About the Guest

Casey Boyd brings a unique perspective to youth basketball as both a coach and a parent. After spending 15 years as a CPA in the corporate world, Casey transitioned into coaching girls basketball during the COVID-19 pandemic. She is currently the high school basketball coach at Grace Prep and an AAU coach with True Texas Hoops.

Casey is also the mother of one of the most highly sought-after young athletes in the country, giving her firsthand experience navigating development, recruiting, and balance in youth sports.

Episode Summary

In this episode of It’s Just Different, host Ashley Roberts sits down with Casey Boyd to unpack the realities of youth basketball from a parent and coach perspective. Casey shares her unconventional journey from corporate accounting to coaching, and how that transition reshaped her approach to athlete development, leadership, and family life.

The conversation dives deep into key topics parents often struggle with — including whether athletes should play up or on level, how to choose the right AAU program, and how to balance ambition with long-term development. Casey emphasizes the importance of game reps, mental growth, team fit, and trusting the process rather than chasing exposure too early.This episode also highlights the growing impact of women-led basketball organizations, the importance of maintaining healthy parent-athlete relationships, and why allowing kids to enjoy the game is critical for sustainable success.

Key Takeaways

- Playing on an age-appropriate level can significantly impact confidence, skill development, and basketball IQ

- Parents should prioritize development, reps, and environment over status and hype

- Balancing parenting and coaching requires intentional boundaries and trust

- Women-led and independent basketball programs play a vital role in youth development

- The right team fit can make or break an athlete’s long-term growth

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About the GuestJason Terry is a current NBA coach and the founder of the AAU program Lady Jets. With experience at the highest levels of the game as both a NBA player and coach, Jason is deeply invested in grassroots basketball and youth development. His work centers on building strong culture, teaching life skills, and helping athletes navigate AAU basketball the right way — on and off the court.Episode SummaryIn this episode, Jason Terry joins the podcast to break down the realities of modern AAU basketball and youth player development. From adapting coaching styles to fit today’s athletes to understanding when a player should play up, Jason shares real-world insight shaped by years of experience in both professional and grassroots basketball.The conversation provides valuable guidance for parents and athletes navigating AAU decisions, highlighting red flags to watch for, how to evaluate program fit, and why development must go beyond wins and exposure. Jason emphasizes mentorship, accountability, and building strong relationships as key pillars for long-term success in basketball and life.Key Takeaways- Choosing the right AAU program starts with understanding development, not hype- Program fit, coaching style, and culture matter more than reputation- Playing up should be a strategic decision, not an emotional one- Parents must recognize red flags in AAU environments- Mentorship, coachability, and competitiveness drive long-term successResources for Parents & PlayersHow To Pick An AAU Team In 2026: https://stan.store/_thisisashleyr/p/h...Join the Basketball Parent Community (FREE 7-day trial):https://www.ashleynroberts.com/communityDownload the FREE Guide to Save Money, Time & Stress:https://ashleyroberts.kit.com/subscribeGet the Basketball Parent Toolkit (Your full roadmap):https://www.ashleynroberts.com/produc...Shop DIFFERENT merch (Use code “Podcast” for 15% off):https://itsjustdifferentapparel.com

About the GuestCoach Roland Jones is an Assistant Coach and Recruiting Coordinator at Old Dominion University. With a long track record of developing athletes and guiding them through the college recruiting process, Roland is known for his honest, no-nonsense approach to player development, mindset, and long-term success. His insights come from years on the recruiting trail and inside college locker rooms.Episode SummaryIn this episode of It’s Just Different Podcast, we sit down with college basketball coach Roland Jones to break down the realities of today’s high school and college basketball recruiting landscape. From the rise of prep schools and the transfer portal to the growing influence of social media and AAU basketball, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what really matters when it comes to earning and keeping a college opportunity.Roland explains why many talented high school players struggle at the next level — and why mindset, mental toughness, and research often matter more than raw talent. He also speaks directly to parents, addressing common misconceptions around scholarships, coaching promises, and “the right fit.” This episode is essential listening for players, parents, and coaches navigating modern basketball recruiting.Key Takeaways- Mindset Is Everything: Success at the college level starts with mental preparedness, coachability, and resilience.- Recruiting Isn’t Just Talent-Based: Fit, culture, and coaching style often outweigh name recognition.- Prep Schools & AAU Are Changing the Game: Traditional high school pathways are evolving rapidly.- Social Media Has Consequences: Online pressure impacts confidence, identity, and development.- Parents Play a Major Role: Education and research are critical to making informed recruiting decisions.Resources for Parents & PlayersHow To Pick An AAU Team In 2026: https://stan.store/_thisisashleyr/p/h...Join the Basketball Parent Community (FREE 7-day trial):https://www.ashleynroberts.com/communityDownload the FREE Guide to Save Money, Time & Stress:https://ashleyroberts.kit.com/subscribeGet the Basketball Parent Toolkit (Your full roadmap):https://www.ashleynroberts.com/produc...Shop DIFFERENT merch (Use code “Podcast” for 15% off):https://itsjustdifferentapparel.com