How Many Days Do You Have Left? Ep. 268

Background -
As a Christian father, the answers are deeply rooted in my faith and my commitment to my family.

How Much Time Do You Have Left?
The simple answer is: I don't know, but I know it's a gift.
The Bible teaches us in James 4:14, “Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.”

As a father, I feel the weight of this truth more acutely than ever. My time is not my own; it's a stewardship entrusted to me by God.

• Finite and Fragile: Whether I have 50 years, 5 years, or just the remainder of this day, the clock is ticking on my earthly assignment. My hope is not in the length of my life, but in the promise of eternity with Christ.

• The Focus is Today: I try to live in light of Psalm 90:12, which asks God to “teach us to number our days, that we may get a heart of wisdom.” Numbering them means cherishing this moment—not procrastinating the important things until a promised tomorrow that may never come.

What Are You Doing With It?
I am trying, imperfectly but earnestly, to do three main things with the time I have left: Love, Serve, and Equip.

1. Loving God and My Wife
• My primary call is to love the Lord with all my heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). This informs everything else.
• I am committed to loving my wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), sacrificially and faithfully. She is my partner in this journey, and a strong, Christ-centered marriage is the foundation of our home.

2. Serving My Family and Community
• Being Present: This is the hardest part. I have not always been good at this.
• Serving Others: My wife and I aim to model selfless service, whether it’s volunteering at our church, helping a neighbor, or supporting missions. I want my children to see that life isn't about accumulating but about contributing.

3. Equipping My Children
• This is the core of my fatherhood. My job isn't just to provide for them physically, but to pass on a durable faith—a faith that can survive college, career pressure, and cultural chaos.
• We regularly pray together, read the Bible, and talk openly about God's role in our daily lives. I am constantly asking myself: If I were gone tomorrow, have I pointed them clearly enough to the Savior?

One Thing You Can Do
If I could only choose one thing to focus my remaining time on, it would be this:


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