In this candid conversation I sit down with UK therapist Laura How to unpack the quiet crisis facing men today: loneliness, sexless marriages, and the feeling that no one’s actually listening.

Over her 20-plus years in practice, Laura has watched the suicide numbers climb while seeing the same pain walk into her office every week. Together we dig into:

• Why “just talk to her” feels impossible—and how to make it work
• The hard truth about responsibility, blame, and those “bickering-toddler” stand-offs
• How childbirth, resentment, and weight gain hijack desire (and what brings it back)
• Duty, sex, and care: what wives owe husbands—and vice-versa
• When a marriage crosses the line from rough patch to harmful
• Why a stable, affectionate partnership is the single biggest gift you can give your kids

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🔥 Why do women cheat? Is female infidelity different from male infidelity? Are women naturally monogamous, or do they just cheat as much as men—but with fewer consequences?

In this explosive interview, I sit down with Michelle Langley, author of Women’s Infidelity and Women’s Infidelity II, to discuss the hidden truths about female desire, relationships, and why so many women leave seemingly stable marriages.

🔹 Topics We Cover in This Interview:
✅ Why women cheat (and how it differs from men)
✅ The myth of female monogamy & what women REALLY want
✅ The dark side of feminism & modern relationships
✅ Why men suffer in silence while women are excused
✅ The psychological differences between men & women in love
✅ How society enables female infidelity & ignores male pain
✅ Why women get bored in stable marriages and seek excitement
✅ What men MUST understand about women to avoid betrayal

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In this conversation, Ralph and Adam Lane Smith ‪@AttachmentAdam‬ into the complexities of attachment theory and its relevance in modern relationships. Adam shares his journey of becoming an attachment expert and discusses the rise of interest in attachment styles, particularly how they affect men and women differently.

The conversation explores the consequences of avoidant and anxious attachment styles, the importance of emotional safety, and the need for stability in relationships. Adam emphasizes that fixing attachment issues can lead to healthier relationships and a better quality of life.

Adam Lane Smith and Ralph discuss the rising prevalence of attachment issues among adults and the importance of self-work and resilience in relationships. They explore the dynamics of personal growth, communication, and the necessity of managing anxiety. The discussion also touches on the dangers of avoidance and the red pill mentality, emphasizing the need for healthy relationships and the role of oxytocin in relationship satisfaction. Ultimately, they highlight the effort required for long-term relationships and the importance of finding resources and support for personal growth.

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