In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole answers the profound listener question:
“What’s one of the most effective methods you’ve personally found to cultivate your integrity?”

Nicole redefines integrity as spiritual alignment, where our thoughts, emotions, and actions match our belief in Christ. She walks listeners through a 3-part daily rhythm rooted in Scripture and real-life experience: daily praise, daily noticing, and daily confession. This soul-training practice helps listeners learn to live more fully into God’s peace, wisdom, and joy—even in the everyday chaos of life.

If you’re longing for a life where what you believe matches how you live, this episode is your roadmap.

Main Takeaways

• Integrity means inner alignment: It’s not just about moral perfection—it’s about connecting your heart, mind, and actions to God’s purposes.

• It’s a daily journey, not a one-time decision: We don’t just say “yes” to Jesus once—we say it again and again as we walk with Him each day.

Nicole’s 3-Step Practice to Cultivate Integrity:

1. Daily Rhythm of Praise – Begin each day acknowledging God’s goodness and aligning your heart with His will.

2. Daily Noticing – Pay attention to moments of anxiety, anger, and apathy—they often reveal areas where God wants to work.

3. Daily Confession – End the day in honesty and grace. Confess missteps and receive the cleansing God promises in 1 John 1:9.

• God’s Mercy is New Every Morning: Confession isn’t about guilt; it’s about freedom and renewal.

• You don’t have to feel it to start: Spiritual disciplines begin as choices—and your emotions will often follow your habits.

📜 Bible Verse References

• 1 John 1:8–9 – “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive…”

• Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

• James 3:2 – “We all stumble in many ways.”

• Psalm 51:10 – “Create in me a clean heart, O God…”

• Matthew 6:11 – “Give us this day our daily bread…”

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🔗 Relevant Links & Resources

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• Recommended Song: “Lord, I Need You” by Matt Maher – for morning praise practice

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In this week’s episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole answers a deeply personal and universally relevant listener question: “How do you repair a relationship when trust has been broken—and you know you’ll never accept their point of view?”

With pastoral care, biblical grounding, and hard-earned wisdom, Nicole unpacks the spiritual and emotional nuance of reconciliation. Drawing from Matthew 18 and the parable of the unforgiving servant, she explores what it means to truly forgive someone from the heart—and how that differs from rebuilding trust or restoring a broken relationship.

Nicole challenges the common myth that forgiveness equals relational closeness, and instead introduces a framework for discerning when and how to rebuild a relationship. Listeners will walk away with clarity, compassion, and a path forward for their most complex relational wounds.

Main Takeaways

• Forgiveness and Reconciliation are not the same: You can forgive someone fully without restoring the relationship to what it once was.

• Forgiveness is about release: Releasing the debt someone owes you doesn't mean ignoring the pain or pretending it didn’t happen.

• Trust Must Be Rebuilt: Trust after betrayal requires mutual effort—both people must be willing to rebuild from their side of the breach.

• Respect is the Minimum Requirement: You don’t need to share the same worldview to have a relationship—but both parties must be willing to listen and respect one another.

• Relationships exist on a spectrum: Not every relationship needs to be fully restored. Some may be repositioned to a more distant—but still loving—place.

• Scripture challenges us to forgive radically: Jesus’ parable in Matthew 18:21–35 underscores the magnitude of the forgiveness we've received—and the forgiveness we're called to extend.

📜 Bible Verse References

• Matthew 18:21–35 – Parable of the Unforgiving Servant

• Jeremiah 17:9 – “The heart is deceitful above all things…”

• Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

• Matthew 6:12 – “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”

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In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we’re bringing you a special conversation from one of our LifeAudio partners. Host Monica Schmelter sits down with Stephanie, a breast cancer survivor whose journey from diagnosis to healing is a raw and beautiful testament to faith, resilience, and God’s sustaining grace.

Stephanie shares what it was like to hear the words, “You have cancer,” and opens up about the emotional and physical battles she faced through treatment. From her biggest fears—like telling her mom and daughter—to discovering unexpected strength through Christ, her story is filled with honesty, hope, and encouragement.

Whether you're walking through your own health challenge or supporting someone who is, this episode will remind you of the power of faith, the value of community, and the importance of not putting yourself last.

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In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole responds to a powerful and timely question:
“What happens when we dehumanize others, and what might we be avoiding in ourselves when we do it?”

Rooted in Scripture and shaped by years of teaching and discipleship, Nicole explores how dehumanization—both subtle and overt—can reveal deeper emotional and spiritual struggles, particularly among women. Through biblical reflection and honest personal insights, she identifies three key areas often lurking beneath this behavior: fear, anger, and pride.

Listeners will walk away challenged and encouraged to reexamine how they view others—and how they might bring hidden heart issues before God for healing and transformation.

Main Takeaways

• Dehumanization is subtle but dangerous: We often strip others of their God-given dignity by grouping them into labels, roles, or categories.

• Words carry weight: Name-calling and group labels are not just emotional reactions—they violate the biblical truth that every person bears the image of God.

• Why we dehumanize: It's often an avoidance tactic for deeper emotional realities.

• Three Common Roots Behind Dehumanization in Women:

  1. Fear – Of being wrong, hurt, rejected, or vulnerable

  2. Anger – Especially unspoken or culturally suppressed anger

  3. Pride – The insidious belief that we know best, or can determine what's fair or right outside of God

• The Bible’s Response: God calls us back to humility, self-examination, and compassion. Transformation starts with asking God to search our hearts (Psalm 139).

Bible Verse References

• Genesis 1:27 – “God created mankind in His own image…”

• Psalm 139:13–14 – “You knit me together in my mother’s womb…”

• Jeremiah 2:13 – God describes forsaking Him as abandoning living water

• Jeremiah 17:9 – “The heart is deceitful above all things…”

• Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

Calls to Action (CTAs)

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🔗 Relevant Links & Resources

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• Recommended Reflection: Write out a prayer of surrender using Psalm 139.

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In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole tackles one of the most common (and courageous!) questions: “I’ve never read the Bible cover to cover—where should I start?”

She breaks down practical, grace-filled strategies for reading the Bible in a way that actually works, offering insights for both new and seasoned believers. From choosing the right translation to dealing with confusing or difficult passages, Nicole empowers listeners to start reading with confidence and purpose. Whether you’ve felt overwhelmed, confused, or discouraged by Scripture in the past, this episode will give you a clear and doable way forward.

🧠 Main Takeaways

• You’re Not Alone: Many faithful Christians have never read the whole Bible—and it’s never too late to start.

• Don’t Start at Genesis (at least not right away): Many fall off around Leviticus. Instead, begin with:

  • Luke – A detailed and compassionate account of Jesus’s life

  • Acts – The story of the early church

  • Romans – A powerful explanation of the gospel

  • Then continue through the New Testament before tackling the Old Testament

• Use a Study Bible: Even a basic study Bible can provide helpful context, intros, and notes for difficult passages.

• Mark Your Progress: Write in your Bible, underline verses, and make notes—it can become a spiritual journal and legacy.

• Don’t Get Stuck in the Weeds: Your first time reading is a flyover—aim for big-picture understanding, not perfection.

• Psalms & Proverbs: Consider mixing in chapters of Psalms or Proverbs for encouragement and wisdom along the way.

• Read With a Plan (or Not): Try chronological Bibles, one-year plans, or even 90-day “boot camps”—but always choose what fits you.

• Give Yourself Grace: Falling behind is normal. Focus on steady progress, not perfect performance.

📜 Bible Verse References

• Luke 1:1–4 – Introduction to the Gospel account

• Acts 1:1–3 – Continuation of Luke’s writing, the story of the early church

• Romans 1–16 – Understanding theology and Christian living

• Psalm 139:13 – “You knit me together in my mother’s womb…”

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• Subscribe to How to Study the Bible to follow the full Summer Q&A Series.

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• Download a reading plan or grab a study Bible to get started today.

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Links & Resources

• NicoleUnice.com – Bible study resources, books, and teaching

• BibleStudyTools.com – Read and search Scripture online

• Recommended Bible Translation for Beginners: New Living Translation (NLT)

• Nicole’s Book: Brave Enough (includes Scripture promises for encouragement)

• Explore past episodes for deep dives into Romans, James, and more.

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In this opening episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole addresses one of the most heartfelt and relatable spiritual struggles: “What do I do when I can’t hear God’s voice?”

Drawing from James 1:2–8, Nicole unpacks why God may feel silent in seasons of confusion or pain—and how that silence could actually be an invitation. With compassionate insight and biblical depth, she offers listeners practical wisdom for enduring trials, examining their hearts, and pressing deeper into God’s promises. This is a powerful episode for anyone feeling stuck, discouraged, or distant from God.

Main Takeaways

• You’re Not Alone in the Silence: Even faithful believers experience seasons of unanswered questions or silence from God.

• James 1 Offers a Roadmap:

  • Troubles are opportunities for growth, not obstacles to joy.

  • When we ask for wisdom, God will give it—but we must ask with faith and undivided loyalty.

• Mixed Motives Can Muffle God’s Voice: Sometimes our desires are entangled with fear, selfishness, or cultural pressure. Regular self-examination can purify our requests.

• Endurance Builds Spiritual Maturity: The waiting seasons are formative. Joy, wisdom, and clarity come with time and perseverance.

• God’s Promises are Steady Anchors: Holding tight to the truths of Scripture can help steady your faith during spiritually dry times.

For Further Bible Study: Bible Verse References

• James 1:2–8 – Consider trials as joy and ask for wisdom with faith

• Jeremiah 29:13 – “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

• Matthew 11:28 – “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened…”

• John 10:10 – “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

• John 14:6 – “I am the way and the truth and the life…”

• John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

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In this final episode of the Activated series, Nicole tackles the practical call to speak about your faith. She explores 1 Peter 3:8–16 and Colossians 4:2–6, offering a clear, scripturally grounded approach to sharing “the reason for the hope that you have.”

Nicole dives into the fears and hesitations many feel when talking about faith, emphasizing that every story is a miracle, no matter how dramatic or simple it might seem. She also highlights prerequisites for effective witness—like compassion, humility, and living a life that shines hope even in dark times. With tangible insights and relatable encouragement, this episode is a guide to confidently and gently living and sharing your testimony.

🧠 Main Takeaways

• Every Story Matters: Your testimony is a miracle, whether it’s dramatic or quiet—God can use your story to inspire and invite others.

• Three Groups to Engage:

  • Those inside the faith

  • Outsiders curious about faith

  • Those opposed to the faith

• Prerequisites for Witness: Live with humility, compassion, sympathy, and love—these qualities create the context for hope to be visible.

• Be Ready to Answer: Scripture calls us to always be prepared to share the reason for our hope, with gentleness and respect.

• Practical Tips:

  • Be watchful and prayerful for open doors.

  • Let your words be gracious and seasoned with salt—speak truthfully, but with a spirit of kindness.

  • Focus on building relationships, not winning arguments.

• Little Actions Matter: Simple daily choices of kindness, patience, and listening are tiny seeds of hope that others notice.

📜 Bible Verse References

• 1 Peter 3:8–16 – Living with compassion and readiness to answer about your hope
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

• Colossians 4:2–6 – Conversations full of grace and wisdom
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

• Matthew 5–7 – Foundations for living in the Kingdom of God
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

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In this fifth installment of the Activated series, Nicole explores what it means to truly follow Jesus in our actions. Focusing on John 10:7–11 and 27–30, she highlights how Jesus presents Himself as both the gate and the Good Shepherd, contrasting His life-giving presence with the destructive force of the thief.

Listeners are invited into a deeper reflection on what it means to hear God's voice, enter into relationship with Him, and follow where He leads. Nicole breaks down these core actions and reveals the beautiful outcome: a life of confidence, safety, and transformation in Christ.

What Does It Say?

• Jesus is both the Gate and the Good Shepherd: He provides access to salvation and nurtures us in safety and truth.

• Three Actions of the Faithful Sheep:

  • Know His Voice – Learn to recognize God’s presence and guidance.

  • Enter through Him – Accept the invitation of relationship and redemption.

  • Follow His Lead – Focus your life around Jesus and take daily obedient steps.

• Opposing Kingdoms Are Real: Jesus names the thief who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy—but He comes to offer life to the full.

• God’s Voice is Knowable: Through Scripture, prayer, and community, we can discern His guidance and grow in relationship.

• Focus Drives Following: Where we place our attention is where our actions will follow.

• Tiny Obediences Matter: Everyday choices like patience, kindness, and self-control are the building blocks of a transformed life.

📜 Bible Verse References

• John 10:7–11; 27–30
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

• John 14:6 – “No one comes to the Father except through me.”
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

• Genesis 15 – God’s covenant with Abraham
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

• 1 Corinthians 11:23–26 – The institution of the Lord’s Supper
  Read on BibleStudyTools.com

RESOURCES

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  https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

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  Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

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