In this episode of Complex Kids, Simple Solutions, Michelle is joined by Jill Lerman—play and parenting coach, early childhood educator, and mom—who believes that every child is capable, curious, and worthy of connection through play.

Jill and Michelle dive into what it means to let go of perfection and instead create space for sensory-seeking, out-of-the-box, messy, real-life play. Whether it’s a child who breaks every toy or refuses to join an activity, Jill shows how behavior is communication—and how parents can tap into that to support growth and regulation.

They talk about teacher-parent communication, early intervention, how to approach differences in play, and why play isn’t about outcomes, but about relationships. For parents of complex kids, this is an invitation to reimagine what success looks like, one joyful moment at a time.

👤 About the Guest
Jill Lerman is a play and parenting coach, early childhood educator, play expert, and mom to a preschooler. She empowers overwhelmed parents and caretakers to connect and engage with their little ones through simple invitations to play and create—making parenting feel more joyful and manageable. Jill also consults with brands, teaches classes, and runs workshops on play and early childhood development.

🔗 Follow & Support Jill
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillybeansnyc
Website: https://www.jillybeansnyc.com
Playful Parenting Membership: https://jillybeansnyc.thrivecart.com/playful-parenting-membership/
Free Guide to Independent Play: https://jillybeans-nyc.ck.page/0d7fab4ab9

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💌 Have a question or want to share your story? Email Michelle at michellechoairy@gmail.com

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