**Have You Felt Authentic Love?**

**Infatuation, Emotional Dependency, and the Real Thing**

**Episode Overview**

What does *real* love actually feel like—and how do you know when you’re experiencing it? In this episode, we unpack the differences between **infatuation**, **emotional dependency**, and **authentic love**, and why so many of us confuse one for another. If you’ve ever wondered whether what you felt was love or just attachment, this conversation is for you.

**Key Topics Discussed**

**1. Infatuation: The Spark That Burns Fast**

* Intensity, obsession, and idealization

* The role of novelty, fantasy, and projection

* Why infatuation feels overwhelming—but unstable

* Signs you’re in infatuation, not love

**Core question:**

> Do you love *them*, or how they make you feel?

#**2. Emotional Dependency: When Love Feels Like Survival**

* Needing someone to feel whole or safe

* Fear of abandonment disguised as passion

* How unmet emotional needs shape attachment

* Why dependency can feel deep—but draining

**Red flags discussed:**

* Anxiety when they pull away

* Losing your identity in the relationship

* Staying despite misalignment or mistreatment

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#### **3. Authentic Love: Calm, Chosen, and Grounded**

* Love as a verb, not just a feeling

* Mutual respect, safety, and emotional freedom

* Choosing someone without needing them to complete you

* Growth *with* someone, not at your expense

**Key insight:**

> Authentic love feels steady—not intoxicating, not desperate, but secure.

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* Reflect on your past relationships through this lens

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“Do You Believe in Love?”

Core Message:

Welcome back to Season 2 with my Co-host for the month Coach and Leader Tomeka Jones.

Love is not merely a feeling or a seasonal idea — it is a commitment, an action, and a reflection of God’s love that shapes how we relate to Him and to others.

1. Opening Hook: What Do We Mean by “Love”?
2. • Valentine’s Day often promotes a romanticized version of love — but is that love sustainable?
   • Do people truly believe in love, or just the idea of love?
   • Valentine's Day is a cultural moment that often glorifies a romanticized vision of love, presenting it as an ideal that everyone should experience. But is this image of love sustainable in the long term?
   • As we indulge in candlelit dinners and flowery cards, one must ponder whether individuals genuinely believe in love itself or are simply enamored with the idea of love that society perpetuates. This sets the stage for a deeper exploration of what love truly means and the various dimensions that define it, beyond mere romantic notions.
   • Is love an emotional bond or a construct shaped by external expectations?
   • Black History FACT Moment : Coretta Scott King

This month we are back for S2 with my co-host Tomeka Jones. We will discuss, laugh, and talk about the notion and being of "Love". Love is not merely a feeling or a seasonal idea — it is a commitment, an action, and a reflection of God’s love that shapes how we relate to Him and to others. Welcome to Season 2 and tune in LIVE 02/05/26.

In this inspiring video, discover how to awaken your soul and align with God's divine purpose. Let's dive deep into spiritual practices and find fulfillment in living out God's plan for your life.
In this video, we'll explore how to awaken your soul and find fulfillment through God's divine purpose. Dive deep into satisfying the soul and connecting with your spiritual side.
Are you ready to unlock the secrets of your sacred calling and embark on a transformative experience that awakens your soul to God's divine purpose? In this video, we'll explore the path to enlightened living, where you'll discover your true potential and align with the universe's plan for you. Get ready to experience a profound shift in your consciousness, as you tap into the infinite wisdom and guidance that resides within you. By embracing your soul's purpose, you'll unlock a life of fulfillment, joy, and spiritual growth. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and awaken to your highest potential.
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Scriptures: Ecclesiastics 3:11, 5:15, Colossians 3:23

The Agape Love Series is a profound exploration of unconditional love, often seen as the highest form of love in many philosophical and religious traditions. Agape love transcends personal desires and emotions, focusing instead on selfless care for others without expecting anything in return. This series delves into the transformative power of agape love, examining how it can positively impact relationships, communities, and personal well-being. Through storytelling, practical examples, and insightful reflections, the series encourages readers to cultivate this unconditional love in their lives, fostering a more compassionate and connected world. Whether you're looking to deepen your understanding of love or seeking ways to apply it more fully, the Agape Love Series offers valuable guidance and inspiration.Unlock the doors to a life of true love and acceptance by understanding the powerful connection between your energy alignment and the law of attraction. In this video, we'll dive into the secrets of cultivating an abundance mindset, and how it can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships and a sense of spiritual growth. By embracing an empowered mindset, you'll discover that true love and acceptance is not something you find, but rather something that arises naturally from within. So, get ready to transform your life and attract the love and abundance you deserve.**Tune in Next week for Giveaway's, Games, and DiscountsTomeka B- Flawless Life Coaching (facebook, Instagram)8seventeenllc.hbportal.coKaren Oliver: WCD Coaching Inc.🔗 in BIOlaborandlove25@gmail.com #relationships : Healthy Boundaries 2022-2023 Vol.1 & 2https://www.youtube.com/live/adCApNBo370?si=NaAv8wFnB_Q8dexhhttps://www.youtube.com/live/sbl9OwXYnFM?si=ZSe8PxKXYskUwXfuhttps://www.youtube.com/live/H9TdvfkbvQk?si=jrHmnBQ6oi1ztyzJ#John 3:16#John 15:13#1Corinthians 13:4-8#Genesis 1-5#Jeremiah 1:5

Welcome everyone, today I have a special guest. We are almost out of January so I have to share the surprise today with the audience!!! Drum roll Please; well you have to wait until the end of the episode haha. I am your Host Karen Oliver and most of you know me from my 1rst podcast "Dream Fearless" with 4 seasons and #5 in the country on Spotify. This is our brand new podcast "Labour and Love" It is a divine assignment for WCD Coaching Inc. in 2025. Be sure to #subscribe to the YouTube channel also @labourandlove.

My guest is Life Coach Tomeka Jones!

Tomeka Jones is a transformational life coach, speaker, and founder of Flawless Life Coaching. A 23-year Air Force veteran, she’s on a mission to empower women to embrace confidence, self-love, and unshakable resilience through faith. Guided by her deep trust in God, Tomeka helps women break through limitations, shift their mindset, and step boldly into their purpose. She believes that when you align with God’s plan, anything is possible because you were born to be limitless!

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Welcome back, everyone. Please forgive me. We will be sure to give you all more episodes this week. I pray you all had a great week. I'm Karen Oliver, your host. I am a Master Coach, Prayer Intercessor, and serial entrepreneur. Today, I will share some knowledge about laboring in prayer and its power. When we Pray, we talk and commune with God, and he hears us. We are to study to show ourselves approved unto God and go deep in understanding.

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This is a space divinely crafted for you. As we embark on this new season together, we will continue to strive to be the hands and feet of Jesus. Our Deliverance ministry is dedicated to nurturing your mental and spiritual well-being through daily devotions, heartfelt prayers, enriching talks, and meaningful conversations. Exciting news! We’re also launching a second podcast under the name “Labor and Love.” Our first podcast, “Dream Fearless,” is part of my coaching brand, where I empower women to step boldly into their purpose through the transformative power of deliverance. It’s time to break free from the chains and bondage that hold you back! Join us on this incredible journey of faith and growth!
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