We all want to understand ourselves — and the people we love. But can a personality test really tell you who you are? Or who someone else is? They can help, sure. But be careful they don’t become boxes. Real love means seeing beyond type, mood, or instinct — and asking: what’s really going on in this person’s heart?

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Little by Little | Episode #230

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Is it possible to love someone — and still have them feel unloved? In this episode, we explore the power of the five love languages and how miscommunication can keep us from truly connecting. Whether in marriage, friendship, or family, learning how someone receives love can transform your relationships. This isn’t manipulation — it’s intentional love, the kind Jesus calls us to.

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Little by Little | Episode #229

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How often do we go straight from emotion to decision—and regret it? In this episode, Fr Columba explores how feelings, while real, aren’t the full truth. He shares how rushing to judgment—about others or ourselves—can cement false beliefs and break relationships. Discover how to pause, involve your intellect, and make decisions rooted in truth and freedom, not just feeling.

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Little by Little | Episode #228

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How do you keep going when faith feels like a struggle? In this episode, Fr Columba shares a simple but life-changing shift: doing everything for the love of God. From prayer to penance, from everyday chores to major decisions, discover how love transforms even the hardest tasks.

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Little by Little | Episode #227

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Do you ever feel discouraged when others succeed—like there’s not enough goodness left for you? In this episode, Fr Columba breaks open the difference between jealousy and envy, and how envy poisons our joy, blocks gratitude, and distances us from God. Discover how to move from envy to freedom by learning to rejoice in the good, trust in God’s generosity, and receive His personal love for you.

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Little by Little | Episode #226

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Why do we chase love that hurts us? Why is it so hard to receive real love? Many of us carry unmet childhood needs into adulthood, leaving us stuck in unhealthy patterns. In this episode, Fr Columba helps us recognise our emotional wounds, stop self-sabotaging relationships, and open ourselves to authentic love—from God, from others and for ourselves.

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Little by Little | Episode #225

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Why Do We Choose Unhealthy Relationships? In this vulnerable and powerful reflection, Fr. Columba explores why we’re often drawn to relationships that don’t serve us—and how our deepest wounds can shape who we’re attracted to. He challenges us to confront the lies we believe about ourselves, uncover patterns of shame and self-hate, and invite Jesus into the healing process. God has more for you—freedom, love, and the truth of your worth.

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Little by Little | Episode #224

Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaboration with the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal. Our host, Fr Columba Jordan CFR, brings you quality Catholic content with new episodes every Thursday at 9pm GMT. Be sure to subscribe!

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What should you do when someone really gets under your skin? What if God is using that person to change you? In this episode, Fr Columba explores how annoying people can become instruments of grace. Drawing from Scripture, the saints, and real-life experience, he unpacks how God uses friction to purify us, humble us and teach us love.

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Little by Little | Episode #223

Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaboration with the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal. Our host, Fr Columba Jordan CFR, brings you quality Catholic content with new episodes every Thursday at 9pm GMT. Be sure to subscribe!

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