• 290. Why Making More Money Won't Fix Your Money Problem (The 5 Why Shovel)
    Oct 20 2025

    "I just need to make more money" or "I just need a few more clients" If you've ever thought that... and then made more money but still didn't have enough, this episode is for you.

    Today I'm sharing why your money problem probably isn't what you think it is, and the one question that changes everything when you ask it.

    Fair warning: this goes deep. But if you're tired of the anxiety-avoidance cycle around your business finances, it's time to dig deeper.

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    17 m
  • 289. I Should Be Able to Do This on My Own… (and Why We Tell Ourselves This Lie)
    Oct 13 2025

    We’ve been taught that independence equals strength. Especially as women, we tell ourselves we should be able to do it all: the finances, the strategy, the planning, and hold it all together.

    But what if that belief is what’s keeping you stuck and exhausted? What if real strength isn’t about doing it alone?

    In this episode, I talk about why having support doesn’t make you weak, it makes you wiser. I share new research from the University of British Columbia, along with insights from my own life, my business, and what I’ve seen in my clients.

    Everything truly is better and lighter when you stop trying to carry it all yourself.

    If you’ve been telling yourself you should be able to do it all by yourself, that you shouldn’t need help, or you feel that you should have it all figured out by now, this episode is for you.

    Keywords: women entrepreneurs, business mindset, asking for help, coaching support, overwhelm, peace in business, Chaos to Peace

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    10 m
  • 288. The Path to More Peaceful Relationships
    Oct 6 2025

    What if the relationships in your life are weighing you down more than you realize? In this episode, I talk about how to identify what I call 'social clutter' - the friendships, commitments, and connections that drain your energy rather than fill you up.

    Learn the love tour technique to first appreciate your positive relationships, then honestly assess what's no longer serving you and implementing practical steps to create better boundaries.

    Episodes mentioned

    • 213 - Why a Love Tour helps you get organized
    • 219. Recognizing What Matters: Finding Your Priorities for your home and business

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    19 m
  • 287. Intuition, Logic or Rules? How to make decisions
    Sep 29 2025

    In this episode, I explore how different decision-making styles play out. I cover the range between endless research for the “perfect” option to impulsive decision for "good enough".

    I also look through the lens of the four element types (Fire, Earth, Air, and Water) and how each type approaches decisions, their common traps, and practical ways for them to move forward.

    You’ll hear about simple but powerful tools plus extra strategies tailored for those who struggle most to decide. By the end, you will know how you can make choices with more clarity, confidence, and peace.

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    21 m
  • 286. Sitting on the Fence Is for Birds, Not for You!
    Sep 22 2025

    Indecision, aka sitting on the fence, is a sneaky form of mental clutter. It drains our energy without moving us forward. In this episode, I explore what it really costs us, why half-decisions rarely work, and share a simple framework for moving off the fence into "all-in"-action.

    If you struggle with believing in yourself, I also share an insight from my mentor that made me chuckle (hint: it may or may not involve a unicorn 🦄).

    Tune in to learn how to step down, get moving, and reclaim your energy. Because sitting on the fence is for birds and squirrels, not for us humans.

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    10 m
  • 285. This Rebel's Round Robin System (to cleaning, clearing and organizing)
    Sep 15 2025

    If you're a rebel who resists rigid schedules but still wants an organized home, this episode is for you! Discover my easy-peasy Round Robin system that keeps your space clean and clutter-free with just a few minutes a day in different rooms.

    It's the anti-schedule that actually works - no marathon cleaning sessions required!

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    15 m
  • 284. Your Primary Weakness Comes from Overusing Your Primary Strength
    Sep 8 2025

    According to the Personality Theory our greatest strengths can become our biggest weaknesses, especially when we lean on them too hard.

    In this episode, I shine a light on this pattern from the perspective of the dominant elements. How the Fire type’s passion can turn into frustration, the Earth type’s reliability into stubbornness, the Air type’s brilliant ideas into scatteredness, and the Water Type’s empathy into overwhelm and blurred boundaries.

    I also weave in Jung’s wisdom on being “good vs whole,” with a timely Virgo example of how our need for results can backfire, and a personal story of how I’ve learned to work with my weaknesses instead of fighting them.

    Tune in for insights that will help you embrace both your strength and your challenges, and move from chaos to peace by becoming whole, not just “good.

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    14 m
  • 283. Be Cheerful in Your Spending (Yes, Really! here is why)
    Sep 1 2025

    What if I told you we're all paying taxes beyond what goes to the government? We pay mental taxes (worry and guilt), emotional taxes (stress and resentment), and even spiritual taxes when our spending isn't aligned with our values.

    In this episode, discover how to start shifting from money anxiety to more cheerful spending using ancient Stoic wisdom and modern mindset tools. I offer three practical techniques to transform bill-paying from dread to gratitude, plus why your spending creates positive ripple effects in the world. It's time to make peace with money!

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    16 m