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Hey White Women

Hey White Women

De: Daniella Mestyanek Young
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 In this insightful and candid conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young, a scholar of cults, extreme groups, and extremely leadership, joins Rebecca, known as White Woman Whisperer on TikTok and Patreon, to delve into their experiences and revelations about cult dynamics, white supremacy, and systemic racism. Daniella, who grew up in the notorious Children of God cult and later served in the military, shares her journey of understanding and deconstructing white supremacy as a pervasive cult. Rebecca, a Black Jewish woman, discusses her own realizations about systemic racism and the similarities between white supremacy and cult behavior. Together, they explore the complexities of deprogramming from these ingrained systems, the importance of acknowledging privilege, and the power of vulnerability in fostering genuine understanding and change. This dialogue sheds light on the personal and societal challenges of breaking free from cult-like ideologies and the ongoing work required to dismantle oppressive systems.2024 Ciencias Sociales Filosofía
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  • Episode 36 | Growth Before Activism

    Episode 36 | Growth Before Activism
    May 15 2025

    In this episode, Daniella and Rebecca engage in a deep conversation about the complexities of white supremacy, the importance of listening to Black voices, and the need for white women to confront their own roles in social justice movements. They explore hypothetical scenarios regarding protests, the significance of community, and the dangers of ignoring the perspectives of marginalized groups. The discussion emphasizes the necessity of personal growth and genuine engagement in anti-racism work, while also addressing the cyclical nature of blame and the illusion of safety in activism.

    Connect with Rebecca at:

    The White Woman Whisperer Website

    The White Woman Whisperer Patreon

    The White Woman Whisperer TikTok

    Connect with Daniella at:

    You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured

    For more info on me:

    Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding

    Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding

    Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured

    Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8

    Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady

    Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_

    Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook

    Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8

    Takeaways

    • Deconstructing white supremacy is essential for social justice.

    • White women must confront their roles in activism.

    • Listening to Black voices is crucial in conversations about race.

    • Community and connection are vital for sustainable movements.

    • The absence of Black women in spaces indicates danger.

    • Protests should not be performative but rooted in genuine change.

    • The tipping point for white America is yet to be reached.

    • Excusing harmful behavior perpetuates systemic issues.

    • Personal growth is integral to anti-racism work.

    • Building relationships is key to understanding and change.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Conversation on White Supremacy

    02:03 Hypothetical Protests and White Women's Reactions

    07:43 Listening to Black Voices in Conversations

    11:36 The Dangers of Rhetorical Questions

    15:42 The Canary in the Coal Mine Analogy

    18:41 Historical Context and Urgency in Activism

    21:19 Deconstructing Whiteness and Community

    28:41 The Illusion of Stability in Society

    29:27 The Complexity of Protests and Responses

    32:10 The Tipping Point of Social Movements

    34:57 Understanding Agency and Responsibility

    37:57 Historical Context of Power Dynamics

    40:43 The Role of Community and Relationships

    43:42 Reimagining Systems of Support

    46:22 The Importance of Personal Accountability

    49:19 Building Safe Spaces for Dialogue

    Produced by Haley Phillips
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    54 m
  • Episode 35 | Colors for Community

    Episode 35 | Colors for Community
    May 8 2025
    In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the intersections of fashion, identity, and race, discussing how personal expression through clothing can challenge societal norms. They delve into the complexities of navigating whiteness in diverse spaces, the cultural disconnect evident in social interactions, and the significance of color as a form of resistance. The discussion also touches on the importance of critiquing whiteness, understanding cult dynamics through the Byte model, and the value of personal narratives in shaping identity. They emphasize the role of community in fostering belonging and the dangers of rebranding historical trauma, particularly in the context of military experiences and cultural awareness. In this engaging conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore various themes surrounding creativity, identity, privilege, and societal dynamics. They discuss the cultural differences in dance, the nature of self-expression, and the complexities of defining oneself as an artist. The conversation delves into the importance of self-definition, the impact of societal expectations, and the challenges of navigating personal fears and anxieties. They also touch on the military's culture, the role of storytelling, and the significance of understanding privilege and its implications in everyday life. Through humor and personal anecdotes, they encourage listeners to reflect on their own identities and the narratives they create. Connect with Rebecca at: The White Woman Whisperer Website The White Woman Whisperer Patreon The White Woman Whisperer TikTok Connect with Daniella at: You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Takeaways Fashion can be a powerful form of self-expression and identity. Experiences in diverse spaces highlight the impact of race and community. Cultural disconnect is evident in social interactions, such as elevator etiquette. Color can symbolize resistance and joy, especially for marginalized communities. Critiquing whiteness involves understanding the complexities of identity. The Byte model offers insights into understanding cult dynamics. Personal narratives provide valuable perspectives on experiences and identity. Community plays a crucial role in finding belonging and support. Rebranding can obscure the realities of historical trauma and oppression. Navigating identity in the military involves unique challenges and expectations. Cultural perspectives on dance highlight differences in self-expression. Creativity can be stifled by societal expectations and self-imposed limitations. Defining oneself as an artist can be challenging in a world of labels. Self-definition is a powerful tool for personal empowerment. Guerrilla tactics can be effective in resisting oppressive systems. The global community is increasingly disengaging from American influence. Self-imposed suffering can hinder personal growth and exploration. Addressing fears and anxieties is crucial for mental well-being. Storytelling is a vital part of understanding and sharing experiences. Privilege often comes with blind spots that need to be acknowledged. Chapters 00:00 Fashion and Identity: A Colorful Expression 03:35 Navigating Whiteness and Community Dynamics 06:24 Cultural Differences in Social Interactions 09:27 The Power of Color and Self-Expression 12:28 Critiquing Society: The Importance of Perspective 15:28 Understanding Cult Dynamics and Personal Growth 25:49 The Complexity of Identity and Choice 27:03 Military Standards and Racial Identity 28:44 Camaraderie and Community in Marginalized Groups 30:33 Navigating Whiteness and Cultural Connections 32:48 The Disconnect of Whiteness from Body and Rhythm 35:02 Language Policing and Social Dynamics 37:00 The Consequences of Ignoring History 40:18 Rebranding and the Cult of Whiteness 42:51 Defining Identity and the Artist's Journey 52:49 Self-Imposed Limitations and Breaking Barriers 55:02 Facing Fears and Planning for the Unknown 57:36 The Reality of Disaster Preparedness 01:00:55 The Narrative of Privilege and Accountability 01:02:17 Understanding White Privilege and Its Implications 01:10:56 The Blind Spots of Privilege 01:19:45 The Complexity of Masculinity and Military Culture Produced by Haley Phillips
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    1 h y 22 m
  • Episode 34 | Boom Boom Beige

    Episode 34 | Boom Boom Beige
    May 1 2025
    In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of platform building, the evolution of ideas, and the impact of cultural narratives on personal identity. They discuss the importance of vulnerability in leadership, the tenets of white supremacy, and the challenges of navigating capitalism and professionalism. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of shared experiences and the need to reopen historical conversations while addressing the dehumanization inherent in capitalist systems. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the intersections of capitalism, storytelling, and identity. They discuss the metrics of progress, the complexities of human experience, and the importance of vulnerable storytelling. The dialogue delves into cultural appropriation versus appreciation, the tenets of white supremacy, and the military experience as a lens for understanding identity. They emphasize the need for joy in resistance and the discomfort that comes with navigating these conversations, ultimately challenging the notion of individual specialness in a collective human experience. Connect with Rebecca at: The White Woman Whisperer Website The White Woman Whisperer Patreon The White Woman Whisperer TikTok Connect with Daniella at: You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Takeaways Building a platform often starts with uncertainty.Hindsight thinking can be counterproductive.Cultural narratives shape our understanding of apocalyptic scenarios.Public panic can stem from misinformation.Understanding white supremacy requires recognizing its tenets.Vulnerability is essential for authentic leadership.Exceptionalism is a fallacy that can hinder progress.Planning must be adaptable to changing circumstances.Capitalism often dehumanizes individuals in the workforce.The line between expertise and guruism is crucial to navigate. When measuring progress, harm reduction is often overlooked.The capitalist model prioritizes profit over meaningful solutions.Storytelling should be rooted in vulnerability and authenticity.Representation matters in how stories are told and received.Finding joy in difficult times can be a form of resistance.Difficult stories need to be shared to foster understanding.Discomfort is a necessary part of growth and conversation.Cultural appropriation and appreciation are nuanced topics.Empathy should be abundant and not seen as scarce.Individual specialness is a myth; we are all part of a collective experience. Chapters 00:00 Building Platforms and Overcoming Fear 06:38 Exploring Apocalyptic Narratives and Cultural Reflections 12:38 Understanding White Supremacy and Its Tenets 18:48 Planning and Adaptability in Crisis 31:12 The Uniqueness of Human Experience 32:40 Patterns of Coercive Control 34:29 Defining Cults and Their Implications 36:08 The Complexity of Solutions 37:08 Language and Problem Solving 38:44 Revisiting Social Issues 40:50 Accessibility of Knowledge 42:59 The Role of Agency in the Present 45:34 Cultural Perspectives on Crisis 47:10 The Seriousness of Professionalism 49:57 Gendered Perceptions of Professionalism 52:17 Manipulation in Organizational Psychology 54:39 Capitalism and Dehumanization 56:47 Self-Compassion and Growth 58:30 The Metrics of Progress and Profit 01:01:32 The Cult of Technology and Capitalism 01:04:02 Storytelling and Representation 01:07:46 The Emotional Connection in Storytelling 01:10:53 Discomfort and Expertise 01:13:38 The Importance of Conversations 01:16:38 Cultural Attitudes Towards Sex and Consent 01:19:46 The Why Behind the What 01:26:29 Finding Joy in Adversity 01:30:42 Cultural Appropriation vs. Cultural Appreciation 01:35:45 Understanding White Supremacy and Its Impact 01:40:48 The Military Experience and Gender Dynamics 01:45:39 The Complexity of Identity and Experience 01:49:33 Concluding Thoughts on Discomfort and Growth
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    1 h y 47 m
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