If Nothing Here Is Real, What Makes You Whole? | Wisdom Dialogues @ Bellingham Washington | December 14, 2025

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Start with still water, end with laughter. Across two rich hours, we question what productivity even means and swap the hustle for miracle-mindedness: seeing thoughts arise, letting feelings be felt, and choosing the peace of God right now. I share how supply shows up when we stop gripping, why “you need do nothing” isn’t avoidance, and how trust quietly multiplies our loaves and fishes when the mind releases plans and panic.

We wander, honestly, through the terrain of desire, romance, and boundaries. I talk through a messy dynamic—neediness, pullback, fantasy—and how labeling people cements pain. Clean boundaries don’t punish; they simply stop feeding a pattern that doesn’t reflect truth. Regret gets a gentle audit, too: it isn’t caused by what happened last week; it’s an ancient echo asking to be seen and released. Keep the regret and you repeat it. Forgive it and you turn the page.

We also unpack sex, fantasy, and sensation with candor. Fantasy is a substitute for joining; it dulls presence and complicates love. Pleasure deepens when it’s an expression, not a bargaining chip. The same clarity heals the body story: symptoms lose their “cause” when we drop fear narratives and rest in causeless peace. And when harm seems to happen, we name it out loud, refuse secrecy, and then look with Christ’s vision so only love remains. That’s the practice threaded through everything: watch the mind without fear, forgive what never truly occurred, and let laughter end the world’s spell.

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