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How Not To Suck At Divorce

How Not To Suck At Divorce

De: Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport
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How Not to Suck at Divorce Action Steps That Save You Money. Humor That Saves Your Sanity. Honesty That Helps You Heal. Most people make expensive divorce mistakes before they even understand the process. Before you spend thousands learning those lessons the hard way, check out our Divorce Crash Course—a $150 program available for just $50. It walks you through exactly what to do before, during, and after divorce so you can protect your finances, avoid costly mistakes, and make smarter decisions from day one. 🎓 Learn more: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course Divorce is one of the hardest things you'll ever go through—but getting through it doesn't have to cost you your financial future, your peace of mind, or your sense of humor. Hosted by comedian-turned-marketing expert Andrea Rappaport and powerhouse family law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill, How Not to Suck at Divorce helps you navigate life before, during, and after divorce with relatable conversations, practical legal insights, and honest discussions about the emotional side of starting over. Every episode is designed to help you avoid expensive mistakes, better understand the legal process, communicate more effectively, and make decisions you'll still feel good about years from now. Whether you're wondering if divorce is the right decision, in the middle of litigation, struggling with co-parenting, or rebuilding your life afterward, we're here to help you feel less alone—and a whole lot more prepared. Because divorce isn't just a legal process. It's an emotional one. And sometimes the best thing you can do is laugh, take one small step forward, and remember that you don't have to figure it all out by yourself. BEFORE DIVORCE Thinking about divorce? We'll help you prepare before you make one of the biggest decisions of your life. Learn how to protect yourself financially, emotionally, and legally before you ever file. DURING DIVORCE From custody and parenting plans to communication, negotiation, finances, and high-conflict personalities, we'll help you make smarter decisions while avoiding the mistakes that cost people the most. AFTER DIVORCE Because divorce isn't the end of your story. We'll help you rebuild your confidence, your finances, your relationships, and your life. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN How to avoid costly divorce mistakes How to reduce unnecessary legal fees Divorce preparation before hiring an attorney Custody and parenting plan strategies Co-parenting and parallel parenting Communication techniques that protect your case Financial planning during divorce Property division and asset protection Negotiation strategies Emotional healing after divorce Recovering from high-conflict relationships Rebuilding your life after divorce You'll also hear conversations with leading experts in family law, psychology, finance, digital safety, parenting, and trauma recovery, alongside honest discussions about what divorce actually feels like—and how to get through it without losing yourself in the process. At its core, How Not to Suck at Divorce is about helping you make better decisions during one of the biggest transitions of your life. Not by overwhelming you. Not by talking over your head. But by giving you action steps that save you money, humor that saves your sanity, and honesty that helps you heal. You've got this. And we've got you.Morgan L. Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport 2021-2026 Ciencias Sociales Crianza y Familias Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Relaciones
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  • Divorce Myths That Could Be Costing You Thousands

    Divorce Myths That Could Be Costing You Thousands
    Aug 7 2026
    🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC)Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning.Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today.Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unnecessary heartbreak.Episode DescriptionThere are a LOT of divorce myths out there. And believing the wrong one isn't just annoying—it can give you completely unrealistic expectations and potentially cost you a whole lot of money.In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill are busting some of the biggest divorce myths they hear over and over again.Should you be concerned if your divorce attorney is friendly with your ex's attorney? (Spoiler: probably the opposite.) Are you actually going to end up in a dramatic divorce trial where a judge finally hears your story and tells you that you were right? Do you need a divorce coach because someone on Instagram told you that you do? And should your attorney be responding to every email immediately?Andrea and Morgan also tackle one of the biggest misconceptions about hiring a divorce attorney: that a "simple divorce" means you don't need to think carefully about the level of attorney—and level of service—you hire.Morgan explains why having attorneys who can work well together can actually reduce posturing, speed up negotiations and potentially save clients money. She also shares that in her own practice, she estimates 5% or fewer of her cases actually reach a full trial—and why settlement is generally preferable when it's possible. This episode is about separating what divorce looks like on TV, Instagram and in your imagination from what actually happens—and helping you make smarter decisions with your time, money and legal strategy.Divorce Myths We're BustingMYTH #1: Your attorney shouldn't be friendly with opposing counsel. Actually, a good professional relationship between attorneys can make negotiations more efficient and reduce unnecessary fighting—and unnecessary legal fees. MYTH #2: Your divorce is probably going to trial. A hearing isn't the same thing as a full-blown trial. Morgan estimates that 5% or fewer of her own cases reach a full trial, in part because trial is expensive and ultimately puts major decisions about your life into the hands of a judge. MYTH #3: You need a divorce coach. Not necessarily. Morgan's advice is to involve your attorney before adding a coach to your divorce team and to make sure anyone you hire has appropriate credentials and a clearly defined role. Andrea and Morgan also distinguish this from a collaborative divorce where coaching may already be part of the process. MYTH #4: Your divorce attorney should always respond immediately. Your situation may feel like an emergency—and emotionally, it absolutely may be—but law firms have to triage truly urgent situations. Morgan explains what she considers reasonable communication expectations and why this is something you should ask about before hiring an attorney. MYTH #5: A "simple divorce" doesn't require a great attorney. Andrea and Morgan explain why you should hire based not only on the conflict in your case, but also on the level of communication and service you need. And that includes evaluating the entire firm—not just the attorney sitting across from you during the consultation. In This Episode You'll LearnWhy your attorney having lunch with opposing counsel can actually be a GOOD thingHow attorney relationships can affect your legal billWhy most divorces don't end in a full-blown trialWhy going before a judge probably won't give you the vindication you're imaginingWhen a divorce coach can help—and when another voice could complicate your legal strategyWhat you can reasonably expect when communicating with your divorce attorneyThe questions to ask about response times before hiring a law firmWhy the staff and client experience matter when choosing an attorneyWhy "simple divorce" doesn't necessarily mean you should choose the cheapest lawyerKey TakeawaysYour divorce attorney being friendly with opposing counsel does not mean they're "in cahoots." In many cases, trust and professional respect between attorneys can mean less posturing, faster negotiations and fewer billable hours.Don't build your entire emotional strategy around finally getting your day in court. As Morgan explains, even clients who technically "win" at trial can walk away feeling like they've lost after the financial and emotional cost of getting there. And when you're interviewing divorce attorneys, ask very specific questions about communication: What's your normal response time? Who will I hear from if you're unavailable? What should I expect ...
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  • Divorce Co-Parenting: Want a Better Relationship With Your Ex? Do This.

    Divorce Co-Parenting: Want a Better Relationship With Your Ex? Do This.
    Aug 5 2026
    Want Your Ex to Behave Better? Try This Instead🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC)Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning.Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today.Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unnecessary heartbreak.Episode DescriptionIt may sound completely backwards, but sometimes the fastest way to improve your co-parenting relationship is to thank your ex.No, this isn't about pretending they're Parent of the Year. It's not about rewarding bad behavior or forgetting everything they've put you through. It's about understanding something surprisingly simple: people tend to repeat behaviors that are acknowledged.In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea explains why a genuine "thank you" after your co-parent does something thoughtful, flexible, or simply doesn't make your life harder can change the tone of your relationship. From switching weekends without a fight to communicating well about the kids, small moments of appreciation can reinforce the behaviors that make co-parenting easier for everyone.If your goal is raising healthy kids—not winning against your ex—this simple mindset shift could make your divorce a little less stressful.In This EpisodeWhy positive reinforcement works on adults, tooThe psychology behind encouraging better co-parentingWhy appreciation doesn't mean approvalWhen you should (and shouldn't) thank your co-parentHow one sentence can reduce conflictWhy the goal is healthy kids—not keeping scoreHow changing the tone of communication benefits everyoneWhy kindness can be a surprisingly effective co-parenting strategyKey TakeawaysYou don't have to like your ex to reinforce good behavior.Appreciation is different from excusing past behavior.Positive reinforcement can encourage healthier communication.Your kids benefit when co-parenting becomes less adversarial.Sometimes the strongest strategy is changing the tone—not escalating the conflict.Small moments of kindness can create meaningful shifts over time.Memorable Quotes"We repeat positive behaviors that get acknowledged.""This isn't being weak. This is strategy.""The goal isn't to win against your ex. The goal is to raise healthy kids.""You don't need to write them a haiku. Just say thank you."Resources MentionedDivorce Crash Course (DCC)OurFamilyWizardSoberlinkDivorce Guided Meditations (Coming Soon)How Not to Suck at Divorce CommunitySubscribe & ReviewIf this episode made you think differently about co-parenting, we'd love your support. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who could use a little more peace in their co-parenting relationship.Your reviews help us reach more people navigating divorce, and we truly appreciate every single one.www.ratethispodcast.com/notsuckSEO Keywordsdivorce, co-parenting, co-parent communication, divorce podcast, positive reinforcement, parenting after divorce, co-parenting tips, divorce advice, parenting plan, family law, healthy co-parenting, conflict after divorce, raising kids after divorce, divorced parents, divorce supportMentioned in this episode:Smarter Way to Sell Your Jewelry After my divorce was finalized, I sold my old engagement ring to a jeweler — and honestly, I was stunned by how little I got for it compared to what it originally cost. If I could do it all over again — which is kind of the theme of this podcast — I would have sold it through Worthy. Worthy is a modern, smarter way to sell your jewelry online. Their process is incredibly easy: they cover shipping and insurance, professionally clean and photograph your jewelry, and have it graded by experts to help maximize its value. What makes Worthy different is that they create a competitive auction environment where buyers bid against each other for your piece — meaning they are motivated to help you get the highest price possible. It’s completely risk-free and honestly something I wish I had known about sooner. Get started today by heading to worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when your jewelry sells for more than $1,500.Guided Divorce MeditationsFor the moments when you're about to lose your sh$t. We've got you, baby. Just press play and you'll be calmer. https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/guides/p/divorce-guided-meditationsGuided Meditations
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  • Divorce: When Being Too Nice Can Cost You Everything

    Divorce: When Being Too Nice Can Cost You Everything
    Jul 31 2026
    🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC)Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning.Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today.Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unnecessary heartbreak.Episode DescriptionWe've all heard the advice: "Be the bigger person."But what happens when being the bigger person turns into giving away your financial security, parenting time, or legal leverage?In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill tackle one of the most common—and costly—mistakes people make during divorce: confusing kindness with surrender.They explain why people-pleasers often struggle during negotiations, how manipulative exes exploit "nice" personalities, and why your long-term future matters far more than making today's conflict disappear.Morgan and Andrea also share their powerful THINK framework—a practical decision-making tool to help you slow down before agreeing to anything you'll regret.If you've ever worried about coming across as "mean" during your divorce, this conversation could save you years of regret.In This Episode You'll LearnWhy kindness and weakness are not the same thingThe hidden cost of being a people pleaser during divorceHow manipulative spouses use guilt to get what they wantWhy short-term peace often creates long-term problemsWhen your attorney should be the one saying "no"How to protect yourself without becoming combativeMorgan's THINK framework for making smarter divorce decisionsWhy leverage matters in divorce negotiationsHow OurFamilyWizard can reduce manipulation and conflictWhy thinking long-term is one of the most important divorce skills you'll ever developHow Not to Suck at Divorce's THINK FrameworkBefore responding to your spouse, pause and THINK:T – Think long-term, not just about today's pain.H – Have a purpose. Know why you're making every decision.I – It's okay to say no.N – Nice isn't the same as fair.K – Keep your leverage.Key TakeawaysDivorce is a marathon—not a sprint.Being calm leads to better long-term decisions.Your attorney exists to protect your future, not just settle today's argument.Don't give something away simply because conflict feels uncomfortable.You can be compassionate while maintaining healthy boundaries.Protecting yourself isn't selfish—it's smart.Resources MentionedDivorce Crash Course (DCC)OurFamilyWizardSoberlinkHow Not to Suck at Divorce Private CommunityRemember friends, we are the only podcast that can offer you 20% off your first year of Our Family Wizard! Head here: www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck20Subscribe & ReviewIf this episode helped you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Every review helps us reach more people navigating one of life's hardest transitions.www.ratethispodcast.com/notsuckSEO Keywordsdivorce advice, divorce negotiation tips, people pleaser divorce, divorce boundaries, divorce strategy, family law, mediation tips, divorce attorney advice, divorce leverage, co-parenting, OurFamilyWizard, divorce settlement, emotional abuse, manipulative spouse, divorce podcast, parenting plan, divorce mistakes, custody negotiations, divorce support, how not to suck at divorceMentioned in this episode:Guided Divorce MeditationsFor the moments when you're about to lose your sh$t. We've got you, baby. Just press play and you'll be calmer. https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/guides/p/divorce-guided-meditationsGuided MeditationsSmarter Way to Sell Your Jewelry After my divorce was finalized, I sold my old engagement ring to a jeweler — and honestly, I was stunned by how little I got for it compared to what it originally cost. If I could do it all over again — which is kind of the theme of this podcast — I would have sold it through Worthy. Worthy is a modern, smarter way to sell your jewelry online. Their process is incredibly easy: they cover shipping and insurance, professionally clean and photograph your jewelry, and have it graded by experts to help maximize its value. What makes Worthy different is that they create a competitive auction environment where buyers bid against each other for your piece — meaning they are motivated to help you get the highest price possible. It’s completely risk-free and honestly something I wish I had known about sooner. Get started today by heading to worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when your jewelry sells for more than $1,500.
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I’m so glad this podcast exists. Divorce is not fun and it’s complicated and emotional. But the hosts not only break the process down, they are hilarious and lovable. Thank you for bringing lightness, humor and hope to a heavy topic! I binged the whole season..please have a season 2!!!

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