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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.All Rights Reserved Ciencias Sociales Higiene y Vida Saludable Relaciones
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  • S2 Ep139: How Inner Child Work Can Save Your (love) Life featuring Lilly Singh

    S2 Ep139: How Inner Child Work Can Save Your (love) Life featuring Lilly Singh
    Oct 1 2025
    To get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp, visit http://betterhelp.com/loversbyshan. Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode!
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    This week, I interview Lilly Singh, actor and history-making content creator, with a new movie RIGHT up our alley: Doin’ It (yes it’s a movie about sex, specifically what happens when a South Asian virgin is assigned to teach sex ed). In this episode Lilly opens up about growing up in a world where emotional chaos felt familiar, why she kept gravitating toward toxic partners who gave her the bare minimum, and how she’s now doing the inner work (therapy, inner child healing, setting boundaries) to protect “little Lilly.”

    In this conversation, we explore how past wounds shaped her romantic choices, and how she’s rewriting that story one day at a time.

    🎬 About Doin’ It

    You can catch “Doin’ It” in select theaters or pre-order the film on Apple, Amazon, and Fandango to watch it at home as of October 7.

    For more information visit doinitmovie.com


    🔗 Follow Lilly Singh
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lilly
    Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/Lilly
    Grab her bestselling book Be a Triangle → https://www.lillysinghbook.com

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    1 h y 3 m
  • S2 Ep138: How Jemele Hill is Fighting Back Against America’s #1 Sex Life Killers

    S2 Ep138: How Jemele Hill is Fighting Back Against America’s #1 Sex Life Killers
    Sep 24 2025
    Thank you to Ro for sponsoring this video. Connect with a provider at https://ro.co/lovers to find out if prescription Ro Sparks are right for you.
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    What happens when you realize the best sex of your marriage only shows up on vacation?

    Award-winning journalist, author, and podcaster Jemele Hill joins Shan for a conversation about how she uncovered the connection between stress, rest, and desire in her own marriage. She shares why her husband seems to get luckier when they’re away, how that awareness has deepened their relationship, and what it taught her about the balance between ambition, partnership, and intimacy.

    This episode is for my overachievers who struggle to “do it all,” for the happily partnered (or hoping-to-be), and for anyone who’s ever wondered how to bring that vacation spark back home.

    Together, Jemele and Shan break down:
    - Why “having it all” is a myth (and the price women pay for chasing it)
    - How silence around stress robs intimacy, and what to do instead
    - What “fair trade” in the home has to do with mutually desirable sex
    - Practical ways to bring vacation sex energy into everyday life

    🔗 Follow Jemele Hill
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jemelehill/
    Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/jemelehill

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    52 m
  • S2 Ep137: The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta

    S2 Ep137: The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta
    Sep 17 2025
    Thank you to Function Health for sponsoring this episode! Visit https://functionhealth.com/loversbyshan or use code LOVERS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership.
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    What does it mean to choose love on your own terms? How do our values, self-worth, and cultural expectations shape the way we show up in relationships?

    In this conversation, entrepreneur, fitness model, and actress Rosa Acosta shares her perspective on redefining what relationships can look like when you step away from society’s scripts. She reflects on leaving behind relationships that don’t serve both partners, questioning inherited scripts about men and women, and what it takes to create intimacy outside of convention.

    This is a dialogue about love as partnership, the courage to release what no longer fits, and the art of rewriting our own story.

    🔗 Follow Rosa Acosta
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosaacosta/
    Cossa Mia: https://www.instagram.com/cossamia/

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    48 m
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I love this conversation. John Gotham says after 15 minutes of interacting with a couple, he is able to predict within 90% certainty whether the couple will 1. Stay together 2. Dissolve 3. Stay together HAPPILY. I feel like I am in a relationship similar to that of your parents. It is often "tumultuous" but we are utterly committed. I would love to hear more discussion around this topic. Is commitment enough when there's so much grief along the way, or is it possible for two opposites to transcend from commitment to... mutual balance? I am a long-time follower since early YouTube days, and I talk about your work all the time. Thank you for the thoughtful conversations and research you bring to my life. I love what you do and who you choose to be- often through public and vulnerable example. #respect
P.S. Thank you Bryan and Olivia for your openness and candor!

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Thank you for this podcast! I love your podcasts soo much. This helped me have a different perspective of the guys I’ve been dating, especially because I’m in my late 20’s and it feels like no guy wants to commit yet won’t leave me alone and I’m like whyyy me lol. makes me realize that sometimes it’s not that deep and it is what it is dating in your 20’s 😂😅

Different Perspective

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Lovers and friends only got on my radar after following Mr/MrsKevOnStage but I am all in!!

Late to the poddy…

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You can tell the team who help make this podcast really enjoy working together. Shan Boodram has put together a unique format and dives into very intriguing conversations with her guests.

5-star

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I LOVED this episode ! It spoke to me directly as a woman who is learning about CNM and what I personally identify with. This episode (like All episodes in the Lovers and Friends podcast) are EXTREMELY knowledgeable Funny down to earth and MOST importantly to me, a SAFE SPACE. Please anyone who’s interested in sexuality Listen to this Podcast you won’t be disappointed!

CNM or Poly people

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Everyone of your episodes are so put together, and so thought out well, I don’t know how anyone could beat that!

Love you SHAN

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loved it I listened to it twice. I love learning from shan and appreciate how she makes me feel like I should be talking about everything with my partner.

absolutely amazing

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