I Am Whatever I Say I Am: A Masterclass in Self Concept with Ebonie Allard + Michelle Dale

What if the most powerful force shaping your life isn’t your past, your beliefs, your circumstances, or your conditioning but the way you conceptualise yourself?

In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself we explore what happens when you decide to define yourself on your own terms. Not by your childhood conditioning. Not by the expectations of others. Not by the roles you’ve played or the identities you’ve inherited. But by the truth that rises from your own lived experience.

This is a conversation about self concept, sovereignty, and the inner shift from who the world told you to be to who you actually are.

Joining me is Michelle Dale, a veteran in the online space, and someone who I have known for most of the 20 years since we both started our online businesses.

Founder of Virtual Miss Friday, Creator of 1nSourcing™ & Architect of Virtual CoWorking Space

Michelle specialises in showing virtual assistants and other online service professionals how to create functional and efficient online businesses, attract and secure high end clients and lead with sustainable profit-driven packages that can be scaled to 6+ figures through strategic experience-based training, results-driven coaching and diverse hands-on services.

Together, we explore:

* What shapes your self concept and how it can become either a prison or a portal

* Why women who appear strong, capable and high-functioning often feel insecure on the inside

* The emotional and energetic cost of being the “good girl” or the “reliable one”

* How redefining yourself changes what you tolerate, create, and allow

* Why belonging begins with the relationship you have with yourself

* The difference between performing confidence and embodying it

* The subtle shifts that help you feel more like you, and less like a role you’re playing

This episode is a masterclass in self identity for culture makers: the creators, leaders, facilitators, strategists, and sensitives who feel ready to stop self-abandoning and start living from a place of grounded, embodied truth.

If you’ve been feeling slightly off course, unsure who you are becoming, or longing to feel more like your real self, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

✨ Subscribe if you’re ready to live more fully, love more honestly, and lead from your wholeness.

Michelle Dale is a Virtual Assistant thought leader, entrepreneur, and pioneer in location-independent living. She is the founder of Virtual Miss Friday, an online business consultancy and academy with built-in virtual assistant services, and the creator of 1nSourcing™, a service that supports six and seven-figure business owners with high-level operational and strategic support.

At 23, Michelle left the UK to pursue a life of true freedom. Since then, she has built a thriving online service and digital product business while travelling full-time, living abroad, and raising three children with her husband. She now mentors men and women around the world to cultivate their own professional independence, personal fulfilment, and digital freedom.

Connect with Michelle:https://www.facebook.com/VMFLtd/https://www.facebook.com/groups/241025172576709/https://www.instagram.com/vmfltdhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/virtualmissfriday/https://www.youtube.com/user/VirtualAssistantLive

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