Inside Da Man Podcast — Season 2, Episode 23
Title: 50/50 Is For Singles: (Pt2) Unlocking Real Intimacy in Marriage

Welcome to another episode of Inside Da Man the space where we don’t just talk relationships, we talk revelation. I’m your host, and today we’re digging into a cultural concept that’s gained a lot of traction but when you look at it through a spiritual lens, it doesn’t hold up. We’re talking about the myth of the 50/50 relationship.

Let me say it plain: 50/50 is for people still dating not for people building a covenant.
Because in a true marriage, God never called us to split He called us to serve. He called us to surrender. And most importantly, He called the man to be the source.

Not just the provider. The source.
The one who pours. The one who covers. The one who restores.

Because spiritually, the man is designed to recharge the woman.
Just like Christ nourishes the Church, the husband is called to nourish his wife. That means you can’t afford to be keeping score. You can’t say, “I did my part, now you do yours.” That’s business. But marriage? Marriage is spiritual. Marriage is warfare. Marriage is ministry.

When a man walks in his true identity, he understands that his role isn’t to match her energy it’s to fuel her. To protect her peace. To stabilize her emotionally. To pour into her spirit so she can multiply what he gives because when a man pours into the right woman, he gets favor, clarity, vision, and rest in return.

But none of that happens when you're stuck in a 50/50 mindset.

So in this episode, we’re tearing down that 50/50 lie. We’ll explore:

• What it means to pour into your wife as Christ poured into the Church
• And how wholeness in your marriage starts when the man understands his role as the source

If you’re still trying to divide responsibility down the middle, you’re missing the point.
Because 50/50 is for singles.
Covenant requires 100 from both but it starts with the man leading the way.

Send us a text

Inside Da Man Podcast 2024

Inside Da Man Podcast — Season 2, Episode 22
Title: 50/50 Is For Singles

Welcome to another episode of Inside Da Man the space where we don’t just talk relationships, we talk revelation. I’m your host, and today we’re digging into a cultural concept that’s gained a lot of traction but when you look at it through a spiritual lens, it doesn’t hold up. We’re talking about the myth of the 50/50 relationship.

Let me say it plain: 50/50 is for people still dating not for people building a covenant.
Because in a true marriage, God never called us to split He called us to serve. He called us to surrender. And most importantly, He called the man to be the source.

Not just the provider. The source.
The one who pours. The one who covers. The one who restores.

Because spiritually, the man is designed to recharge the woman.
Just like Christ nourishes the Church, the husband is called to nourish his wife. That means you can’t afford to be keeping score. You can’t say, “I did my part, now you do yours.” That’s business. But marriage? Marriage is spiritual. Marriage is warfare. Marriage is ministry.

When a man walks in his true identity, he understands that his role isn’t to match her energy it’s to fuel her. To protect her peace. To stabilize her emotionally. To pour into her spirit so she can multiply what he gives because when a man pours into the right woman, he gets favor, clarity, vision, and rest in return.

But none of that happens when you're stuck in a 50/50 mindset.

So in this episode, we’re tearing down that 50/50 lie. We’ll explore:

• What it means to pour into your wife as Christ poured into the Church
• And how wholeness in your marriage starts when the man understands his role as the source

If you’re still trying to divide responsibility down the middle, you’re missing the point.
Because 50/50 is for singles.
Covenant requires 100 from both but it starts with the man leading the way.

Send us a text

Inside Da Man Podcast 2024

Title: Why Are You Single?

Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Inside Da Man — the podcast where we don’t dodge the hard questions, we dig into them. I’m your host, and today, we’re flipping the mirror on a topic most people like to dance around: Why are you single?

This isn’t just another surface-level conversation about relationships. In this episode, we’re unpackings why so many men and women the real reason are still navigating life solo. Is it by choice, circumstance, or emotional baggage? Is the dating scene broken, or are we the problem? We’re diving into everything from unrealistic expectations, fear of vulnerability, emotional unavailability, the rise of hyper-independence, and even the silent shame some men carry when their relationship status doesn’t match societal timelines.

You know how we do it on Inside Da Man — we’re not here to judge, we’re here to understand. Whether you’re proudly single, frustrated by it, or somewhere in between, this episode is your mirror.

Send us a text

Inside Da Man Podcast 2024