Good Girls Don’t: The Cage of Reputation

This isn’t the story you were told about girlhood in the 1950s.It’s the story about the girls who disappeared.In postwar America, Britain, and Ireland, “good girl” culture wasn’t just a moral vibe. It was infrastructure. If you got pregnant, you vanished. If you reported harm, you risked social death. If you disrupted the script, institutions activated.Between 1945 and 1973, more than 1.5 million American women surrendered babies for adoption. In England and Wales, approximately 185,000 children were adopted from unmarried mothers between 1949 and 1976. In Ireland, tens of thousands of women and children passed through mother-and-baby homes, some of which later became the subject of national investigations and redress schemes.These weren’t isolated tragedies.They were choreographed.Resources and Recommended Reading* Ann Fessler, The Girls Who Went AwayOral histories of women who surrendered children during the Baby Scoop Era.* Clair Wills, Missing Person: Or, My Grandmother’s SecretsIntergenerational reckoning with Irish mother-and-baby homes and institutional silence.* Detroit News (2006) – “Author gives a voice to unwed mothers who suffered in silence”(Marney Rich Keenan)* Christian Science Monitor (2006) – “Mothers only in secret”(Marjorie Kehe)* Chicago Tribune (2006) – “Delivering up their babies”(Maureen N. McLane)Official Reports & Inquiries* UK Parliament – Joint Committee on Human Rights* Irish Commission of Investigation into Mother and Baby Homes (2020 Final Report)* Ryan Commission to Inquire into Child Abuse (Ireland)* Magdalene Laundries Report (2013)* Title IX Pregnancy Regulations (45 C.F.R. § 86.40, 1975)Historical & Academic Context* Rickie Solinger, Wake Up Little Susie: Single Pregnancy and Race before Roe v. Wade* Barbara Melosh, Strangers and Kin: The American Way of Adoption* Rebecca Sharpless, Fertile Ground, Narrow Choices* Research on adultification bias: Georgetown Law Center on Poverty & Inequality Modern Reporting & Institutional Echoes* CNN Health (2024) – Investigation into maternity homes* Ms. Magazine (2025) – Liberty University maternity home reporting* CBC News – No apology for unwed mothers (Canada) Get full access to Bitchy History at www.bitchyhistory.com/subscribe