Grieving the Fantasy: Letting Go of What Could Have Been and Embracing What Is

Sometimes the hardest loss isn’t a person—it’s the story we told ourselves about what life should look like. The relationship we thought would save us. The dream that didn’t unfold the way we planned. The fantasy version of life that felt safer than reality.

In this raw episode of In the Nude: The Naked Truth of Healing, I share the painful but powerful process of mourning the fantasy, facing what is, and finding a way forward. Healing after trauma often means realizing we fell in love with an idea, not reality—and sitting in the grief of that truth can feel unbearable.

But when we come back home to ourselves, when we accept reality with all its warts and cracks, we finally gain the power to choose. From that place, we can take the next step—not from illusion, but from truth.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between the life you imagined and the one you’re living, this episode is a reminder that healing begins with honesty, acceptance, and compassion for yourself in the mess of it all.

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