High-Stress, High-Trust Leadership Lessons for Live Events

In this episode of Beats Working, Alysse Bryson and Libby Sundgren break down one of the most referenced leadership books in the event world: "Leaders Eat Last." Through laughter, real talk, and a surprisingly memorable broccolini metaphor, they unpack why leadership in events isn’t about titles or perks — it’s about trust, safety, and showing up for your people long before show day. From backstage chaos to boundary-setting (no, your coworkers are not your family), this episode connects Simon Sinek’s ideas directly to the lived reality of event professionals.

Takeaways:

• Leadership is service, not status — especially in high-pressure event environments.

• Trust is built in the planning phase, not magically on show day.

• Small leadership behaviors compound over time—for better or worse.

• “Work family” can blur boundaries and create unhealthy dynamics.

• Great event leaders protect their teams so the team can protect the show.

Timestamps:

[01:22] — Why "Leaders Eat Last" resonates so deeply in the event industry

[03:59] — Leadership as service, not authority

[06:30] — Why “work family” is a boundary red flag

[09:37] — Trust is built long before the event begins

[10:21] — Death by a thousand paper cuts: how trust erodes

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-Book: Leaders Eat Last

-Alysse & Libby: Bios & LinkedIn

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