How (Not) to Speak Into Suffering | A Forum with Nancy Guthrie

In this episode, Dr. Travis Montgomery talks with Nancy Guthrie, author and Bible teacher, about how to wisely and compassionately speak into suffering. Nancy shares her personal story of loss, the lessons she learned about faith and grief, and practical advice for comforting others without causing harm. The conversation explores common mistakes Christians make, how biblical theology shapes our understanding of suffering, and why hope in God’s promises sustains us through pain. Nancy also offers guidance for pastors, friends, and anyone walking alongside those who grieve.

About the Podcast

Local Theologians is a podcast for everyday Christians and ministry leaders from Midwestern Seminary's Global Campus. Learn more about online theological education at mbts.edu/global.

Keywords

suffering, grief, pastoral care, biblical theology, sovereignty of God, comfort, lament, faith, hope, Nancy Guthrie

Takeaways

• Faith is not pressuring God for our preferred outcome—it’s trusting His wisdom and goodness.

• Avoid platitudes and phrases that diminish grief; instead, acknowledge the pain.

• Practical help often speaks louder than vague offers—act without waiting to be asked.

• Biblical theology provides a framework for understanding suffering within God’s redemptive story.

• Grief is not something to fix; it’s something to walk through with compassion and patience.

• God promises grace sufficient for every trial, even when He does not remove the pain.

• Hope rests in the future restoration and the end of the curse, not in immediate relief.

Sound Bites

• Faith is not us prescribing to God what He should do—it’s trusting Him when we don’t understand.

• Don’t say ‘at least’—it diminishes the loss.

• My grace is sufficient for you—God’s promise for every sufferer.

• Biblical theology helps us see suffering in light of the whole story of Scripture.

Chapters

1. 00:00 Introduction and Nancy Guthrie’s Background

2. 02:06 Nancy’s Story of Loss and Faith

3. 08:21 Wrestling with Prayer and God’s Sovereignty

4. 13:43 Lessons Learned Through Grief

5. 19:23 Common Missteps in Comforting Others

6. 24:50 What Really Helps and What Hurts

7. 32:40 Practical Ways to Serve Those Who Suffer

8. 37:46 How Biblical Theology Shapes Our View of Suffering

9. 46:06 The Hope of Resurrection and Renewal

10. 51:09 Go-To Scriptures for Comfort

11. 56:35 God’s Grace in the Midst of Pain

12. 01:00:33 Trusting Again After Hurt

13. 01:07:26 Closing Reflections