How to Make No Contact EASY

Most people think going “no contact” is simple: stop talking to the person, block them if you have to, and move on. But if you’ve ever tried it in real life, you already know it’s rarely that clean. You stop communicating on the outside, but on the inside you’re replaying conversations, checking their social media, wondering if you should reach out, or questioning whether you made the right call.

In this episode, Light breaks down why no contact feels so hard — and the real reason you stay emotionally tied to someone long after you’ve cut communication. Using a spiritual lens, he explains the hidden dynamic most people overlook, how to know when you’re actually ready to detach, and why timing matters more than willpower.

You’ll also learn what needs to happen internally before no contact becomes effortless instead of a daily battle, how to stop obsessing over “what if” scenarios, and how to recognize when you’ve finally “graduated” from a relationship dynamic for good.

If you’re stuck in that push-pull space — half wanting to move on, half still mentally in it — this episode offers the clarity you’ve been missing.

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I really liked this episode - it helped my processing of a familial no contact situation. I definitely went through the too-early phases Light outlines, went back for more info numerous times, and have gotten to the ease/natural stage of no contact. It’s def different with a family member versus a chosen partner, but many of the feelings and approaches are the same and resonated deeply.