From Shame to Support: Healing Night Eating Syndrome With Executive-Function & Self-Compassion Tools

What if your nighttime eating isn’t a failure of willpower—but your body’s way of asking for safety, nourishment, and rest?

In this solo episode of Dr. Marianne-Land: An Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast, Dr. Marianne Miller explores the misunderstood world of Night Eating Syndrome (NES)—a condition that often hides behind shame and silence. Rather than framing night eating as a “bad habit,” Dr. Marianne offers a compassionate, neurodivergent-affirming lens that reveals what your body and brain are truly communicating when nighttime hunger takes over.

She unpacks how executive-function challenges, sensory processing differences, and disrupted circadian rhythmscan contribute to Night Eating Syndrome. You’ll learn how to distinguish between waking up at night to eat versus staying up late and bingeing, and why that difference matters for healing.

Dr. Marianne also shares practical ways to support your body’s natural rhythms using executive-function tools—like creating transition meals, supporting sensory needs, and building low-lift nourishment systems that actually work with your brain. Finally, she offers self-compassion strategies that help calm shame, regulate the nervous system, and restore trust in your body’s signals.

Key Topics Covered

• What Night Eating Syndrome really is—and why it’s not a moral failure

• The role of executive-function fatigue in late-night eating cycles

• How neurodivergent people may have different hunger and sleep patterns than neurotypicals

• Practical, low-lift tools to support nighttime regulation and nourishment

• How to distinguish between Night Eating Syndrome and binge eating

• The importance of self-compassion and curiosity in healing the shame cycle

Who This Episode Is For

This episode is for anyone who finds themselves eating late into the night and feeling stuck in shame or confusion afterward. It’s especially for neurodivergent adults, trauma survivors, and anyone who struggles with inconsistent eating or sleep patterns. Clinicians who work with eating disorders, ARFID, or binge eating may also find this episode helpful for supporting clients with neuroaffirming and compassion-based approaches.

Content Caution

This episode discusses eating disorder behaviors related to Night Eating Syndrome and binge eating. Listener discretion is advised. Please take care of yourself and pause if you need to.

Related Episode on Night Eating Syndrome

• Night Eating Syndrome on Apple & Spotify (my most popular podcast episode of all time!)
• Why Am I Eating at Night? Understanding Night Eating Syndrome in Your 30s, 40s, & 50s on Apple & Spotify.

Learn More and Get Support

If Night Eating Syndrome or binge eating feels familiar to you, support and recovery are possible. Inside my virtual Binge Eating Recovery Membership, you’ll find a self-paced, compassionate space to explore the roots of your eating behaviors while building executive-function skills, sensory supports, and self-trust.

Learn more at drmariannemiller.com.