In this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we delve into the complexities of making friends as adults, especially after relocating to a new country.

We discuss the emotional challenges, the importance of deep connections, and how technology, like friendship apps, can aid in finding new friends.

The conversation highlights personal experiences, cultural differences, and the evolving nature of friendships over time.

Our Takeaways

• Making friends as an adult can be challenging, especially after moving to a new country.
• School and work environments provide natural opportunities for socialising that are often missing in adulthood.
• Maintaining long-distance friendships requires effort and prioritisation.
• Friendship dynamics change when you relocate, leading to a reevaluation of existing relationships.
• Using technology, such as friendship apps, can help in finding new connections.
• It's important to seek deep, meaningful friendships rather than superficial acquaintances.
• Cultural differences can impact how friendships are formed and maintained.
• Personal experiences of anxiety and vulnerability play a significant role in making new friends.
• Understanding one's own social needs is crucial in navigating friendships.
• Friendships can evolve, and it's okay to let go of connections that no longer serve you.

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You asked. We listened. Introducing our brand-new mini-series—where we dive into real questions from YOU, the Hold to Talk family.

Our pilot? A standout from Stacy, who asked whether our initial impressions of life abroad were actually true.

Ready for our honest take on preconceptions versus reality?

Drop your burning questions in the comments—seriously, we can’t wait to answer them in upcoming episodes.

Catch the full mini-episode now—follow, rate, and share to help us keep this going. And don’t forget: the next full episode drops Tuesday 19th!

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In this episode, we dive into the quirks and surprises of life in the USA and Portugal.

From navigating driving rules and tipping customs to deciphering bureaucracy and social habits, we share our firsthand experiences.

Plus, in our "Voice Notes from the Week" segment, we recount the moments that truly made us say, start this Podcast.

Whether you're an expat, a dreamer, or just curious about life abroad, join us for a candid and humorous look at the highs and lows of cultural adaptation.

Takeaways

• Culture shock is a real experience for expats.
• The 4th of July is a significant celebration in the US.
• Patriotism in the US is much more visible than in the UK.
• Halloween and Thanksgiving are celebrated on a larger scale in the US.
• The mindset in the US tends to be more optimistic than in the UK.
• Portugal's culture promotes a slower pace of life.
• Service and tipping culture in the US is unique and often overwhelming.
• Bureaucracy can be challenging for expats in Portugal.
• Healthcare experiences can vary significantly between countries.
• Cultural differences can lead to surprising realizations and adaptations. Driving regulations vary significantly between countries.
• Healthcare experiences can differ greatly based on location and insurance plans.
• Cultural norms around childcare can be vastly different.
• School safety drills are a reality in the US that many find concerning.
• Embracing cultural differences can lead to a richer experience abroad.
• Bureaucratic processes can be frustrating for expatriates.
• Healthcare in the US can be exceptional if one has a good plan.
• Cultural adaptation requires openness and willingness to learn.
• The impact of gun culture on schools is a significant concern for parents.