The Truth About Empaths, Childhood Trauma, and Shadow Work

Are empaths born—or made?

In this eye-opening episode, Lisa A. Romano, Breakthrough Life Coach and bestselling author, explores the origin of empathic sensitivity and its powerful connection to childhood trauma, emotional wounding, and spiritual purpose.

Some empaths are created through painful early experiences—rejection, abandonment, emotional neglect, and feeling unseen. These wounds condition the developing brain into hypervigilance, keeping the child’s psyche locked in "scanning mode." When a child is forced to tune into the emotions and behavior of others to feel safe, they become disconnected from their true self—and this is the breeding ground for codependency.

Other empaths are born, arriving with a spiritual assignment. Their nervous systems and emotional bodies are designed to feel what others suppress. Often, these empathic souls absorb the denied pain of their caregivers—especially unhealed maternal figures. Over time, these empaths become sensitive not just to individual pain, but to the collective suffering that society ignores.

But without proper tools, empaths can become emotionally capsized, overwhelmed by the very gift they were meant to use consciously. That’s why Lisa teaches empaths how to use symbols, metaphors, and boundaries to reframe their experience, and to reclaim the connection to self that trauma stole.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone who:

• Feels deeply affected by other people’s moods and energies

• Grew up walking on emotional eggshells

• Struggles with codependency, people-pleasing, or emotional burnout

• Wants to understand the true purpose behind their empathic gifts

You’ll also learn why many empaths feel called to “fix” or “rescue” others—and why this often stems from unresolved inner child wounds, not divine purpose. Healing begins when we stop absorbing and start integrating.

Lisa shares why true transformation for empaths lies in shadow work, conscious integration, and elevating the nervous system. Those brave enough to face their own shadows don't just heal themselves—they become vessels for generational healing.

✨ Pro tip: You may want to listen to this episode more than once. It’s packed with golden nuggets that could change your life.

Begin Your Healing Journey:

Lisa introduces her signature 12 Week Breakthrough Method—a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based coaching program created specifically for adult children of narcissistic, neglectful, or emotionally immature caregivers.

Inside the program, you'll be guided through:

• Brain retraining techniques rooted in neuroscience
• Inner child healing and self-concept reorganization
• Neuroscience Backed Journaling prompts and assessments to increase self-awareness
• Tools to stop subconscious self-abandonment and start living from your true self
• Embrace shadow work from a higher state of consciousness to experience integration

This method has helped thousands heal from complex trauma and break toxic generational patterns, with tools to rewire limiting beliefs and build authentic self-worth.

👉 Learn more: here

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What happens when the very people who were supposed to love us, protect us, and cherish us turn out to be the source of our deepest pain?

In this revealing episode, Lisa A. Romano, trauma-informed life coach and codependency recovery expert, explores the heartbreaking reality behind why so many children grow up loving the very people who harmed them—and how this sets the stage for adult codependency.

From narcissistic parents to emotionally neglectful caregivers, this episode dives into the psychology behind trauma bonding, betrayal blindness, and why our subconscious minds cling to toxic dynamics. Lisa unpacks the emotional and neurological imprinting that causes children—and later, adults—to overlook red flags and remain loyal to harmful people.

In this episode, you’ll discover:
🔍 Why the most dangerous people are often the ones closest to us
🧠 How childhood trauma wires the brain for survival, not clarity
💔 The tragic link between emotional betrayal and codependency
🪞 Why children internalize the abuse and blame themselves
🔁 How unresolved childhood wounds manifest as self-abandonment, people-pleasing, and unhealthy adult relationships

This episode is for you if:
✔️ You struggle to set boundaries with family or romantic partners
✔️ You feel guilt or shame for distancing yourself from toxic loved ones
✔️ You often feel drawn to fix, rescue, or gain approval from others
✔️ You suspect your past is still impacting your relationships today

Resources Mentioned:
🌱 Start your healing journey with Lisa’s groundbreaking 12 Week Breakthrough Program
👉 https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

📘 Watch Lisa’s related video: Why You Still Love the Person Who Hurt You
👉 YouTube Channel – Lisa A. Romano

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Why do we cling to people who hurt us? Why does the fear of abandonment feel so unbearable? In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, expert in trauma recovery and codependency healing, unpacks the powerful link between attachment theory and codependency.

From early childhood dynamics to the subconscious fears that drive our adult relationships, Lisa breaks down how insecure attachment styles—like anxious or avoidant—set the stage for emotional dependency, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment.

If you've ever felt like you're addicted to love, overly responsible for others, or terrified of being alone, this episode will help you trace those patterns back to their origin—so you can begin to heal them.

In this episode, you'll learn:
What attachment theory is—and how it relates to codependency
How unmet childhood needs create fear-based attachment styles
Why codependents often attract emotionally unavailable partners
How anxious attachment leads to over-functioning in relationships
Steps to begin forming healthier, more secure connections

This episode is for you if you:
✔️ Fear abandonment or rejection in relationships
✔️ Struggle to speak your truth or set healthy boundaries
✔️ Feel responsible for other people’s emotions
✔️ Tend to give more than you receive in friendships or love

Resources Mentioned:
🌱 Begin healing your attachment wounds with the 12 Week Breakthrough Program
👉 https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

🎓 Learn more about attachment theory and recovery on Lisa’s YouTube channel
👉 YouTube – Lisa A. Romano

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