Girl, He’s Not In Love: He’s Just On A Conquest

Ladies, let’s talk about the performance of perfection. You know... when a man responds instantly, says “Grand Rising, beautiful” every day like it’s part of his job description, and seems like he’s straight out of the boyfriend handbook. But then — poof — that version of him mysteriously vanishes once he’s “got” you.

In this episode, we’re breaking down conquest mode vs. genuine connection, how to spot the difference, and why so many women mistake charm for character. Expect laughter, sarcasm, a few facts that’ll make you go “wait, what?”, and some brutally honest truths about modern dating. Because over here — we stay woke, hydrated, and emotionally unavailable for nonsense. 💅🏽

Alright, emotionally intelligent baddies and conscious kings — lean in for a second. Because if this episode had you side-eyeing your text thread like “hmm, is he in conquest mode or connection mode?”— then it’s time to level up your emotional game for real.

Join me at the next live session this Thursday at 7pm for Tea Time as we discuss:

“The Conquest Detox: Decoding Lust, Logic & Love.”

This isn’t your average love talk either; it’s spiritual science meets emotional strategy. We’re unpacking why your heart falls faster than your brain can fact-check, how dopamine and oxytocin trick you into mistaking attention for affection, and how to stop being the main character in someone else’s temporary storyline.

Because, baby, you’re not here to be conquered boo, you’re here to be chosen.

You deserve a connection that’s consistent even after the chase ends.

So bring your journal, your intuition, and maybe your last situationship as a case study. (We won’t judge, but we will diagnose.)

Let’s turn emotional confusion into clarity, and that heartbreak into higher standards.

Because we don’t chase...we attract, reflect, and protect our peace. Period.

🧠✨ No! But Seriously… Let’s Evolve.

🔗 Supporting Resources

• Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
• Wire for Love (What happens when someone shifts from “in pursuit” to “comfortable”)
• Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner