Are you a pre-griever or a post-griever? In this episode, Amy Young and Bernie Anderson explore how recognizing and respecting pre- and post-grief styles can strengthen relationships and help cross-cultural workers navigate life's complex transitions with greater empathy and self-awareness. Whether you're preparing to move abroad, returning home, or facing significant life changes, this podcast is for you.

Show Notes:

How to know if you are pre- or post-griever (and why it matters) article by Amy Young

Looming Transitions (book) by Amy Young available on Kindle

Looming Transitions Audio Book and workbook available at Global Trellis (very affordable!)

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In this episode of the Global Trellis; The Podcast, Amy and Bernie explore the often misunderstood world of Christian mediation with guests Brian Shimer and Andrew Arthur. This conversation delves into how mediation can help cross-cultural teams and organizations overcome communication challenges, break through difficult interpersonal dynamics, and create lasting positive change through effective listening and conflict resolution techniques.

Show Notes:

Prepare and Enrich Marriage Assessment: Online assessment tool for couples to evaluate relationship health and communication skills

—Website: https://www.prepare-enrich.com/

Genesis Christian Mediation: Professional mediation services specializing in Christian conflict resolution

—Website: https://genesischristianmediation.com/

Global Trellis Listening Workshop with Brian and Andrew: ​​ We talk about “listening skills,” but what do they actually involve? In this webinar with Andrew Arthur and Brian Shimer, you’ll learn five key ways you can listen the next time you hear, “MOM!” …. “DAD” or receive the text, “Do you have a few minutes?” Available here: https://globaltrellis.com/shop/a-mediators-guide-to-listening/

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In this episode of Global Trellis, mediators Brian Shimer and Andrew Arthur share insights on navigating hard conversations, offering a practical five-step conversational pathway that includes awareness, listening, clarifying, validation, and thoughtful response. They explore why people avoid difficult discussions, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, meaningful listening, and understanding the difference between task-oriented and relational conflicts. The conversation provides cross-cultural workers with valuable tools to approach challenging conversations with empathy, curiosity, and intentionality.

Show Notes:

Brian and Andrew's Mediation Company: Genesis Christian Mediation https://www.genesischristianmediation.com/

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In this episode of Global Trellis, Bernie and Amy tackle the challenging topic of toxic leadership in cross-cultural work. They explore what makes leadership toxic, sharing personal experiences and offering insights to help listeners recognize unhealthy workplace dynamics. The conversation provides a compassionate and practical look at leadership challenges in ministry and mission settings.

Show Notes:

Global Trellis Article about Toxic Leadership.

Bernie’s Weekly Leadership Essay (Good Dirt Substack)

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"It depends" is not a very satisfactory answer to whether someone with neurodiversity should be on the field. Amy Young and Jenilee Goodwin came up with a helpful model that easy to implement! Jenilee unpacks the "Red, Yellow, Green" method. This episode provides a practical, compassionate framework for evaluating individual capabilities, team dynamics, and organizational support in cross-cultural ministry settings.

Show Notes:

Companion Article on Global Trellis—Neurodiversity Questions: Guiding Principles to Consider by Jenilee https://globaltrellis.com/neurodiversity-questions-guiding-principles-to-consider/

Neurodiversity Week course: https://globaltrellis.com/shop/neurodiversity-week/

Jenilee Rachel Coaching: https://jenileerachel.com/

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Today we discuss the power of celebrating and introduce you to the "High Five of Celebration” by Amy Young. It turns out valuing celebration isn’t enough, you need a plan. Amy and Bernie talk through this practical approach to recognizing the success that’s all around you. We don’t want you to miss out on the joy in everyday cross-cultural work. In addition, you’ll leave with a refreshing perspective on personal and professional growth.

Show Notes:

1. Global Trellis: https://globaltrellis.com

2. High Five of Celebration Article: https://globaltrellis.com/how-to-be-better-at-celebrating/

3. Downloadable Video and Handouts for the High Five of Celebration: https://globaltrellis.com/highfive/

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In this episode of the Global Trellis, The Podcast, hosts Amy Young and Bernie Anderson discuss the concept of a "Rule of Life" with guest Elizabeth Forshee. They explore how this ancient monastic practice can be adapted to help cross-cultural workers find balance, deepen their relationship with God, and intentionally shape their lives and communities.

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The Rule of Life resource developed by Global Trellis:

Available through the Global Trellis shop.

Included in the Global Trellis Insiders package

BONUS if purchased before May 1, 2025: May, June, and July group zoom call with Elizabeth

Contact information for Elizabeth Forshee, who offered to provide guidance and spiritual direction through the Rule of Life process:

Website: alongthewanderingway.com

Posts by Elizabeth at the Global Trellis website

Recommended book mentioned:

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero

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This episode features a panel discussion on providing holistic care for cross-cultural workers. Members of the Global Trellis team share insights from the conference as well as common misconceptions churches have, ways churches can better support workers, and overlooked emotional and spiritual needs that impact cross-cultural workers, especially during repatriation.

Show Notes:

The Global Trellis what might jeopardize you being on the field survey results found here

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MC2.Global - Midwest Conference on Member Care

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