Healing Isn’t Aesthetic: A Shame Detox for the Spiritually Over-It

Healing isn’t about linen pants, pastel lighting, and performing peace.

In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty takes a flamethrower to the healing industrial complex—the whitewashed, commodified wellness machine that polices our grief, hijacks our rage, and sells calmness like a lifestyle brand.

You’ll hear:

• Why “high vibe only” is toxic nonsense

• How performative healing silences marginalized bodies

• What consent-based healing actually looks like

• How to build rituals that are messy, honest, body-inclusive—and actually yours

Plus: a listener question that hits deep—what do you do when healing spaces don’t feel safe, inclusive, or built for you?

✨ Spoiler: You stop shrinking to fit them. You start building something real.

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Chapters

• (00:00:00) - Introduction to the week's episode on Untamed Ember
• (00:00:34) - The Healing Industrial Complex Exposed
• (00:01:55) - The Aesthetic of Modern Wellness
• (00:04:08) - Exclusion in Healing Spaces
• (00:05:22) - Weaponization of High Vibes Only
• (00:07:45) - Consent in Healing Spaces
• (00:12:53) - Building Personal Rituals
• (00:18:56) - Listener Question: Finding Inclusive Healing Spaces
• (00:22:47) - Conclusion and Soft Rage Blessing