He Was Perfect Online — Until You Met Him

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This episode unpacks the harsh reality behind the guy who felt perfect over text — and disappeared the moment things got real.

Eric, Erica, and Ruby break down the psychology of disappearing acts, exposing how some men build digital intimacy with no intention of showing up in real life. From love-bombing in the DMs to silence after the first date, we dissect why these connections feel so deep — and why they collapse so fast.

We talk about:

• Why digital chemistry creates false intimacy
• How emotional exposure gets mistaken for emotional availability
• Why some men peak online and vanish in person
• The difference between attention and real connection

If you’ve ever been blindsided by a man who called you “his peace” one week and disappeared the next — this one’s for you.

Real talk. Real stories.
And the clarity he never gave you.