🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven – 13 July 2025
“It’s better to be a tiger for one day than a sheep for a thousand years.” -Tibetan Maxim

Here’s a vision for you:
Elon Musk doesn’t wait for perfect conditions to launch rockets.
Beyoncé doesn’t ask permission before dropping an album.
Richard Branson doesn’t wait for certainty before starting a new business.

They move.

Meanwhile, many of us stay stuck- thinking. Re-thinking. Waiting for the perfect moment.

And to remind: These Sunday resets? They’re a space to breathe, reflect, and sharpen your human edge.

This week, I found myself wrestling with my own tendency to overthink.

Iam naturally spontaneous and decisive. But even I slip into “analysis mode”- trying to map every risk, every scenario, before taking the first step.

And you know what I’ve learned the hard way?

While you’re mapping… life is moving.

So here’s a 3 part formula, honed in from my own mentors and my journeys, and I share with leaders I work with:

1️⃣ The decision matters less than the actions that follow.

A decision is just a single spark. The fire comes from the actions you stack on top of it.

The best leaders don’t wait for perfect choices. They choose -and then keep choosing, refining through action, and maintaining a high inner energy.

2️⃣ Trust your adaptability -not just your plans.

Mike Tyson once said:

“Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.”

Planning is good. But your real superpower is your ability to pivot when the unexpected hits.

This week, I was in the thick of a fast-moving project. We launched quickly, hit unforeseen barriers -but adapted because the team stayed connected, creative, and calm. (Yes there were conflicts too, and we returned to the goal!)

And as Les Brown reminds us:

“If you don’t program yourself, life will program you. Draw your own map.”
Overthinking waits for someone else’s map. Leadership is grabbing your own pen.

3️⃣ Most decisions are reversible.

Jeff Bezos breaks decisions into two types:

Type 1 → One-way doors. Big, high-stakes, hard to reverse.
Type 2 → Two-way doors. Lower stakes. Easy to reverse.

Most decisions? They’re two-way doors.
Try it!

If it doesn’t work out, you can pivot, adjust, and move forward stronger.

This connects with a principle I love from Daniel Priestley Oversubscribed:

“People want to join movements, not just buy products.”
Momentum is magnetic.

Waiting for perfect clarity? That’s how businesses-and people -get left behind - in life and business.

“The world rewards those who ship. Not those who endlessly overthink”

So here’s my prompt for you this week:
🔷 What’s one decision you’ve been overthinking… that you could simply act on today?

Because hey .. Tigers change their world -even for a day.

And overthinking? It won’t build your future. Only action will.
Yes, with inspired action combined with higher inner vibration.

This is your hashtag#SundayReset.
I’m Steven.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it!

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🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven – 5 July 2025

Soil, Circles or Spirals? Think of Oprah. Cristiano Ronaldo. Lady Gaga.

Ever wonder why some people shine for decades - while others burn bright, then fade?

It’s not just talent.
It’s the soil they’re planted in.

→ The people around them.
→ The habits they nurture.
→ The spaces they create for their own growth.

Because greatness isn’t just what’s in you.
It’s also where you’re planted.

This week, a story kept echoing in my mind- the Parable of the Sower from the Gospel of Matthew:

A farmer plants seeds.
Some fall on rocky ground - no roots.
Some fall among thorns - choked out.
But some fall on good soil - and produce an abundant harvest.

Even the best seeds can’t thrive in the wrong ground.

I felt it myself this week - pushing hard on certain goals, yet spinning my wheels.

A friend shared a new perspective on Thursday when I met them for lunch:

Picture a spiral staircase.

Sometimes, it feels like you’re just going in circles.
Same steps. Same views.

But zoom out - and you’ll see:
Every turn lifts you higher.

→ Even if it doesn’t feel like progress right now.

🎬 Denzel Washington once said:

“Ease is a greater threat to progress than hardship.”

And here’s my take:
A certain kind of ease matters -the kind that keeps you in a higher energetic state. Calm. Focused. Clear.

→ When you’re in that vibration, you make better decisions.
→ You avoid chaos and climb your spiral instead of running in circles.

Your environment - the soil you’re planted in- either lifts you up the spiral… or keeps you circling at the same level.

Here’s my prompt for your week:

Are you stuck in circles - or slowly rising on your spiral?

Because progress often hides where you least expect it.
And your roots - and your mission -deserve good soil.

This is your #SundayReset.
I’m Steven.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it!

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🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven - 22 June 2025
Even Sheryl Sandberg.
Even Jonny Wilkinson.
Even Rick Rubin.

They’ve all said the same thing:
Sometimes… they crack.
Not because they’re weak -
But because they care. Deeply.

And this week? I cracked too.
Not dramatically.
Just enough to remind me: Leadership isn’t a performance. It’s pressure.

🎥 This Sunday Reset is personal.

Yesterday 21 June was the Summer Solstice - the longest day of the year.
It also marked a quiet, meaningful milestone in my life.
And it made me reflect on something I turn to often:
The Stockdale Paradox.

“Never lose faith in the end of the story...
But confront the most brutal facts of your current reality.” - Admiral James Stockdale

“I had to face facts, not just dreams. But never let go of hope.” - Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom

Both men lived the same truth:
Real leadership lives in the tension between brutal reality and unwavering belief.

That’s it.
The core of real leadership.
Hope and truth. Together.

Jim Collins found it in every company that made the leap from Good to Great.
And I see it in every transformation I help lead eg with boards, with AI, with people.

Here’s what happened this week.

I lost composure in a discussion with someone - let’s say : robotically wired.
All logic. No empathy. No awareness of tone.

But after reflecting, I realised:
They weren’t being difficult.
They were being them. Through their lens.

That’s when Erin Meyer’s The Culture Map came to mind.

“What sounds rude in one culture sounds clear in another.”
This doesn’t just apply to nations.
It applies to teams. To boards. To every room you walk into.

ReLearn with me:

So here are 3 shifts I use when conversations feel like collisions:
1️⃣ Pre-frame curiosity.
Say: “Help me understand how you’re seeing this.”

2️⃣ Default to context.
Ask: “Is this delivery… or design?”
Culture isn’t personal - it’s patterned.

3️⃣ Don’t take a scalpel to a screwdriver job.
Where logic fails, use story.
Where bluntness cuts, translate, don’t retreat.

📌 Quote I’m sitting with this week:

“You must never confuse faith that you will prevail…
with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality.” By Stockdale

My prompt for your week:

🧭 Where are you leading with only one lens- is it logic or emotion, performance or presence?
And what would happen if you held both?

This is your Sunday Reset.
I’m Steven.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it!

Steven PAUL, CDir FIoD – Reshaping boards and CEOs to lead decisively – with AI transformation and strategic corporate governance at the core.
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🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven – 15 Jun 25
Ryan Reynolds runs multiple businesses. Keanu Reeves is known not for speed, but for stillness.

Neither are rushing.
They’re moving deliberately. And that’s why they win.

This week, after two high-intensity events, deep conversations, and a coaching session that hit hard. I was reminded of a Navy SEAL principle:
🟡 “Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast.”

Let that land.
Because sometimes, the next level in your leadership isn’t about more intensity.
It’s about more clarity.

This week’s reset includes:
▫️A martial arts parable on why trying to master faster only slows you down
▫️A lesson from Josh Waitzkin on training stillness under pressure
▫️Boardroom insights from governance and trust events
▫️Personal moments that mattered more than any strategy slide
▫️5 micro-actions to build a sustainable rhythm in your leadership week

“Board Governance isn’t red tape; it’s the red thread that holds everything together”

That was my share during a panel this week.

In your meetings, ask: “What are we here to protect, enable, and model?”
That ONE question resets everything.

At another event on Trust and Leadership in a Changing World, I heard great insights from trusted partners via panel session.

I stood beside friends who’ve seen me through it all- good and hard.
And that reminded me of this:
Proximity is power. Presence is everything. My friends, family (and my little boy Rocky) are everything to me. Happy Father’s Day to people like us ;)

Ok let’s talk about Gen AI for a second.
Its biggest risk?
It’s not just what it automates- it’s what it erodes. Think about it and reposition yourself!:

- It teaches us to second-guess ourselves.
- To ask the model before we trust the mirror.
- To chase output and skip intuition.

Leadership begins where automation ends.
With judgement. Courage. Presence.
Let’s not forget that.

My coach said to me:
“Steven: life isn’t short. It’s very, very long. But we make it short by sprinting through it.”

So this week, I’m building this rhythm:
1️⃣ Unitask on purpose - One thing at a time
2️⃣ Take micro-breaks - Have 25-min /45-min meetings
3️⃣ Walk + reflect - Motion clears mental noise
4️⃣ Say no to noise - Protect your best time
5️⃣ Find your ocean - A space to renew, daily

This isn’t soft.
It’s strategic.

I challenge you to learn with me, this week!

📌 “He who hurries has delayed the things that are urgent.” - Seneca

My prompt for your week:
What decision, conversation, or habit are you rushing - when what it really needs… is your presence?

This is your Sunday Reset.
Watch the video. Breathe. Reflect.
Then slow it down - and make it count.

Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it.

Steven PAUL, CDir FIoD – reshaping Boards and CEO Exec teams in the era of AI for successful transformation and board governance.
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🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven – 8 June 2025
“You’re Not Afraid of Failing. You’re Afraid of What Happens If It Works.”

Most people think fear holds them back.
Fear of failing. Fear of judgment. Fear of getting it wrong. Happens to me too.

But this week, I had a different realisation:

What if we’re not afraid to fail… we’re afraid to succeed?
To grow beyond what’s familiar.
To actually get the outcome we say we want.

📚 Abraham Maslow once said:

“We fear our highest possibilities… We thrill to godlike potential …and yet we shiver before it.”

I felt that this week - not in crisis, but in a decision moment.
The initiative I am on was ready to scale. The pushback?

"Let’s not overreach."
But was that risk management… or fear of thriving?

In those moments, I ask teams:
“What would we do if we weren’t afraid of succeeding too fast?”
It changes the room.

Then came a reminder I carry with me every week:
👉🏽 The Starfish Story (it’s an adaptation of Loren Eisley).
One boy. One small act.
Too many challenges to solve - but he still threw one starfish back into the ocean.

"I made a difference to that one."

That’s the real leadership shift.
Tiny actions. Big momentum.
Because you don’t change your life in a day—but you do change your days.
And eventually, that changes everything.

Here’s what moved me most this week:

A board committee member who finally spoke up after staying silent for weeks.
A quiet nudge that helped someone back their own voice.
No slides. No strategy.
Just human courage in real time.
That’s what leadership looks like.

📌 “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”
- Marianne Williamson

Prompt for your week:
What’s your starfish?
What’s one small, human action you can take—today—that might not change the world, but could change someone’s day?

More in the video - check it out.

This is your hashtag#SundayReset.
I’m Steven.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it!

Steven PAUL, CDir FIoD – shaping boards and CxO Exec teams in the era of AI for successful transformation. Sharing a decade of strategic global boardroom actionable insights on effectiveness, Gen AI, leadership, innovation and growth.
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🎥 Sunday Reset with Steven – 1 June 2025
“What Tom Cruise, Serena Williams, and AI Can Teach You About Grit”

What do they have in common?

They don’t stop at 40%.

Tom does his own stunts—at 62.
Serena plays through pain and pressure—year after year.
And Former Navy SEAL, Goggins? He calls it the 40/60 Rule:

“When you think you’re done, you’re only 40% tapped out.”

That hit me—not in a gym, but in the middle of late-night strategy, high-stakes M&A meetings, and planning for a transformation that’s about to go live.

FYI I lead three portfolio roles. So it’s intense.

This week in one of the intense emotionally charged go live prep meetings, I paused and asked our task force:

What behaviours will keep us grounded when the next 8 hours go off-script?

Because when things get operationally complex, leadership needs to get emotionally simple.

And that’s the power of grit.

I am reminding myself. And I am reminding you.

Here’s what I’ve observed in the tower and engine room:
The top performers I work with—CEOs, boards, founders—aren’t necessarily the most brilliant.

They’re the most disciplined.

They train themselves to push past the first wave of surrender.

→ When the room gets tense, they breathe slower.
→ When the data overwhelms, they ask better questions.
→ When AI surfaces 100 insights, they choose 1 wisely.

And that’s the paradox of modern leadership:

We're surrounded by AI and automation, yet the edge lies in stoic focus, rhythm, and composure.

This week, Paris Saint Germain made UEFA Champions League history.
A 5–0 masterclass.
Not just flair—but fierce, grounded teamwork.
That’s not motivation. That’s systemised grit.

So here’s my Sunday prompt to you:

What’s one mental habit you can strengthen this week—so when pressure rises, you don’t break… you lead?

Maybe it’s:

Starting your day without your phone.
Saying no faster.
Speaking less in a meeting, but listening more.

Whatever it is—

Let this new month be your moment to reset.

📌 “You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius

I’m Steven. This is your hashtag#SundayReset.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it!

Steven PAUL, CDir FIoD – shaping boards and CxO Exec teams in the era of AI for successful transformation. Sharing a decade of strategic global boardroom actionable insights on effectiveness, Gen AI, leadership, innovation and growth.
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