Losing a baby doesn't just break your heart—it can shake your sense of who you are.

In this episode, Jennie Parks and Kristin Hernandez discuss the ways miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss often reshape our sense of identity. Together, we reflect on the "before loss" and "after loss" versions of ourselves—the parts we miss, the growth we've seen, and the good fruit God has brought from deep sorrow. We talk honestly about the pain of change—how loss can affect our relationships, personality, confidence, and even our walk with the Lord—and how, even in all that shifting, our identity in Christ never changes.

With Scripture and personal reflection, Jennie and Kristin remind us that while grief may change aspects of who we are, it doesn't change whose we are.

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In Loving Memory

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is sponsored by the Morgan Family in honor of Thomas Michael. The Morgan Family shares, "Sweet Thomas, your four months on earth were the most joyous days of our lives. We love you so much and miss you every day. We hold fast to the hope that we will see you again, because of Christ. Love, Mama, Daddy, Charlotte, and John".  If you'd like to sponsor an episode in honor of your baby or on behalf of a Hope Mom you know, visit hope mommies.org.

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With Special Thanks

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is made possible by Comfort Candles. Based in the heart of Texas Hill Country, Comfort Candles has been our candle supplier for Hope Boxes for many years, bringing light and comfort to countless women in their grief. Each candle is handcrafted by Ben, their master candle maker, using a premium soy wax blend, all-cotton wicks, and the finest fragrances—resulting in a clean, long-lasting burn. With more than 40 heavenly fragrances to choose from, they also offer wax melts, fragrance sprays, travel tins, and more.

We're grateful for the care Comfort Candles pours into every product, and we're excited to share a special offer with you. Use the code HOPE20 for 20% off your order at comfortcandlecompany.com. You can also subscribe to their email list to receive 20% off as a first-time buyer.

The Hope Mommies Podcast is a ministry of Hope Mommies, a non-profit 501(c)3 organization that exists to bring bereaved families comfort, encouragement, and relational support as they continue to walk this side of eternity without their beloved son or daughter. The music used is Sparrow Song, courtesy of Katie Cobbs and Flourish Creative.

The Christmas season can feel especially tender for a mom who has lost her baby. In this episode, Brooke Schuelke, Jennie Parks, and Kristin Hernandez talk about walking through Advent—a season of longing and hope. Together, we reflect on how Advent mirrors the experience of grief, the comfort of Emmanuel—God with us, and practical ways to hold both sorrow and joy in this holiday season.

Wherever you find yourself this Christmas season, we pray this conversation points you to Christ, reminds you to rest in Him, and reassures you that you don't have to feel festive to celebrate the deep hope of Christmas.

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This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is made possible by Comfort Candles.

Based in the heart of Texas Hill Country, Comfort Candles has been our candle supplier for Hope Boxes for many years, bringing light and comfort to countless women in their grief. Each candle is handcrafted by Ben, their master candle maker, using a premium soy wax blend, all-cotton wicks, and the finest fragrances—resulting in a clean, long-lasting burn. With more than 40 heavenly fragrances to choose from, they also offer wax melts, fragrance sprays, travel tins, and more.

We're grateful for the care Comfort Candles pours into every product, and we're excited to share a special offer with you. Use the code HOPE20 for 20% off your order at comfortcandlecompany.com. You can also subscribe to their email list to receive 20% off as a first-time buyer.

The Hope Mommies Podcast is a ministry of Hope Mommies, a non-profit 501(c)3 organization that exists to bring bereaved families comfort, encouragement, and relational support as they continue to walk this side of eternity without their beloved son or daughter. The music used is Sparrow Song, courtesy of Katie Cobbs and Flourish Creative.

Finding reasons to be thankful in the middle of suffering isn't easy. In this episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast, Kristin Hernandez is joined by author and Hope Mom Allison Brost to talk about what it looks like to cultivate gratitude. Allison shares the story of her son Solomon, who went to be with the Lord in 2018, and reflects on how her journey through loss has shaped her relationship with the Lord.

Together, they discuss the tension of holding sorrow and thankfulness at the same time, the importance of authentic community, and how God redeems even the broken pieces of our stories. Allison also shares practical ways to nurture a heart of gratitude—including honesty with God, surrender, and remembering His goodness.

Whether you're navigating deep grief, struggling to find thankfulness in hard seasons, or simply wanting to root your heart in gratitude, this conversation offers encouragement and hope. This Thanksgiving, we hope you're reminded that gratitude doesn't ignore pain—it transforms it.

Allison Brost is an author and independent singer/songwriter from Janesville, Wisconsin. She loves to share daily encouragement online for those journeying in their faith over at This Side of Perfect. Her passion is to share words of hope—both through books and song—that can point people to Jesus and meet them in the hard, the mundane, and every moment inbetween. When she's not busy homeschooling her kids or leading worship, you can find her outside, most likely with a cup of chai in hand.

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Grateful: 30 Days of Growing in Thankfulness

This Side of Perfect: Holding Onto Hope When Life Gets Hard

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This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is made possible by Mother of Wilde. Mother of Wilde creates personalized birth portraits, heirloom prints, and remembrance memorials for families walking through loss. What began as a single print has grown into thousands of cherished keepsakes treasured by families across the country and around the world. Their heart is to honor babies of all ages and trimesters through meaningful, custom prints. With a variety of layouts and styles to choose from, each piece is designed to celebrate the deep love parents have for their sons and daughters. You can learn more on instagram @motherofwilde and place your order at motherofwilde.com. Use the coupon code HOPEMOM for a $5 discount at checkout.

The Hope Mommies Podcast is a ministry of Hope Mommies, a non-profit 501(c)3 organization that exists to bring bereaved families comfort, encouragement, and relational support as they continue to walk this side of eternity without their beloved son or daughter. The music used is Sparrow Song, courtesy of Katie Cobbs and Flourish Creative.