How I Became A Public Speaker

The ability to speak with conviction can transform your life and put you in rooms with the world's most influential people. As someone who has shared stages with Ed Milet, Tim Grover, Jesse Itzler, and Charlie Kirk, I've experienced firsthand how mastering communication opens extraordinary doors—but my journey to that mastery began in the most unlikely place: a prison cell.

Before incarceration, I lived with what I call "false bravado"—confidence that only emerged when partying or using substances. When sober, deep insecurities surfaced. At 23, sitting in jail with a decade of wasted potential behind me, I made a decision that would alter the trajectory of my life: to focus relentlessly on personal development. I began with the fundamentals—reading books, improving my writing, and meticulously building my vocabulary through daily dictionary work. This wasn't just about words; it was about reprogramming my brain to think and speak differently.

My first attempt at public speaking in a prison program was disastrous—voice quivering, face flushed, confidence shattered. This experience with glossophobia (fear of public speaking) could have deterred me completely. Instead, I recognized that everything I wanted existed on the other side of that fear. I raised my hand at every opportunity, volunteering to speak until eventually becoming an inmate counselor leading discussions. After release, I leveraged social media to further refine my skills, recording videos daily and critiquing every aspect of my delivery until my messages became automatic.

This transformation didn't happen overnight—it's been 13 years in the making. Most people abandon their goals after months of inconsistent effort, but exceptional results demand exceptional commitment. Are you willing to invest a decade becoming the person you aspire to be? The only way to reach that level is by creating an undeniable track record that convinces not just others, but your own subconscious mind, that you are who you claim to be. Stop waiting and start demanding what you want from life today.