What happens when life shatters — and you still have to show up for your children?

In this deeply moving episode of From Tears to Triumph: A Widow’s Journey, we sit down with Allison Durst, a young widow and mother of four, to talk honestly about grief, trauma, faith, and survival after unimaginable loss.

Allison lost her husband, Will, suddenly at age 42 in a tragic car accident. Three of their children were in the car. At the same time, one of her children was battling cancer. In this conversation, Allison opens up about the first weeks of shock, the fog of grief, and the long road of helping four children grieve differently — each at their own age and stage.

We discuss:

• What the first weeks after loss really feel like

• How children grieve differently by age

• Parenting while grieving — without pretending you’re okay

• Letting kids see your grief without overwhelming them

• Trauma, flashbacks, and fear after loss

• The role of community, church, and practical support

• How to keep a spouse’s memory alive for children

• Finding meaning, purpose, and even gratitude after devastation

• Why grace — especially self-grace — is essential for widows

This episode is honest, tender, and deeply human. It’s for widows, parents, caregivers, friends walking alongside grief, and anyone who wonders how people keep going after the unthinkable.

You don’t have to have the answers.
You don’t have to be strong all the time.
You just have to take the next step.

🎙 Because grief doesn’t end — but neither does love.

Welcome back to From Tears to Triumph.

In our last episode, attorney Russ DeMott walked us through the basics of wills, trusts, and power of attorney documents. Today, Tim draws from 20 years of real-world experience working with families to share the things most people don’t know — until it’s too late.

This episode isn’t about defining legal terms.
It’s about practical, real-life lessons we’ve learned while helping clients navigate banks, hospitals, brokerage firms, and end-of-life decisions.

• Why a Power of Attorney isn’t immediately usable — and why banks often take 3–7 days (or longer) to approve it

• The biggest mistake parents make when they name two children as co-POAs

• How “springing” powers of attorney (requiring two doctors to sign off) can delay critical decisions

• Why naming beneficiaries correctly is essential for avoiding probate

• Common trust mistakes — including using dollar amounts instead of percentages

• What every family should keep in the car to make medical emergencies easier

• How to talk to your children about money, aging, and end-of-life wishes without causing conflict

These are the issues we see week after week — and our goal is to help you avoid unnecessary stress, delays, and family tension.

If you missed last week’s episode with attorney Russ DeMott, you can find it linked in the show notes.

Widows navigating finances alone
Adult children helping aging parents
Anyone unsure whether they need a will or a trust
Families wanting to avoid probate, conflict, and costly mistakes

Have questions?
We’re here to help.
Visit us at voyagefinancialpartners.com or call 843-285-7076 for guidance.

What is a power of attorney? Do you still need one after your spouse passes away? What’s the difference between a will and a trust—and how do you know which documents you actually need?

In this episode of From Tears to Triumph, Tim sits down with long-time friend and attorney Russ DeMott to break down the legal basics in a clear, compassionate way, especially for widows who feel overwhelmed by paperwork and “legalese.” Together they walk through what these documents are, why they matter, and how they can help protect you, your family, and your wishes.

🔹 Here’s what we cover:

• The difference between a general durable power of attorney and a healthcare power of attorney

• Who to choose as your agent (and common mistakes to avoid)

• What a will actually does—and what happens if you die without one

• How trusts work, why some families use them, and when they can help avoid probate

• Special considerations for widows with young children

• Why it’s important to review your documents after major life changes or a move to a new state

• How to find a trustworthy, local estate planning attorney

If you’re a widow wondering, “Do I have the right documents in place?” this conversation will help you feel more informed, prepared, and empowered to take your next step.

👉 This episode is for educational purposes only and is not legal or investment advice. Always consult a qualified attorney and financial professional in your state before making decisions about your own situation.

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