In this episode of Jenny Says So, Jenny dives into the complexities of social obligations when friends or acquaintances visit a city. She emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, being authentic in interactions, and managing expectations. Jenny also shares practical advice on how to prepare for visitors, including creating a recommendations list and practicing responses to maintain personal well-being.

Jenny dives deep into this relatable situation, offering heartfelt advice on setting boundaries, honoring your own time, and not feeling obligated to play tour guide when it’s not genuinely aligned with your energy. She shares tips for gracefully saying no, offering curated recommendations instead of your time, and recognizing when a visit is more about convenience than connection.

Jenny encourages listeners to listen to their instincts, practice direct communication, and prioritize their own well-being without guilt. Her practical advice is perfect for anyone feeling the weight of social obligations and looking for a way to protect their time while still maintaining meaningful connections.

In this heartfelt episode, Jenny dives into the emotional complexities of setting boundaries—especially in adult relationships with parents. Prompted by a listener question about navigating caregiving concerns while protecting one’s emotional wellbeing, Jenny shares her perspective on how to honor both compassion and self-respect. She explains the difference between communicated boundaries (what we say) and internal boundaries (what we do or don't allow ourselves to absorb), reminding listeners that healthy relationships require both.

Jenny gently affirms that we are not responsible for managing the lives or emotions of capable adults—even our parents. Holding back unsolicited advice, saying no without guilt, and recognizing when certain conversations may do more harm than good are all essential tools in maintaining emotional balance. She speaks candidly about the grief that can come with realizing some family members may never change—and how that realization can actually open the door to peace, clarity, and deeper healing.

Therapy, Jenny emphasizes, can be a powerful companion on this journey. Finding a therapist who truly “gets you” can help unravel generational patterns and empower you to make loving yet firm decisions. Ultimately, Jenny reminds us that prioritizing our mental health isn't selfish—it’s necessary. This episode is a reassuring listen for anyone learning how to balance love, boundaries, and the difficult truths of family dynamics.

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In this episode of Jenny Says So, Jenny tackles the tricky topic of wedding gift expectations and whether guests should feel obligated to give one—especially when attending a wedding already comes with significant costs. Responding to a heartfelt listener question from Guilt-Stricken Wedding Guest in Wisconsin, Jenny breaks down the financial realities of being a wedding guest, the social pressures around gift-giving, and why celebrating love shouldn’t come with a price tag. She challenges the idea of quid pro quo in weddings, emphasizing that gifts should come from a place of joy, not obligation.

From navigating tight budgets to finding thoughtful, affordable ways to show your support, Jenny shares practical advice for guests who may feel guilty about not giving a traditional gift. She also highlights the importance of self-care, setting financial boundaries, and shifting the focus back to what truly matters—celebrating the couple’s love. Whether you’re planning a wedding, attending one soon, or simply rethinking the way we approach gifting, this episode offers a refreshing, judgment-free take on modern wedding etiquette.

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