Let Them: Emotional Freedom Meets Financial Clarity in Divorce

In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew unpack the viral “Let Them” theory popularized by Mel Robbins—and apply it to the high-stress, emotionally charged context of divorce. While “letting them” can sound passive, Catherine and Karen reveal how it’s actually a strategy grounded in smart decision-making and emotional control. Learn how to let go of reactionary behaviors, protect your finances, and focus on what truly matters for your future. Why reacting to your ex’s antics may cost you—emotionally and financially How “Let Them” becomes powerful when paired with financial clarity When to act, when to document, and when to simply pause Tools to track spending, identify emergencies, and stay grounded Why documentation is your best protection—not retaliation How the MDS Financial Portrait™ empowers you to respond with confidence Pause before reacting—use the “24-hour panic rule” Let your ex propose, spend, and posture—while you document Track joint spending, freeze credit lines if needed, and know your cash flow Use what you learn in the process to strengthen your negotiation power Don’t agree to anything—mediation or otherwise—without financial clarity Are you struggling to “let them”? Do you need support in creating financial guardrails during divorce? Leave a comment or question, and we’ll respond in a future episode. Email us [e-mail] What You'll Learn:Practical Tips:Join the Conversation: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices