Ever found yourself halfway through a showing thinking, “This buyer has no intention of buying anything”?

You, my friend, have met the infamous looky loo. They’re curious, they’re charming, and they are a black hole of time, gas money, and sanity, unless you have boundaries.

In this episode, we’re going deep into how to manage the buyers who just want to look; the ones who text at 9pm with Zillow links, or who take seven years to finally make a purchase. We’re sharing real stories (some wild ones), actionable strategies, and a whole lot of permission to run your business like a business.

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to lose the deal,” but also “I might lose my mind,” this one’s for you.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• What makes someone a looky loo and how to spot them early

• How to set clear boundaries and expectations without guilt

• The difference between being helpful and being used

• When to quiet quit on a buyer (and how to do it professionally)

• Scripts to help you say what needs to be said, kindly but firmly

• How to qualify casual buyers without scaring them off

• How buyer behavior impacts your time, business, and mental load
  

Products, People & Previous Episodes Mentioned:

• 📝 Buyer + Seller Checklists: https://hustlehumblypodcast.com/checklist
  
  

• 📄 Buyer Brokerage Agreement Cover Letter: https://hustlehumblypodcast.com/bba
  
  

• 📧 Email Templates 101: http://emailtemplates101.com
  
  

• 🛠️ Agent Systems 101: http://agentsystems101.com
  
  

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Music:

Straight A’s by Conner Price

The Good Life by Summer Kennedy

There’s nothing quite like walking into a listing appointment prepared, only to have the seller slide an appraisal across the table before you can even share your thoughts. In this episode, we dive deep into the sometimes-helpful, often-headache-inducing world of pre-listing appraisals in real estate.

Alissa shares a couple of jaw-dropping pricing stories, including one where she was blindsided by an appraisal that came in a full $60K over her estimate—and how she ended up taking the listing anyway (spoiler: she regrets it). Katy and Alissa get real about the pros and cons of pre-listing appraisals, when they’re appropriate, and how they can be both a tool and a trap.

You’ll also hear two real-life case studies that show how appraisals can drastically impact seller expectations—and what happens when those numbers just don’t line up with the market. From lessons learned the hard way to advice you can use in your next listing appointment, this episode is packed with insight, encouragement, and some painful pricing truth.

If you’ve ever struggled to price a property—or convince a seller that their home isn’t worth what Zillow (or their appraiser) says—this one’s for you.

Here’s what we chat about in this episode:

• What is a pre-listing appraisal and why would a seller get one?
  
  

• Real-life pricing fails (and what we learned from them)
  
  

• Why appraisals aren’t always reliable in shifting markets
  
  

• How to talk to sellers about appraisals without losing the listing
  
  

• Why CMAs and appraisals rarely match
  
  

• Specific scripts and verbiage to use when appraisals go wrong
  
  

• The pros and cons of recommending an appraisal yourself
  
  

• How to position yourself as the pricing expert—even when the appraiser disagrees
  
  

• Tips for navigating seller emotions and stubborn pricing

“I should’ve gone in with my Alissa mentality: tell them the truth and let the chips fall.” – Alissa

“Appraisers are only using data from homes that actually sold. They’re not accounting for what’s sitting on the market today.” – Katy

“I prayed I was wrong, but the market proved me right—and the house sat for months.” – Alissa

“Sometimes the appraisal says 510 and your gut says 450… and you take the listing anyway. Don’t do that.” – Katy

“You can get five appraisers and five different values. Your job is to be the constant.” – Alissa

Products, People & Previous Episodes Mentioned:

• Build Your Own Business 101 (BYOB)
  
  

• Email Templates 101
  
  

• Agent Systems 101
  
  

• Buyer & Seller Checklists
  
  

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Music:

Straight A’s by Conner Price

The Good Life by Summer Kennedy

How do you build a real estate business that lasts? Spoiler alert: it’s not with fancy tech or paid leads.

In this bonus episode, we’re sharing Alissa’s recent guest appearance on The Real South Agents Podcast with Jamie Knight. You’ll hear a fresh side of Alissa as she flips the mic and opens up about her earliest days in real estate — from waiting tables to handwriting 250 letters just to build a database.

Jamie does a great job pulling out valuable takeaways for both new and struggling Realtors, and you’ll leave this conversation with a renewed sense of purpose and plenty of real-life strategies that actually work.

You’ll hear the exact process Alissa followed to build her repeat and referral-based business, why she almost became a real estate appraiser, and the advice she’d give an agent who’s one bad month away from quitting.

If you’ve ever felt like giving up, or you’re stuck in the weeds of “what CRM should I use,” this is your pep talk.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this bonus chat:

• How Alissa went from Cane’s lemonade maker to top-producing Realtor

• Why your business “clock” might not have started yet

• The low-cost move that helped Alissa build her database

• How to consistently stay in touch without being pushy or salesy

• Why writing 250 handwritten notes changed everything

• What to do when you’re struggling and have no leads

• Simple follow-up strategies that still work in 2025

• The email tip that keeps you top of mind (and feels human)

• Why loving on your people always beats paid leads

Products, People & Previous Episodes Mentioned:

• Jamie Knight, The Real South Agents Podcast

• Mailchimp (for email list building)

• Alissa’s spreadsheet-style CRM

• LSU Football Schedule Mailouts

• Hustle Humbly Community: hustlehumblypodcast.com/membership
  

• Freebies for Realtors: hustlehumblypodcast.com/freebies