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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.All Rights Reserved
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  • S2 Ep148: Sharing My HIV Diagnosis Changed Everything For Me ft. Jonathan Van Ness
    Dec 1 2025
    Did you know, in 2023, more than 39,000 people were diagnosed with HIV in the United States and six territories, with Hispanic and Black individuals each accounting for more than a third (Source. CDC)

    In this episode of LOVERS, Shan sits down with Jonathan Van Ness for a conversation about receiving an HIV diagnosis, the years he kept it private, and the moment he decided he wanted the story to come from him. Jonathan shares what it felt like to catch himself holding back during interviews, how choosing to speak changed his relationship with his own truth, and the sense of relief that followed once he stopped protecting something that shaped so much of his life.

    They also talk about the realities of HIV today, why knowing your status matters, and how tools like PrEP fit into the larger picture of staying informed and reducing stigma.

    Follow Jonathan Van Ness
    Website → https://jonathanvanness.com/
    Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jvn
    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/jvn
    JVN Hair → https://jvnhair.com/
    Podcast → https://jonathanvanness.com/podcasts/
    Books → https://jonathanvanness.com/books/

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    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    54 m
  • S2 Ep146: Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio
    Nov 19 2025
    In this episode of LOVERS, Shan sits down with singer and songwriter Sabrina Claudio for a conversation about heartbreak, loneliness, friendship, and the lessons that shaped her new album.

    Sabrina talks openly about how loneliness can quietly influence decisions, including staying in relationships that feel draining. She shares what it was like to feel isolated even while partnered, why she struggled to speak up about what she was going through, and how she eventually chose to walk away. We also explore the idea of emotional detox, the feeling of carrying someone long after the relationship ends, and the moment she realized she needed to release what was weighing her down.

    If you have ever tried to heal while still holding on, or wondered why connection sometimes feels complicated, this conversation offers insight and companionship.

    Referenced in this episode: Bronfenbrenner’s Ecological Systems Theory — the idea that our development is shaped by multiple layers of environment (from family + friends all the way to culture + society).

    Follow Sabrina Claudio
    Sabrina’s short film Fall In Love With Her
    Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/sabrinaclaudio
    Twitter → https://twitter.com/sabrinaclaudio
    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/c/SabrinaClaudio
    Website → https://www.sabrinaclaudio.co

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    48 m
  • S2 Ep145: I’m So Sorry for Loving Myself: Seema Anand on Shame & the Kama Sutra’s Secrets
    Nov 12 2025
    In this intimate London-based episode of LOVERS, Shan sits down with the legendary storyteller and pleasure educator Seema Anand, the woman who transformed shame into sacred power.

    From being judged and silenced for her fascination with the Kama Sutra to becoming its most celebrated modern interpreter, Seema shares how self-love became her act of rebellion. Together, we talk about:

    ✨ Growing up rebelling against libertine attitudes and then discovering Tantra
    ✨ The link between shame, sensuality, and self-expression
    ✨ Why women still feel guilt for wanting pleasure
    ✨ The truth behind the Kama Sutra’s ancient wisdom
    ✨ How to fall in love with yourself — unapologetically in your sixties or at any age

    This episode was inspired by our collaboration jewelry line KAMA, created to remind women to prioritize pleasure — in bed and beyond. Each piece is designed to honor the art of connection and confidence. In collaboration with Surmeyi, our Käma collection celebrates women’s bodies as inseparable from nature, and pleasure as the invisible force balancing the universe. Get your jewelry today:

    💎 The entire KAMA jewelry line is now back in stock for the holidays.
    Shop the collection: https://surmeyi.com/kama

    Also Seema’s brand new book Speak Easy is now available for preorder
    https://www.amazon.in/Speak-Easy-Field-Longing-Intimacy/dp/9361319337

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    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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P.S. Thank you Bryan and Olivia for your openness and candor!

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Thank you for this podcast! I love your podcasts soo much. This helped me have a different perspective of the guys I’ve been dating, especially because I’m in my late 20’s and it feels like no guy wants to commit yet won’t leave me alone and I’m like whyyy me lol. makes me realize that sometimes it’s not that deep and it is what it is dating in your 20’s 😂😅

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Lovers and friends only got on my radar after following Mr/MrsKevOnStage but I am all in!!

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You can tell the team who help make this podcast really enjoy working together. Shan Boodram has put together a unique format and dives into very intriguing conversations with her guests.

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I LOVED this episode ! It spoke to me directly as a woman who is learning about CNM and what I personally identify with. This episode (like All episodes in the Lovers and Friends podcast) are EXTREMELY knowledgeable Funny down to earth and MOST importantly to me, a SAFE SPACE. Please anyone who’s interested in sexuality Listen to this Podcast you won’t be disappointed!

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