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Explore the hidden patterns that sabotage connection—especially the habit of keeping score in relationships. Amber and Austin dive into how acts of service can get entangled with self-worth, how to build equality and flow in a partnership, and why curiosity, communication, and intentionality are key to long-term connection. Let this heart-centered conversation inspire a new way of being in relationship—one rooted in love, not tally marks.

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In this episode, Amber and Austin explore the often overlooked tendency to keep score in relationships—and how it can silently erode love, connection, and inner balance. They reflect on their 10-year relationship, share personal breakthroughs, and challenge societal norms about worth and contribution in romantic partnerships.

Key Insights:

- Why relationships are not competitions—and how scorekeeping creates disconnection

- The danger of linking self-worth to how much you give or do for others

- How to create mutual understanding and flow around responsibilities

- Redefining value in a relationship from external roles to internal connection

- The power of curiosity and ongoing learning in long-term relationships

- Recognizing and healing people-pleasing patterns

- How appreciation differs from obligation and why it matters

- Ways to build sacred space through intentional conversation and weekly check-ins

- Letting go of perfection and embracing continual growth as a couple

- Tools and reflections from Silence Your Inner Critic to deepen inner alignment

Ideal for: Anyone in a relationship—romantic or otherwise—seeking deeper understanding, emotional clarity, and the tools to grow a more connected, heart-led partnership.

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