Episodios

  • How to Buy a Home - Step 2: Realtors & Lenders (Choosing Your Guides)
    Oct 10 2025
    Choosing the right realtor and lender is the most important decision of your entire home-buying journey. In this foundational step of the How to Buy a Home Starter Kit, David Sidoni reveals how to build your real estate “dream team” — one that guides, protects, and empowers you from day one. This episode exposes the industry myths that keep first-time buyers confused and shows you how to find professionals who work for you, not just the deal.SynopsisMost first-time buyers think their realtor’s job is to find a house and write an offer, and their lender’s job is to get them the lowest rate. Wrong. In this episode, David breaks down the truth about what real estate and mortgage professionals are really supposed to do — act as your advocates and educators long before you ever start touring homes.You’ll learn why finding your guides early is the #1 shortcut to buying with confidence and saving money in the process. David walks through the “red flags” that signal you’re working with an order-taker instead of a true advisor, explains how fees really work (even after the 2024 NAR lawsuit), and shows you exactly what to look for in a first-time–buyer–friendly realtor and lender.This episode is all about mindset — shifting from “I can figure it out on my own” to “I deserve a team that helps me win.” You’ll walk away knowing how to interview potential agents and lenders, how to spot true advocates who will guide you through every step, and why this early investment of time can make or break your success as a homebuyer.Quote“You don’t have to do all the planning on your own — that’s the number one thing that will make or break your home-buying dreams.”HighlightsWhy Step 2 is the most important step in the 10-part homebuying processThe truth about what your lender and realtor actually doHow to avoid “door-openers” and “order-takers” who only chase transactionsThe real story behind agent fees after the 2024 NAR lawsuitHow early education with the right guides multiplies your buying powerThe mindset shift that turns confusion into confidenceRed flags to avoid when choosing your real estate teamWhat to look for in a first-time–buyer–focused realtor and lenderWhy spending 10x more time researching your team is worth itThe “personal Yoda” principle — why long-term guidance creates better outcomesReferenced Episodes[Ep. 5] The Biggest Dirty Little Secret in Real Estate[Ep. 164] START HERE: 10 Steps to Buying Your First Home[Ep. 169] Woman Power: This Single Woman Bought Her First Home[Ep. 229] What Is a Unicorn Real Estate Team?[Ep. 339] Don’t Get Pre-Qualified—Get a Plan (Interview)[Ep. 340] Down Payment Assistance, Discovery Calls & Lending Myths (Interview)[Ep. 382] 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt. 1: Rates[Ep. 383] 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt. 2: Sales, Inventory & Affordability[Ep. 384] 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt. 3: Rent Math & Buying Power[Ep. 388] The Playbook Vol. 1: The Rent Replacement Strategy[Ep. 389] The Playbook Vol. 2: Your Last Lease EverConnect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHomeInstagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcastTik Tok @HowToBuyAHomeVisit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.
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  • How to Buy a Home - Step 1: Decide (The Mindset Shift)
    Oct 8 2025
    Before credit checks, down payments, or Zillow searches — the first step is deciding. In this kickoff to the 10-step Homebuying 101 series, David Sidoni breaks down the mindset every first-time homebuyer must have before any of the practical steps even matter. If you’ve been stuck renting, overwhelmed by myths, or waiting for “the right time,” this episode will change how you see yourself — and your ability to buy a home.SynopsisMost people think the first step to buying a home is financial — checking credit, saving money, or finding a realtor. But that’s not where it starts. The first step is mental: deciding you’re ready to take control of your future.David Sidoni, founder of How to Buy a Home, reveals why every first-time homebuyer’s journey begins with a decision — a mindset shift that transforms fear into action. He exposes the biggest myths keeping renters stuck, from “you need 20% down” to “you can’t buy with student loans,” and replaces them with real numbers, data, and proof from thousands of successful buyers.Listeners learn that education is the antidote to fear. Sidoni shows that understanding the process, not having perfect finances, is what separates dreamers from doers. Backed by six years of data, he proves that 72% of people who thought they were a year away from buying discovered they were ready far sooner — once they made the decision to start.By the end, this isn’t just about houses or mortgages — it’s about finally believing you can stop renting forever.Quote“Step one is decide — because none of the other nine steps mean a damn thing if you don’t make that choice first.”— David Sidoni, How to Buy a Home PodcastHighlightsThe true first step isn’t financial — it’s mental. Deciding to move forward changes everything.Myth-busting the biggest fears: You don’t need 20% down, a six-figure income, or perfect credit to buy.Mindset = momentum. Confidence comes from education, not from already knowing everything.Proven data: 72% of buyers who thought they were a year away discovered they could buy much sooner.Clarity before chaos. The 10 steps give you a system so you can stop guessing and start planning.Empathy and empowerment. David helps first-time buyers understand that fear isn’t failure — it’s just lack of information.Referenced Episodes388 - The Playbook VOL. 1 - The Rent Replacement Strategy389 - The Playbook VOL. 2: Your Last Lease Ever382 - 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt 1: Rates383 - 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt 2: Sales, Inventory & Affordability384 - 2025 Crucial Housing Market Shift Pt 3: Rent Math & Buying Power98 - Time for A New Game Plan To Buy Your First Home – My Story355 - Real Answers Pt 4: Should I Rent or Buy in 2025?OFFICIAL 2025 EPISODE GUIDEConnect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHomeInstagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcastTik Tok @HowToBuyAHomeVisit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer. Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!
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  • Introduction: How to Buy a Home Starter Series (START HERE)
    Oct 6 2025
    Welcome to the official starting point of How to Buy a Home.If you’re ready to stop renting but don’t know where to start, this is your map. In this episode, David Sidoni introduces the 10 Steps System — the complete homebuying education plan trusted by first-time buyers across the U.S. You won’t learn every step today — this episode is your orientation.David explains how the system works, what you’ll learn in the episodes ahead, and how to start preparing right now with three simple, actionable steps you can take today. Buying your first home can feel impossible. You’ve got questions — How much money do I need? What about my credit? When should I even start? That’s exactly why this series exists. In this reboot of How to Buy a Home’s signature 10 Steps System, David lays out the roadmap that gives you the clarity, structure, and confidence you’ve been missing. This episode is the introduction — the foundation for the ten educational episodes that follow. You’ll hear how the system works, what each step will cover, and why this is the most trusted guide for first-time buyers today. Over the next ten episodes, David will walk you through everything: How to set your goals and build your teamHow to improve your credit and manage debtHow to save for your down paymentHow to find the right home and navigate the current market By the end of this short intro, you’ll know exactly where to begin — and leave with three real-world actions to get you started today, even if you’re still renting or just starting your research. This isn’t another quick tip podcast — it’s your step-by-step education plan to finally buy your first home with confidence. “By the end of this, I’m going to give you three action steps that you can start today — yeah, progress immediately.” Highlights: Learn how the 10 Steps System works — and why it’s the most trusted first-time buyer framework in the U.S.Understand what each of the 10 steps will teach you in future episodes.Find out when and how to start your homebuying prep — even if you’re not financially ready yet.Discover how HBH helps you educate, protect, and connect with qualified professionals.Updated for 2025–2026 — real guidance for today’s market conditions.Take three simple action steps before the next episode to start your journey. Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHomeInstagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcastTik Tok @HowToBuyAHomeVisit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer. Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!
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  • INTERVIEW: The Real Value of Buying: What Nick Gained Beyond a Mortgage
    Oct 3 2025

    Buying a home isn’t just about payments — it’s about building a future.


    In this episode, David sits down with Nick, a first-time buyer who went from having just $1,500 in the bank to closing on a $312,000 home in less than a year. Nick shares the fears, doubts, and breakthroughs that turned his “someday” dream into reality — including the pivotal moment he realized that an extra $1,000 a month wasn’t just rent, it was buying him security, equity, and a foundation for his family’s future.


    You’ll hear how listening to the podcast gave Nick a “study guide,” but reaching out for real help with a unicorn realtor made all the difference. His story shows why waiting can cost you, and why taking action — even when it feels scary — is the key to breaking out of the renter cycle.


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    “I kept waiting for the sales pitch… but it never came. Just the facts came, and that got my attention.” – Nick


    Highlights


    • How Nick turned $1,500 in savings into homeownership in under a year
    • The moment he overcame the fear of reaching out for help
    • Why an extra $1,000 per month on a mortgage payment isn’t just “more rent”
    • The difference between passive learning and active planning with a unicorn realtor
    • Why waiting can cost more than starting the process today


    Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!



    Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHome



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    Visit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!


    David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.


    Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!

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  • Replay: Building a Future Through Homeownership – DeShawn’s Story (Ep. 247 Revisited) - 398
    Oct 1 2025
    We’re revisiting one of the most powerful first-time buyer stories ever shared on the show. DeShawn’s journey from homelessness at 15 to homeowner proves that with the right plan, a unicorn team, and determination, you can buy a home—even when the odds seem stacked against you.In this replay of Episode 247, we revisit DeShawn and Katrina’s inspiring path to homeownership. After years of struggle and resilience, DeShawn used the podcast to build a plan, connect with a unicorn team, and take advantage of a first-time homebuyer grant and zero down loan.They brought just $5,000 to closing, and today their mortgage payment is $200 less than their old rent. In this interview, DeShawn shares:How he rebuilt his life after being on his own since age 15Why your credit score is a game-changer (and how to strengthen it)The offer strategy that helped them get their home accepted fastThe importance of expanding your search area to find affordabilityHis vision for creating long-term wealth for his familyThis story is a reminder that first-time buyers can win—even in tough markets. If you’ve been discouraged by headlines or myths about needing 20% down, DeShawn’s story will inspire you to see what’s truly possible.Quote“My biggest thing for everybody is just trust the process. Credit score, credit score, credit score is huge. And you really lean into your unicorn team. Amazing things will happen.” – DeShawnHighlightsFrom homeless teen to homeowner: DeShawn’s powerful journeyUsing a grant and zero down loan to minimize upfront costsHow their new mortgage ended up cheaper than rentWhy credit score matters more than most buyers realizeCreative offer strategies that stand out in competitive marketsThe role of a unicorn team in making the process achievableBuilding long-term financial stability through homeownershipReferenced Episodes:FOR A COMPLETE LIST OF ALL THE REFERENCED EPISODES, PLEASE VISIT OUR OFFICIAL 2025 EPISODE GUIDEConnect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHomeInstagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcastTik Tok @HowToBuyAHomeVisit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer. Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!
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  • Tips & Warnings for First Time Homebuyers in 2025 - 397
    Sep 29 2025

    First-time homebuyers often get stuck in the same myths and mistakes. This episode shares overlooked tips and critical warnings that can protect you and boost your confidence.


    Buying your first home can feel overwhelming, but a few insider strategies can make the process smoother — and safer. In this episode, David Sidoni shares hard-earned lessons from two decades of guiding first-time buyers. You’ll learn how lenders calculate your debt-to-income ratio (DTI), why monthly debt payments matter more than total balances, and how to avoid common missteps that derail approvals. Each tip comes with a warning, because protection is the first job of a unicorn Realtor. Whether you’re just beginning your research or already preparing for pre-approval, these nuggets will help you move forward with clarity.


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    “Protecting you isn’t a small part of a unicorn realtor’s job. It’s their first job.”


    Highlights:


    • What lenders really look at in your debt-to-income ratio (DTI)
    • Why monthly obligations carry more weight than your total debt
    • The hidden pitfalls that can stall loan approval
    • The role of a unicorn Realtor in protecting first-time buyers
    • Confidence-boosting tips that most buyers never hear


    Referenced Episodes:


    FOR A COMPLETE LIST OF ALL THE REFERENCED EPISODES, PLEASE VISIT OUR OFFICIAL 2025 EPISODE GUIDE


    Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!



    Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHome



    Instagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcast

    Tik Tok @HowToBuyAHome


    Visit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!


    David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.


    Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!

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    15 m
  • INTERVIEW: Apartment to 2-Acre Homestead: Samantha’s First-Time Buyer Story - 396
    Sep 27 2025

    How one first-time buyer left city renting behind and built her rural dream life — with just 5% down.


    Dreaming of wide open space, a garden, and room for animals? Samantha made it happen. In this episode, David Sidoni talks with Samantha, a first-time buyer who left apartment living to purchase a 2-acre homestead in Texas. Her journey shows how early planning, flexibility, and the right team can turn a dream into reality.


    Samantha shares how she timed her purchase with her lease, worked with a unicorn realtor to find trusted lender options, and adjusted her checklist without losing sight of her must-haves. She also opens up about the tough but valuable lessons she learned from rural inspections — including septic and well systems — and how she knew when to walk away.


    Whether you’re dreaming of a rural property or just wondering if 5% down is enough, this story proves that the right strategy makes even the biggest lifestyle shifts possible.



    Quote


    “Definitely have a checklist of things that you value and you want with your home. But also don’t be afraid of tweaking it, especially as you see homes.” — Samantha



    Highlights


    • Why starting the homebuying process months in advance reduces stress
    • How to work with a unicorn realtor to find a trusted lender
    • Balancing must-haves with flexibility in the search
    • Red flags in rural inspections: septic systems, wells, and flipper properties
    • How Samantha bought her dream with just 5% down
    • Using homeownership to build toward bigger life goals


    Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!



    Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHome



    Instagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcast

    Tik Tok @HowToBuyAHome


    Visit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!


    David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.


    Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!

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    46 m
  • Closing Costs: Why ‘Wait and Save’ Is Costing You in 2025 - 395
    Sep 24 2025

    Too many renters delay buying because they think they need far more cash than reality. In this updated replay, David Sidoni explains why the “wait and save” mindset is one of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make—and how much you actually need to bring to closing.


    If you’ve been sitting on the sidelines thinking you need $50,000, $80,000, or even $100,000 saved before buying, this episode is for you. In today’s shifting 2025 market—where buyers finally have more leverage in many areas—the biggest obstacle is still misinformation about closing costs.


    In this myth-busting replay of episode 348, David Sidoni breaks down why 90% of aspiring buyers overestimate what it takes to close, costing them years of wasted rent and lost equity. You’ll hear real-world examples of buyers who closed on homes with far less than they expected, plus the creative (but totally legit) tools that helped them get there: low down payment programs, seller credits, and assistance options.


    Closing isn’t just a date on the calendar—it’s a moving process with shifting costs and timelines. But with clarity, preparation, and the right mindset, you can take control of the chaos and finally stop waiting on the sidelines.


    “That phrase, ‘wait and save,’ has cost renters hundreds of millions of dollars in unnecessary rent paid and equity lost.”


    Highlights


    • Why most renters dramatically overestimate down payment and closing costs
    • Real examples of buyers closing with as little as $4,100
    • Why the myth of 10–20% down plus extra costs is holding you back
    • How loan programs, seller credits, and assistance can reduce cash needed
    • Why closing is a process, not a single day—and how to manage it
    • The mindset shift that helps Type-A buyers stay calm when timelines shift
    • The truth: you don’t need as much as you think to buy your first home

    Connect with me to find a trusted realtor in your area or to answer your burning questions!



    Subscribe to our YouTube Channel @HowToBuyaHome



    Instagram @HowtoBuyAHomePodcast

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    Visit our Resource Center to "Ask David" AND get your FREE Home Buying Starter Kit!


    David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.


    Subscribe for regular market updates, and leave a review to help us reach more people. Ready for an honest, informed home-buying experience? Viva la Unicorn Revolution - join us!

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    42 m