If I Have to Give an Ultimatum… Is the Relationship Already Over?

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If you have to give an ultimatum… is the relationship already over?
Whew 😮‍💨—this episode is for anyone who’s dating, confused, overthinking, or stuck asking themselves “Is it them… or is it me?”

This week, we’re joined by dating coach Chad Scott (IG: @chadscotthere) to unpack the real meaning behind ultimatums, dating confusion, and self-accountability. We talk about when ultimatums are boundaries vs. emotional pressure, why feeling confused while dating is actually a red flag, and how often the answer isn’t asking more from someone else—but looking in the mirror first.

We get honest about:

• What an ultimatum really says about the relationship
• Why confusion in dating is information, not a phase
• How to hold yourself accountable instead of repeating the same patterns
• When self-reflection can save you… and when it’s time to walk away

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking for too much—or just asking the wrong person—this conversation might sting a little… but it’ll also set you free.

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