How to Speak a Type 5’s Language (Without Forcing Small Talk)

Type Fives are thoughtful, observant, and incredibly insightful—if you give them the space to speak. In this episode, Damon and Kelly unpack how Fives approach communication, why they avoid surface-level conversations, and what it really takes to earn their input and trust. If you’ve ever wondered what’s going on behind a Five’s quiet presence, this one’s for you.

In This Episode:

• Why Type Fives value space, privacy, and logic in conversations
• The strengths of Fives: listening, simplifying, and strategic thinking
• How to communicate with Fives: clear expectations, emotional patience, and deadlines
• The challenge of emotional expression and how Fives can grow
• Real-life team dynamics and funny truths about meeting leadership

New here? Check out Episode 100 to hear how each Enneagram type handles change—and where this podcast is heading next.

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