In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda continue the conversation on relationships—this time focusing on how to move beyond transactional networking and start building genuine, meaningful connections.

They break down the difference between surface-level interactions and relationships rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and consistency. Through real stories and practical exercises from the companion guide, you’ll learn how to better understand yourself, show up with intention, and create connections that actually support your personal and professional growth.

Because how you go there isn’t just about the destination—it’s about who you go there with.

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00:00 – Why relationships don’t have to last forever to matter 00:23 – Introduction to the series and relationship deep dive 02:19 – Transactional vs. genuine relationships 03:54 – Why networking often feels performative 04:42 – The “garden” metaphor for building relationships 06:02 – Leading with vulnerability instead of your résumé 07:26 – Rethinking the elevator pitch (“Know Thyself”) 08:31 – Do transactional relationships have an expiration date? 09:25 – How real connections actually start (Scott & Linda’s story) 11:21 – Presence vs. positioning in conversations 13:40 – The “Know Thyself” exercise explained 16:21 – Finding relationships that complement (not mirror) you 18:19 – Preparing for meaningful conversations 20:43 – How to intentionally build deeper connections 22:43 – Why consistency matters in relationships 25:23 – Using the Relationship Action Plan 26:18 – When credentials hurt more than they help 27:48 – It’s okay for relationships to evolve or end 29:02 – Weekly challenge: connect with no agenda

What if everything you’ve been taught about success is backwards?

In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda dive into one of the most overlooked — yet powerful — drivers of personal and professional growth: relationships.

From challenging the idea that success is built on skills alone, to exploring how the right relationships create access, opportunity, and momentum, this conversation reframes how you think about your journey.

You’ll learn why every meaningful milestone in your life likely traces back to a person, how to identify the relationships shaping your path, and what it actually looks like to build intentional, high-impact connections.

Plus, we introduce a practical exercise from the How You Go There workbook: relationship mapping — helping you break down your network into mentors, supporters, challengers, and more.

Whether you're looking to grow your career, strengthen your network, or better understand your path, this episode will challenge you to rethink who’s on your “train” — and why it matters.

• Why “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know” is more true than you think
• How relationships shape your career and life trajectory
• The difference between relationships and partnerships
• How to map and evaluate your current network
• Why you need both supporters and challengers
• When it’s time to strengthen, repair, or release relationships

If someone mapped you, what role would you play in their life?

00:00 Introduction to the series and focus on relationships 00:52 Why relationships are central to success 01:31 Scott’s UVA story and late-career milestone 03:35 Key takeaway from students: relationships matter most 04:33 “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know” explained 05:22 Every milestone is tied to a relationship 06:08 How relationships create opportunity in careers 07:25 Honoring and sustaining relationships over time 08:26 Relationships vs partnerships explained 10:32 Why relationships are often underestimated 12:22 Long-term relationships and trust in action 13:26 Skills vs relationships debate 15:30 How relationships create access and opportunity 16:01 Introduction to relationship mapping exercise 18:03 How to map your network (mentors, supporters, challengers) 20:07 Key realizations from mapping relationships 23:22 Three core takeaways from the episode 25:03 Final reflections on growth and relationships 25:41 Where to connect and follow the podcast

Who you partner with can shape everything—your business, your growth, and your life.

In this episode, Scott and Linda explore the difference between partnerships and relationships, introduce the “Kite vs String” framework, and share practical ways to identify strengths, growth areas, and complementary skill sets.

If you want to build stronger partnerships and become a more effective leader, this episode is for you.

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Before you can move forward in your career or leadership journey, you need to understand what brought you here.

In this episode of the How You Go There Podcast, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis kick off the season by walking through the very first exercise in the How You Go There workbook — reflecting on your journey.

Through personal stories and practical leadership insights, Scott and Linda explore how pivotal moments, relationships, and decisions shape our professional paths. They also share simple exercises to help you pause, reflect, and identify where you want to go next.

You'll hear real examples of leadership lessons, career missteps, and the powerful role that mentorship and partnerships can play in shaping your trajectory.

If you’ve ever asked yourself “How did I get here?” or wondered what your next step should be, this episode will help you begin that process with intention.

• Why reflection is the first step to meaningful career growth • How pivotal moments shape leadership development • The importance of relationships and partnerships in your journey • A simple exercise to clarify where you are and where you're going • How small actions today can move your career forward

✔ Write your “Here Statement” — why you are where you are today ✔ Choose one short-term goal for the next 30 days ✔ Identify one action step that moves you forward

Growth doesn't start with a five-year plan. It starts with understanding your story.

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00:00 Introduction to the How You Go There Podcast 00:41 Why understanding your journey matters 01:23 The first exercise in the HYGT workbook 02:13 Why partnerships and relationships shape our careers 03:24 Scott’s early career story and a pivotal leadership lesson 05:16 A career mistake that almost ended in termination 06:16 The power of trust and relationships in leadership 07:01 Linda shares a leadership lesson from defending her team 08:32 A career setback that became a leadership growth moment 09:23 Leadership starts with how you respond to challenges 10:00 Sponsor message 11:05 Reflecting on the “season” of your career 11:35 How journaling and reflection create clarity 13:02 Questions to help you evaluate your partnerships 14:16 The simple framework: Where are you, why are you here, and what are your goals? 16:12 Coaching leaders through career frustration 17:28 Why reflection helps you move forward 17:44 Actionable exercises from the workbook 18:04 Write your “Here Statement” 18:59 Setting one goal for the next 30 days 20:23 Identifying your next small step 21:07 Why small actions create momentum 21:28 Final takeaways and reflections 22:02 Wrapping up the episode and preview of next week

Welcome to Episode 12 of How You Go There (HYGT Podcast) — a space where we go beyond traditional success stories to uncover the real strategies, skills, and turning points that shape careers and leadership.

In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery (ICF Certified Leadership Coach and author of How Did You Get Here?) and Linda Misegadis (business strategist and host of Her Resources Podcast) open up about what it means to pause, reset, and realign in your career.

They share an honest conversation about self-reflection, fulfillment, and how to apply coaching tools at every stage of your career — even after decades of experience.

🎧 Listen in to learn:

• When it’s time to “reset” your career direction

• The difference between coaching, therapy, advising, and mentorship

• How to apply your professional experience in new, meaningful ways

• Why vulnerability and trust are key to growth

• The power of reflective tools like the How You Go There Companion Guide

00:00 – Introduction: What Do You Do With All Your Experience? 01:05 – Welcome to How You Go There 02:00 – Why It’s Time to Reset 04:00 – Practicing What You Preach 06:30 – Setting Goals and Evaluating Relationships 08:00 – Giveaway: Win How Did You Get Here? + Companion Guide 10:00 – Coaching vs. Therapy and Finding Fulfillment 15:00 – The Value of Vulnerability 19:00 – Mentoring, Authenticity, and Leadership Growth 24:00 – Trust, Transparency, and Effective Coaching 30:00 – Final Takeaways: Sustainable Success and Self-Discovery

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Episode 11 – Go First | How You Go There Podcast

Leadership isn’t about waiting your turn — it’s about knowing when to step up. In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis explore the power of going first—whether in meetings, career transitions, or personal growth.

You’ll learn how to overcome fear, judgment, and imposter syndrome while building the confidence to create opportunities. From ice-breaking in the workplace to finding mentors and opening doors in everyday life, this conversation shows how taking the first step can change the trajectory of your career and leadership journey.

💡 What You’ll Discover:

• Why going first builds influence and credibility

• How leaders can create safe environments for others to step up

• Practical strategies to balance humility, courage, and vulnerability

• The role of relationships in advancing your leadership growth

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• 00:00 – Opening Insights Fear, judgment, and the challenge of speaking up.

• 02:10 – Why Going First Matters Confidence, leadership, and creating opportunity.

• 04:00 – Icebreakers at Work Speaking up in meetings and setting the tone.

• 06:30 – Humility & Intentionality How to “go first” without overperforming.

• 08:15 – Building Mentorship Through Initiative Turning vulnerability into mentorship opportunities.

• 09:45 – Confidence & Restraint Balancing courage with listening and learning.

• 12:10 – Mentoring & Gender Dynamics Different styles of collaboration and mentoring.

• 15:15 – Public Speaking as a Leadership Skill Why speaking up develops long-term leadership growth.

• 17:00 – Everyday Examples of Going First From networking to personal apologies.

• 20:00 – Leadership & Safe Environments How leaders foster spaces for others to step forward.

• 22:20 – Key Takeaways Building confidence, taking initiative, and creating opportunities.

• 23:00 – Free Resource + Closing Habit Tracker PDF with code HYGTEP11.

Episode 10 – From Job #1 to Job #2: Building the Bridge

Your first job might get you started, but it’s the second job where careers really begin to take shape. In this episode, Scott and Linda talk about what it takes to successfully move from Job #1 to Job #2 — without losing momentum.

Hear how reputation, authentic relationships, and staying prepared for opportunities can open doors you didn’t even know existed. If you’ve ever wondered how to leverage your first job into the next big move, this episode is your playbook.

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• 00:00 – Why Your Second Job is Pivotal

• 01:17 – Reputation is the Best Resume

• 03:00 – Building Relationships that Open Doors

• 05:24 – Job #1 Lessons that Propel Job #2

• 07:10 – Linda’s Career Story: From Secretary to Finance

• 09:30 – The Power of Authentic Networking

• 12:00 – Follow-Up, Gratitude & Staying Ready

• 14:30 – Exploring New Industries Without Fear

• 16:45 – Turning Conversations Into Opportunities

• 17:43 – Key Takeaways & Practical Career Advice

• 19:27 – Free PDF Giveaway & Closing

Episode 9 of How You Go There explores networking as the foundation of career and leadership success.

Scott and Linda discuss how networking starts with your very first job and continues throughout your career. They share candid insights into how meaningful connections—whether with peers, executives, or mentors—can transform your path and lead to future opportunities you never expected.

This episode goes beyond surface-level advice to show you how to network authentically, follow up with purpose, and turn professional relationships into lasting ones.

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0:00 – Introduction 2:00 – Networking starts with your first job 4:00 – How relationships come full circle 6:00 – Showing up prepared for connection 8:00 – Building relationships with leaders 10:00 – Using LinkedIn & personalization 13:00 – Authentic follow-up & gratitude 15:00 – Cross-functional networking 17:00 – Remembering details that matter 18:00 – Networking that becomes lifelong friendship 20:00 – Closing insights