Episodios

  • Practical Potty Parent Practice

    Practical Potty Parent Practice
    Apr 4 2026
    Child readiness for toilet learning Toilet Learning Philosophy & Readiness Adult readiness more critical than child readiness • Adults must have bandwidth to support child through incompetence-to-competence phase • Adult anxiety transfers to child, reducing learning capacity • Key question: Can adult maintain calm during transitional space? Child readiness indicators • Natural curiosity about potty (wanting to sit, try, emulate adults) • Curiosity wanes when effort feels challenging • Can child tolerate discomfort when effort > reward? Three learning stages 1 Effort much greater than reward (hardest phase) 2 Effort equals reward 3 Effort becomes easier, reward greater (integrated/automatic) Direct vs Indirect Learning Strategy Maximize indirect learning before potty expectations • Healthy adult modeling and body talk outside bathroom • Play props and toys around potty concepts (not in bathroom) • Books, songs, visuals about body processes • Reduces performance anxiety in actual bathroom moments Formal learning begins with underwear transition • Children learn by doing, not just observing (swimming pool analogy) • Must wear underwear before mastering skills (expect accidents initially) • Keeping diapers while expecting consistent potty requests is unrealistic • Children understand: diapers = pee/poop, underwear = different expectation Body Boss Language Framework Replace “big kid” language with “body boss” • Avoids developmental struggle of wanting to be big vs baby • Emphasizes empowerment and body ownership • “You have an important job” vs “you’re a big kid” • Normalize “listening to your body” and “taking care of your body” across all activities Key phrases to use • “Missing the signal” instead of asking “did you poop?” • “Your body’s figuring out how to feel comfortable” vs “you should be able to…” • “It’s not happening yet” vs “it’s not happening” • Tag words: yet, soon, just a matter of time Handling Poop Resistance Treat peeing and pooping as separate skills • Different body parts, consistency, pressure • Give permission to ask for pull-up when feeling poop urge • Celebrate progress: “toilet bowl is half full” Prevent withholding behaviors • Getting poop out of body trumps potty success • Withholding causes constipation, behavioral issues, reduced bandwidth • Offer dignified alternatives (pull-up, permission to soil underwear) Response approach • Reduce adult energy/focus around the struggle area • Slow things down, reduce urgency • Continue indirect learning without performance pressure Practical Implementation Potty equipment choices • Offer both little potty and toilet seat attachment • Let child choose which feels safer • Feet firmly planted important for bowel movements Nighttime readiness • 5 consecutive nights of dry pull-ups • Check earlier than usual wake time to distinguish holding vs morning release Launching process • Start at home, not school • Long weekend good for formal launch • Don’t go back and forth between diapers/underwear (confusing) • Reset to diapers okay if stress becomes excessive Resources & Support Diaper Doggy book • Creates ritual for transition (like Tooth Fairy) • Uses body boss language throughout • Available at Barnes & Noble (not Amazon) Joan’s consultation services • Virtual coaching: $25/30min, $50/hour through medical practice • Personalized social stories available • Works with families nationwide Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    58 m
  • Toddlers to Teens with Mindy Becker (Teen Series Below)

    Toddlers to Teens with Mindy Becker (Teen Series Below)
    Jan 4 2025
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    56 m
  • How to Motivate Children with Laura Markham

    How to Motivate Children with Laura Markham
    Dec 23 2024
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    56 m
  • HELLO BROOKLYN with Mindy Becker

    HELLO BROOKLYN with Mindy Becker
    Dec 11 2024
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    1 h y 9 m
  • The Power of Music with Laurie Berkner

    The Power of Music with Laurie Berkner
    Nov 26 2024
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    54 m
  • Human Tracking with Erin Williamson

    Human Tracking with Erin Williamson
    Nov 19 2024
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    50 m
  • The Journey of the Magical Teacher

    The Journey of the Magical Teacher
    Nov 12 2024
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    58 m
  • Reparenting with Crystal

    Reparenting with Crystal
    Nov 5 2024
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    45 m