Is Over-Scheduling Hurting Your Child’s Nervous System? | Emotional Dysregulation | E374

Is your child melting down despite a full schedule? Is over-scheduling hurting your child's nervous system? This episode reveals how too much activity dysregulates kids—and how less can bring calm. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, founder of Regulation First Parenting™, shows why calming the brain restores balance.

If you’ve ever wondered why your child melts down after activities you thought were helping—or why home feels like the emotional fallout zone—you’re not alone.

In this episode, I unpack how over scheduling can quietly overwhelm a child’s nervous system, why even “good” activities can backfire, and what actually helps kids find calm, focus, and emotional balance again.

Is over scheduling hurting your child's nervous system—even with activities they love?

Many parents sign kids up with good intentions: sports, music lessons, enrichment activities. But more isn’t always better. When children go from school to after school activities to homework to bed, their nervous system never gets a break.

Key takeaways:

1. Transitions drain neurological energy
2. Even fun can be overstimulating
3. A constantly “on” brain can’t reset

Real-life example: A child thrives at elementary school and extracurricular activities—but explodes over socks at home. That’s not bad behavior. It’s cumulative stress.

Why does my child behave at school but fall apart at home?

This is one of the biggest clues of a child overscheduled. Home is the safe place where the nervous system finally crashes. When kids hold it together all day, the stress has to come out somewhere.

Watch for signs like:

1. Tears, irritability, shutdowns
2. Resistance to simple tasks
3. Physical symptoms like headaches or stomach aches

🗣️ “When kids fall apart at home but are phenomenal at school, it’s a classic sign of nervous system overload.” — Dr. Roseann

It’s not bad parenting—it’s a dysregulated brain.

Can structured activities and enrichment harm mental health?

Yes—when there’s no balance. Research shows chronic stress elevates cortisol, overloads the prefrontal cortex, and negatively impacts emotional well being, sleep, and a child’s cognitive ability.

Too many scheduled activities can lead to:

1. Higher anxiety and stress levels
2. Trouble sleeping or sacrificing sleep
3. Mood swings and emotional fragility

This is especially true for kids with ADHD, anxiety, OCD, PANS/PANDAS, or other mental health challenges—but all children need downtime.

If your child’s nervous system runs “hot,” tools like Quick CALM can help bring fast regulation support into daily life. Learn more at https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/.

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