How to Argue Without Damaging Connection | V108
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What if one word could instantly create disconnection in your family?
In Episode 108 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis unpack why phrases like “you always” and “you never” instantly trigger defensiveness — and how identity-based criticism damages connection.
You’ll learn:
- Why “always” and “never” shut down listening
- How tone impacts connection more than content
- The difference between identity and behavior correction
- How siblings create connection (and disconnection)- Why love languages matter in real conflict
- How to argue with honor instead of hurt
If you want calmer homes, stronger marriages, and healthier sibling relationships — this episode is for you.
(00:00) Why “You Always” Instantly Creates Defensiveness
(01:55) Identity-Based Criticism vs Correcting Behavior
(03:32) Raising Your Voice and Managing Conflict With Honor
(04:57) Keeping Score and Sibling Disconnection
(05:53) Breaking the Habit of “Always” and “Never”
(07:47) Why Late-Night Arguments Escalate Conflict
(09:37) Love Languages and Understanding Each Other
(10:55) How Love Languages Impact Conflict
(12:18) Celebrating Personality Differences
(14:05) Comparison and Identity in Families
(15:28) Embracing Different Personalities in the Home