In this vulnerable and fiery episode, the Shrinks crack open a raw conversation about what happens when you dare to speak your truth in a world that’s not always ready to hear it. Molly C. shares the emotional fallout of going viral on TikTok — and getting slammed for it. What started as a conversation about food boundaries quickly turned into a deep dive on childhood bullying, impostor syndrome, clinical appeasement, and the gut-punch of online criticism.

The shrinks hold space for one another while exploring big themes:

• Why it’s so hard not to dim your light when people don’t agree with you
• The survival response of people-pleasing and self-abandonment
• The spiritual test of standing in your truth, even when it’s unpopular
• How neglect and injustice can activate rage that feels bigger than the moment
• How to protect your nervous system (and your purpose) in a noisy, opinionated world

If you’ve ever questioned your right to speak up, struggled with self-doubt after rejection, or felt the inner war between being palatable and being powerful — this one’s for you.

Oh, and there’s also dating drama, a story about unmatching on Hinge, and a rallying cry to all the kids who once felt like they didn’t belong. (Spoiler: You do.)

💬 Favorite Quote:
"There is no rage so great as a neglected child."

📌 Topics Include:

• TikTok trauma and the curse of virality
• Emotional flashbacks and old wounds in new comments
• Clinical appeasement vs. embodied truth
• When you want to fight but freeze instead
• Navigating food boundaries at the dinner table and online
• Spiritual downloads, sunscreen for the soul, and showing up anyway

🧠 Bonus Takeaway:
You don’t need to be palatable to be worthy. You’re allowed to take up space as you are — imperfect, passionate, and powerful.

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Feeling like you're slogging through sludge in your recovery? You're not alone. In this vulnerable and validating episode, the Shrinks get real about what to do when the motivation to stay on track just… isn’t there. From functional freeze to emotional flatness, we unpack what it means when everything feels like too much—even when you know what to do.

We explore:

• Why recovery can feel like pushing through quicksand
• What “motivation collapse” and “functional freeze” look like in real life
• The grief that comes with ongoing transformation
• Why nervous system fatigue and willpower overload matter
• How values, compassion, and community help us recalibrate
• Why it’s OK to tread water as long as you don’t burn it all down

We also talk about being highly sensitive in a world on fire, navigating recovery in times of collective distress, and how commitment—not motivation—is what keeps the engine running when your beetle bug (aka your recovery) just won’t start.

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In this episode, the Food Shrinks crew explores a powerful, overlooked concept: fragilization. From personal stories to real recovery insights, the team explores how treating ourselves—or others—as too delicate can actually stall growth, deepen shame, and keep us stuck.

Whether it’s in addiction recovery, mental health, or just day-to-day life, fragilization can quietly shape how we show up, ask for help, and relate to our own resilience. We talk about how fragilizing ourselves in depression or post-relapse moments can reinforce powerlessness, and how others fragilizing us—even with good intentions—can feel invalidating. You’ll hear raw reflections, lots of laughs, and a serious reframe: you are not broken, and you are not fragile.

💡 Topics We Explore:

• What fragilization is—and how it shows up in recovery, families, and friendships
• The line between vulnerability and self-erasure
• Why over-helping or shielding others can disempower them
• Self-awareness beyond just self-criticism
• How diet culture and the patriarchy reinforce fragility myths
• Reclaiming your resilience and giving others space to rise

🛠️ Tools & Takeaways:

• Ask yourself: Am I being honest, or am I being a chameleon?
• Give people the chance to say no—and trust them to say yes
• Self-awareness means noticing your wins, not just your wounds
• You don’t need to break to grow
• Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is stop managing others’ feelings

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