Fight of the Century

In this episode, Josh breaks down a painful pattern that shows up again and again in relationships — finding yourself in the same fight, with a different person, and wondering what's wrong with you.

Using Muhammad Ali's obsession with rematching Joe Frazier, Josh explains why we're drawn back to the people and dynamics that hurt us the most. Not because we're broken, but because our nervous system is looking for a rematch — the same fight, this time with a different outcome.

He explores how childhood wounds quietly shape adult attraction, why "chemistry" can be a warning sign, and how unhealed pain shows up either as the same wound or its opposite.

The fight feels personal.

But it was set up a long time ago.