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(Fe)male Dominated

(Fe)male Dominated

De: Hannah Dunham & Tara Smith
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Hosted by two engineers, Hannah and Tara, this podcast dives into the messy, mayhem-filled realities of being women in STEM — the kind of stories that make you say, ‘OMG, I thought that was just me.’ With humor, honesty, and a little irreverence, we unpack the highs, lows, and hard knocks of life as a woman in a male-dominated industry, and every episode sends you off to work with one practical, no-fluff strategy you can actually use that day.


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Episodios
  • Episode 5: Motherhood - Guilt, Career Choices, & Chaos
    Nov 17 2025

    Hannah and Tara get candid about the chaos of modern motherhood—sick kids, conferences, birthday parties, and that ever-present tug-of-war between work and home. They unpack why “having it all” rarely means “all at once,” how to make peace with imperfect weeks, and the difference between avoiding guilt vs. building resilience (for you and your kids). From honoring a long-promised solo trip to Paris to inviting family to extend a work trip, they share real choices, real feelings, and zero performative perfection. Expect solidarity, not prescriptions—and a reminder that changing your mind is not failure, it’s growth.

    Timestamps (Approx.)

    • 0:00–1:20 – Welcome + Olivia Knox shoutout; Buc-ee’s birthday party legend 🦫
    • 1:20–6:30 – Hosting, sick-kid season, and deciding to do the trip anyway
    • 6:30–12:10 – “You can have it all—just not all at the same time” (and why self-care isn’t optional)
    • 12:10–18:40 – Guilt vs. resilience: letting kids feel feelings without fixing everything
    • 18:40–26:30 – The first long solo trip, mom guilt, and keeping promises to yourself
    • 26:30–33:40 – Changing plans: leaving engineering, starting a business, and the grief of pivoting
    • 33:40–39:30 – Ambition after kids: scrutinizing roles, timing, and what actually fits your life
    • 39:30–44:40 – Autonomy, equity, and why your choice ≠ letting other women down
    • 44:40–48:50 – Modeling boundaries, honest repair, and raising kids who choose you later

    Key Takeaways

    • Messy is normal. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s a rolling average that balances out over weeks, not days.
    • Keep promises to yourself. Resentment costs more than a plane ticket.
    • Guilt ≠ guidance. Let guilt inform you, not govern you. Build resilience instead of erasing discomfort.
    • Ambition can evolve. Wanting different work after kids isn’t “less driven”—it’s better aligned.
    • Autonomy is feminist. The “right” choice is the one that’s right for you, not the internet.
    • Model the relationship you want later. Apologize, repair, and lead with respect so they’ll choose you when they don’t have to.
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  • Episode 4: Picking Your Battles - Relationships & Bias
    Nov 10 2025

    Episode Summary
    Hannah and Tara get radically honest about what it actually looks like to navigate discrimination and bias as a woman in STEM—especially in male-dominated, industrial and technical spaces. They break down the difference between individual and institutional bias, share real stories from the field and the floor, and offer practical scripts for calling things out without blowing things up.

    From interruptions in meetings to “harmless” comments to full-blown inappropriate behavior, they dig into how to pick your battles, set boundaries, and hold your ground while still maintaining your reputation, relationships, and sanity. They also talk about the emotional toll of micro-moments that pile up over time, how to stop internalizing other people’s behavior, and why your presence at the table is part of changing the system—not just surviving it.

    If you’ve ever replayed a comment on the drive home wondering, “Is it me?”—this episode will remind you it isn’t, you’re not alone, and you’re not crazy.

    Timestamps (Approx.)

    • 0:00–1:30 – Welcome + intro, mission of the show, music credit to Olivia Knox
    • 1:30–6:30 – Normalizing women’s experiences in STEM
    • 6:30–12:30 – Benefit of the doubt, awareness, and “name it to tame it”
    • 12:30–20:00 – Overcorrecting, anger, and finding the confident middle
    • 20:00–29:00 – Field culture, banter, and choosing what’s actually worth escalating
    • 29:00–36:30 – Interruptions, scripts, and claiming your physical + vocal space
    • 36:30–47:30 – Women supporting (or undermining) women and being an active ally
    • 47:30–59:30 – Micro-traumas, mental health, and stepping into leadership to change the system

    Call to Action

    Loved this episode? Send it to the woman in your life who needs backup in her next meeting.
    Share your favorite line or “I’m using this script next time” moment and tag Hannah and Tara.

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  • Episode 3: Using Your Voice (Isn't Just About You)
    Nov 3 2025

    Hannah and Tara get real about using your voice at work—from interrupting interruptions to asking for the raise (again). They unpack why many women in STEM wait to be noticed, how to build advocacy as a skill through tiny reps, and when “moving on” is actually the most self-respecting form of self-advocacy. Expect practical scripts, manager-friendly tactics, and a loving nudge to stop waiting until you feel “ready.”

    Key Takeaways

    • Advocacy is a skill, not a personality trait. Start with low-stakes reps (finish your thought after an interruption, share one idea per meeting) and build up.
    • Prepare receipts, not feelings. Track wins, metrics, and impact continuously so performance convos aren’t a blank-page problem.
    • Engineer your moments. Pre-brief allies before big meetings, ask leaders to “round-robin” at the end, and use intentional silence to open space.
    • Turn “no” into “not yet.” Leave every comp/promo chat with a concrete checklist and a date to revisit.
    • Control breeds engagement. Even asking (and being told no) can restore a sense of control and reduce burnout; repeated stonewalls may mean it’s time to move on.
    • Lift as you climb. Sponsor other women publicly—amplify in meetings, send kudos emails, and redirect the spotlight.

    Chapter Guide (Approx.)

    • 00:00–02:30 Welcome + shoutout: intro/outro music by artist Olivia Knox; episode setup
    • 02:30–06:30 The bedtime story: a 9-year-old masterclass in self-advocacy
    • 06:30–11:45 Why early conditioning (be agreeable, don’t push) stalls careers—and how to rewire it
    • 11:45–15:30 Behavioral activation: tiny advocacy reps that snowball
    • 15:30–19:30 Hannah’s paper-mill story: asking for the pay that matches the work
    • 19:30–24:30 Receipts over sentiment: metrics, calendars, and a “wins” folder
    • 24:30–30:30 Mentorship vs. sponsorship; being the advocate you needed
    • 30:30–34:45 Make speaking easier: pre-meeting allies, round-robin, and productive silence
    • 34:45–39:45 “I won’t leave with a no”: converting rejection into a roadmap
    • 39:45–46:45 Control spectrum: how advocacy boosts engagement (and burnout when it’s missing)
    • 46:45–End When “moving on” is self-advocacy; listener call-in + ways to share stories

    Try-It-This-Week Micro-Challenges

    • Finish your thought: When interrupted, say: “I wasn’t finished—let me wrap this quickly.”
    • One idea rule: Share at least one idea in your next meeting.
    • Kudos ripple: Send one cross-functional kudos email naming a woman’s contribution.
    • Wins folder: Create it today; drop in one metric or praise note.

    Resources & Mentions

    • Intro/outro music by Olivia Knox (find her on Spotify/Apple Music)
    • STEM Girl Affirmations (Tara’s book)
    • Contact: femaledominatedpod@gmail.com
    • DM us on IG: @femaledominatedpod (send stories & questions), @stemwithhannah or @simplysortedstem
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