growth 57:05 Wrap Up

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I chat with Gina Amato, a long-time friend, social justice attorney and the directing attorney of the Immigrant Rights Project at Public Council, and we get into the concept of context appropriateness when addressing white supremacy culture in professional settings. We explore the nuances of real-life scenarios and interactions in workplaces, emphasizing the importance of understanding and unpacking the layers of in our identities and being curious of others. Our convo highlights the need for self-awareness and reflection in recognizing and challenging the norms of white supremacy culture, calling attention to the significance of relational approaches and creating spaces for authentic self-expression to invite a safer, more inclusive environment.

Our Guest

Gina Amato Lough is the Directing Attorney of Public Counsel’s Immigrants’ Rights Project. She leads a 30-member team of attorneys, paralegals, administrative staff, and social workers who serve asylum seekers, immigrants in detention, survivors of violent crime, unaccompanied children, and victims of notario fraud. Her team works toward a world where all (im)migrants live with dignity, power, and opportunity.

Gina has been a public interest attorney and community leader for over twenty years. She joined Public Counsel in 2008, and for 14 years, she led the Immigrants’ Rights Project’s Survivor Team. The Survivor Team provides holistic services to immigrant survivors from a trauma-informed, client-centered perspective. In addition, Gina has engaged in widespread policy advocacy to protect the rights of immigrant survivors, and has worked in partnership with governmental and non-profit organizations to launch a campaign to combat notario fraud – a type of legal services fraud that is devastating to immigrant communities.

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• Email: chickawapinc (AT) yahoo.com

Episode Chapters

00:00 Setting the Stage 01:32 Reminiscing Past Experiences and Connections 02:50 Gina's Professional Journey and Personal Background 06:34 Context Appropriateness in Addressing White Supremacy Culture 08:05 Exploring the Concept of White Supremacy Culture 11:47 The Impact of White Supremacy Culture in the Workplace 13:28 Authenticity and Professionalism in the Workplace 25:15 Intersection of Race and Gender in Workplace Norms 28:01 Facing Consequences for Expressing Anger 30:26 The Human Element in Leadership 31:42 The Misconception of White Supremacy Culture 34:25 The Danger of Weaponizing White Supremacy Characteristics 36:49 Intersectionality of White Supremacy Culture 38:39 Personal Experience with White Supremacy Culture 50:51 The Importance of Authenticity in the Workplace 54:10 Wrapping Up: Contact Information and Final Thoughts

In this episode of the Living Out Loud Discussion Series, I chat with Lindsay Messoline in a candid conversation about understanding and responsibly using privilege. Our discussion covers personal stories, acknowledging privilege's complexities, and the challenge of bringing one's whole self—including various privileges—to professional environments and discussions on diversity, equity, and inclusion. We stress the importance of being aware of oneself, understanding the systemic contexts in which emotions and reactions occur, and the growth that comes from staying present in discomfort. Lindsay shares her journey from a transformative educational experience in Ethnic Studies to becoming an advocate for education and DEI-related efforts, as well as insights into managing internal reactions in tense situations. The goal of this episode is to model openness and provide insights into developing a healthier relationship with privilege.

Our Guest

Lindsay Messoline is an educator and writer with over 20 years of serving students from marginalized, minoritized and racialized populations. She has worked with refugees and migrants in Oregon and Tijuana, Mexico, and formerly-incarcerated and currently-incarcerated individuals in Los Angeles and New York. Her specialties include GED and adult high school completion, foundational literacy and math, English and Spanish-language acquisition, and fostering a sense of self-esteem, self-love and confidence through education. She is highly experienced in curriculum development and design, and works to center people with diverse perspectives to create material that truly serves all learners. In 2021, she founded Collaborative Voices Initiative in order to amplify traditionally-excluded voices in education and beyond. She is a published author and a contributing writer to Educate, a publication on Medium.

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• IG: @lindsay.messoline and @‌collaborative_voices
• Website: http://CollaborativeVoices.co

Episode Chapters

00:00 Setting the Stage 01:16 Intro to Lindsay Messoline 05:28 Past Experiences and Assumptions 07:16 Understanding Privilege: A Deep Dive 10:19 Lindsay's Personal Experiences with Privilege 12:06 The Intersectionality of Privilege 23:09 Lindsay’s Story 29:28 Privilege in Different Contexts 32:36 Competition in Oppression 42:25 Emotions in Understanding Privilege 44:19 Process of Engaging with Privilege 46:50 Discomfort in Understanding Privilege 55:20 Conclusion: The Ongoing Journey of Understanding Privilege