Godly Green Flags: What to Look For, Not Just What to Avoid

You’ve prayed. You’ve waited. And now someone shows up, but how do you really know if it’s an answered prayer or just another distraction?

In this perspective-shifting episode, we’re flipping the script, from fear-based dating to faithful discernment. For too long, we've approached relationships with a defensive mindset: scanning for red flags, bracing for the worst, and often missing the blessing God may be placing right in front of us.

Today, we're exploring five essential green flags that signal a Christ-centered connection, the kind of partnership built on purpose, peace, and spiritual maturity. From genuine spiritual intimacy to emotional safety, accountability, and alignment with your calling, these green flags help you recognize when someone is actually equally yoked with you, not just checking your boxes.

Whether you're dating, discerning, or simply preparing your heart for what’s ahead, this conversation will equip you with practical wisdom to recognize Godly love when it shows up. Because God isn’t just protecting your heart, He’s preparing it to receive the real thing.

Let’s stop dating in fear and start recognizing the fruit of faithful, healthy, God-honoring love.

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