Ed welcomes author, coach, and financial thought leader Leisa Peterson for a powerful conversation on money, relationships, and abundance. Leisa shares the journey behind her new book The Money Catalyst, a parable that blends storytelling with timeless lessons about love, wealth, and self-discovery. Together, they explore how our upbringing shapes money beliefs, the tensions couples face around finances, and the transformative power of shifting from scarcity to abundance. Whether you’re navigating money with a partner or seeking a deeper relationship with wealth, this episode will challenge old narratives and inspire new possibilities.

Key Takeaways:

• How do our childhood experiences shape the way we approach money in relationships?

• What does it take to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance?

• How can storytelling and reflection help heal financial wounds and create deeper connections with our partners?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - Money beliefs and tension

(09:00) - Childhood money stories

(18:00) - Using books as resources

(21:00) - Practical money strategies

(23:00) - Early money books

(26:00) - Detaching self-worth from net worth

(30:00) - Navigating daily financial choices

(34:00) - Healing family money wounds

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Money Mindset, Financial Intimacy, Scarcity vs Abundance, Leisa Peterson Interview, Healthy Relationship with Money

Mentions:

Website: https://www.wealthclinic.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leisapeterson1

Mentions: The Mindful Millionaire

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.

Ed is joined by renowned financial psychotherapist Vicky Reynal, author of Money On Your Mind: The Psychology Behind Your Financial Habits. Broadcasting across continents—from London to North Carolina—Ed and Vicky explore the profound emotional undercurrents that shape our financial behaviors. Together, they unpack how money often acts as a stand-in for love, power, control, and self-worth in our relationships. Vicky shares moving insights on the emotional imprints from childhood that quietly dictate how we spend, save, avoid, or argue about money. From personal stories to real client breakthroughs, this episode goes beyond budgeting and investing—it’s about healing our relationship with money from the inside out. If you've ever wondered why you freeze during financial conversations, struggle with self-worth around money, or feel disconnected from your partner over spending decisions—this conversation is for you.

Key Takeaways:

• How do our early emotional experiences shape the way we use, avoid, or relate to money in adulthood?

• In what ways can money serve as a silent language for expressing unmet emotional needs in relationships?

• Why is curiosity—rather than shame or judgment—key to transforming our financial behaviors and beliefs?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - The emotional meaning of money: power, control, love

(09:00) - Emotional imprints and their impact on financial decision-making

(10:00) - The role of deservedness and agency in money habits

(17:00) - Money issues in relationships

(20:00) - The value of asking reflective questions around money

(22:00) - Shame, avoidance, and freezing responses to financial matters

(30:00) - The psychological role of financial professionals

(33:00) - Language, empathy, and cooperation in financial systems

(38:00) - The emotional complexity of receiving sudden wealth

(40:00) - Redefining gratitude and expectations around money

(41:00) - Finding healing, curiosity, and meaning through money

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy, Money and relationships, Emotional money habits, Psychology of money, Money mindset transformation.

Mentions:

Website: https://www.reynal-psychotherapist.co.uk/

LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/vicky-reynal-4070ba133

Mentions: Money On Your Mind

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.

What happens when financial tension meets emotional depth in a relationship? In this unforgettable episode of the Healthy Love and Money Podcast, Ed sits down with Dr. Stephanie Zepeda, a licensed marriage and family therapist and director of Financial Therapy Texas, for a transformative conversation on money, identity, and the emotional roots of our financial behaviors. From navigating income insecurities to the liberating power of second-order change, Stephanie brings her deep expertise and compassionate lens to the heart of what couples truly struggle with—and how they can heal. Whether you're a therapist, financial planner, or someone trying to make sense of your own money story, this episode offers insight, relatability, and hope. Don’t miss this journey into the psychology of money, the mysticism of mismatched couples, and the radical act of dreaming together.

Key Takeaways:

• How do our childhood experiences and cultural backgrounds shape our beliefs and behaviors around money in relationships?

• Why is it essential for couples to move beyond budgets and into deeper conversations about values, hopes, and dreams?

• What role does emotional safety play in helping partners address financial conflict and build mutual confidence?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) - Why talking about money is so “edgy” for couples

(05:00) - Frugal vs. YOLO

(13:00) - Exploring confidence, self-worth, and income insecurity

(17:00) - Gender roles, income dynamics, and financial responsibility

(20:00) - The power of psychological merging of finances

(24:00) - Deconstructing inherited financial values and narratives

(28:00) - Finding virtue in financial “obsessions”

(33:00) - When and how to seek professional support

Key Topics Discussed:

Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs, Charlotte North Carolina, Financial Therapy, Couples Financial Planning, Financial Intimacy, Money and Relationships, Financial Communication for Couples, Attachment Styles and Money, Financial Conflict Resolution, Therapy-Informed Financial Planning, Financial Trauma Healing, Financial Wellness for Couples, Financial therapy for couples, Money and relationships, Marriage and money counseling, Emotional triggers around finances, Income inequality in relationships

Mentions:

Website: https://www.financialtherapytexas.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-zepeda-phd-lmft-633a3525

More of Healthy Love & Money:

Redefine your relationship with money and each other: https://www.healthyloveandmoney.com/

Ed’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/healthyloveandmoney/

Contact me at ed@healthyloveandmoney.com

Healthy Love & Money is a personal podcast meant for education and entertainment. It should not be taken as financial advice and is not prescriptive of your financial situation.